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Humans are humans, no matter how hard they try, they cannot live without giving and receiving pain, some of them want their pain to be inflicted on others, some of them just live by the pain.

So I have realised that we can get used to the pain, but as in exchange, we turn colder, it's a huge sacrifice, it's not the right path but it could keep us alive more time.

Once the sacrifice is done, an emotional shield appears, the problem is the instability of such protective method as it's made by humans, it can be destroyed by humans.

But then I wonder, which is the most wise option, The shield to deflect pain or by getting used to it.

There's a thin line between love and hate, and some people don't get this, in simple words, this would be an explanation:

When you love someone, you have a particular feeling reflected on that person, it's not only the love you have for that person but also the love you have gained through your emotions, therefore you are sharing a part of you, when love is gone, that part of you fights for the needed amount that is going away, it's like losing a part of your body. When that part cannot be recovered then we learn to live without it, but the loss of it will always be remembered and the new feeling will change the emotion, turning it into lack of love, and what's the lack of love? something very close to the hate emotion, thus, combined the lack of love with the nostalgic feeling of the lost part and infinite emotions we could add, we got to the other line, the hate line.