If you are reading this, then please comment. I am now in a frustrated situation and I NEED HELP.Ok, so I have a best friend in China, too, but she has another friend(who is a very mean girl)who she considers is a better friend to her than me. Now, I don't usually mind who she likes to hang out with but now I had enough. Yesterday, The mean girl and her was walking together, and then the mean girl started to call me a "stupid dork" in Chinese. And my best friend laughed and followed her lead. It made me more mad than I thought it would. What type of best friend calls you a "stupid dork"? And I had endured enough name calling in kindergarden, where everyone loves to bully me. I couldn't stop myself-I hit her. So she hit me back more times, and harder. Before I knew it, a fight was going on, and I was hitting her as hard as I could. And she blames me for having a bad temper.Then she started crying and running hone to her mommy.I admit, in my class now I was kind of popular, every girl liked me. So even if she turns against me I have the rest of the girls(except the mean girl) to back me up. But it doesn't feel good. And now she's still mad at me. Don't tell me to go and apologize after she called me a "stupid dork", it does not fit my personality. But I don't want ot lose a friend either, just like that. If you say I'm cold and enotionless, you're wrong. I wanted to cry then, too but after all the things I've been though since I came back to China, I learned to control my feelings well. I ignored the lump in my throat, and headed home without a single glance back. This is my worst fight since I entered elementary school. I need advice-TERRIBLY. Please, help me out. Thank you.
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