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Breaking Up With Someone
Q:
how n' the world do u break up wit sm one *bangs head against desk repeadidly* i dont no wtf 2 do ?_?

A:
hmm well you certainly don't want to hurt the person's feelings.

You basically say something like this.

"Listen, I think you and I are great but personally i feel as if I need to move on, can we be friends"

now the person may ask why you want to break up with him/her. You just tell them politely why you wanna break up... if it's for another person then that's not such a great reason to break up with someone or if you're friends don't have a real reason and are tellin you to break up.

The person may also want to be friends with you, but if they're being like, childish and saying "no we have to be together, being just friends is stupid"

I mean some one broke up with me like this. He asked me if we can be friends instead. It's hard depending on the relationship, like on how far you went with the person. Like if you had any kind of sexual intamacy it'll be a awhile for the person to agree to being just friends. If it was sweet and simple like just kissing, hugging, and holding hands. It might be easier for them to agree to it. Then again, it depends on the person's personality.

Sorry for making this so long, but this is the load down i can give you on this wanting for advice.

Good Luck!!

Paikachu
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