I don't want people in my life who care only for themselves. The ones who think they know you, and should cause they have been with you growing up but yet their just stupid. I say stupid because stupid is very different from dumb. Being dumb is something you cant help, but being stupid it completely by choice. These are the people who don't care about how what they do effects those their around, as if as long as their happy all is well in the world. And as much as you want to hate them you cant hate what they have become because you know what they could be. What they used to be. . .
You know what else bugs me? Everyone knows the type of person I am about to mention. Its not the same as the kind of person I spoke of above. But they make their way in life by putting others down and constantly judging. When in reality pointing out the faults of others just makes them feel more secure about their own pathetic lives. I know ones like this from back home, and have met new ones here. As fast as you run, or as hard as you fight you can escape them. Their the ones that suck the life out of you and you cant ever really figure out why your so tired and emotionally drained when your in their presence. I used to be angry with the individuals in my life like this, but now I have sympathy for them. They live their lives the best they know how, they don't know how to be a good friend/husband/wife/daughter/son/mother/father. . . Pointing out the flaws in others helps fill the void of loneliness they feel, and will always feel. Why will they always feel this way? Because know one wants to have a long lasting close relationship with someone who doesn't make them feel good. So they will walk through life with no real friends, and pushing the few people that have to care about them away. Its really a sad sight when you come upon it. The saddest part is their probably the most flawed people you will ever meat, and instead of improving themselves they pick those around them apart. I feel pity for such ones, I really do.
· Tue Feb 10, 2009 @ 08:58pm · 0 Comments