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PRE-SCENE NEGOTIOATION QUESTIONAIRE this private information will not go into a government file, on your permanent school record, or be given to your mother, so be honest
Part 1: General Information - check all that apply
1)SM scene experience - a) novice b) experienced
2)Sexual orientation - a)heterosexual b) bicurious c)bisexual d)gay
3)Gender orientation - a)male b)female c) crossdresser d) transexual
4)Dominant - a) always b) often c) rarely d) never
5)Submissive - a) always b) often c) rarely d) never
6)Massochistic - a) very b) somewhat c) hardly d) no, those people scare me
7)Sadistic - a) very b) somewhat c) hardly d) no, those people scare me
cool main interest - a) sensual-physical (bottom/top) b)psychosexual-mental (dominant/submissive role play) c)both are equally important
9)Will play at - a) anywhere b) my house/apartment c) outdoors d) parties e)at SMclubs f)public - near my home g)public - a safe distance from home
10)Who can know of your activities - a)I'm so discreet i don't even know what I am doing b)Private play-only my partner needs to know c)A few very trusted friends d)Other scene people can know e)Willing to be in Madonna's next book
11) How do you feel about other people in your scene - a) I only play with myself b) just me & my partner c) threesome d) small groups e) the more the merrier f) pre-approved people only
12) How do you feel about service (cleaning, errands, etc. ) - a) I live to serve b) Helping my dominant in little ways makes me feel good c) It is part of the fantasy, but don't overdo it d) Exploitive nonsense, I will do what is fun
13) How do you feel about punishment - a) It is part of training and a right of the dominant b) penalties for "disobedience" enhance the fantasy c) It can be be okay as an excuse to have fun d) Pointless; mutual pleasure needs no justification
14) What bruises or body marks are acceptable - a) leave my body as is or i call my lawyer b) temporary redness- gone in a few hours c) occasional accidental bruises are okay d) i expect to carry souvenir bruises for a week e) my a** should look like a road map of Chile
Sample roles: Amazon*Baby*Barbarian*b***h-goddess*Boss*Burglar*Child*Clergy*Cowboy(girl)* Daddy*Doctor*Evil Priest(ess)*Femme Fatale*French Maid*God(ess)*Hooker *Indian*Ingenue*Inquisitor*Hero*Kidnap Victim*Knight*Leather-Macho*Master* Mentor*Mistress*Mommy*Nun*Nurse*Rapist*Role Reversal*Perils of Pauline* Pet*Pimp*Pirate*Policeman*Ponygirl(boy)*POW*Prince(ss)*Principal*Prisoner* Puppy*Sage*Savage*Scientist*Secretary*Sex Object*Sissy*Slave*Slave Owner *Slut*student*Suspet*Teacher*Teen*Torturer*VictIm*Warrior*Wild Beast
Roles I want to play (using above list & own ideas):
Roles i want a partner to play:
Fetishes(example: foot worship, body types):
Wants & perceived needs:
Medical, physical, or emotional concerns(past breaks, sprains, chronic conditions, phobias):
Limits:
Part 2: Preferred Activities
A list of some scene activities with typical responses. Pick the closest response and use the answers dom (D) and sub (S) enter number (or symbol) indicating their level of interest.
(1) Yes!! (pant, drool) (2) Mmmmmmm, I like this (3) Doesn't excite me, but i'd do it for you, darling (4) Absolutly not, i will call the cops (*) Intriguing, but scary; would push my limits (!) Embarrassed to admit wanting/force me, please!
S D Corporal ______1. spanking (hand) ______2. leather paddle ______3. wodden paddle ______4. belt/strap ______5. switch ______6. deerskin cat ______7. leather cat ______8. braided cat ______9. rubber whip ______10. knotted whip ______11. single lash ______12. taws ______13. cane (rattan) ______14. fiberglass/plastic rod ______15. riding crop ----------Bondage---------- ______16. mental bondage ______17. silk scarves ______18. nylon rope ______19. cotton rope ______20. chains ______21. leather bonds ______22. spandek bonds ______23. plastic wrap ______24. body bags ______25. gags ______26. leather cuffs ______27. steel shackles ______28. arm sleeves ______29. straight jacket ______30. breast bondage ______31. genital bondage ______32. infibulation ______33. spreader bars ______34. ceiling/wall hooks ______35. cages ______36. slings/swings ______37. stocks/pillory ______38. crosses ______39. suspension (on toes) ______40. suspension (full) ______41. outdoor setting ______42. indoor setting ______43. public setting ______44. semi-public setting ______45. private setting ______46. 1-3 hour duration ______47. 3-6 hour duration ______48. overnight duration ----------Torture & Sensory Deprivation---------- ______49. blindfolds ______50. hoods ______51. headphones/ear-plugs ______52. tickling ______53. feathers & fur ______54. sexual teasing ______55. sexual denial ______56. chastity belt ______57. pinching ______58. hair pulling ______59. n****e clips ______60. clothes pins ______61. genital torture ______62. weights ______63. c**k rings ______64. ball stretchers ______65. water torture ______66. ice ______67. oils, lotions, spices ______68. hot wax ______69. fire & ice ______70. needles ______71. cuttings ______72. abrasion ______73. electric torture ----------Sex---------- ______74. digital sex ______75. directed masturbation ______76. vaginal sex ______77. oral sex ______78. vibrator/d***o ______79. strap-ons ______80. a**l sex ______81. a**l plug ______82. multiple penetration ______83. analingus ______84. vaginal fisting ______85. a**l fisting ______86. fantasy rape ______87. directed bisexuality ______88. threesome ______89. group ----------Humiliation & Exhibition---------- ______90. foot kissing ______91. kneeling ______92. crawling ______93. lead on leash ______94. dirty words ______95. verbal abuse ______96. public embarrassment ______97. face slapping ______98. crossdressing ______99. secret sex in pblic ______100. public display ______101. public sex ______102. public whipping ______103. infantilism ______104. golden shower ______105. enema ----------Dress & Adornment------ ______106. innocent ______107. slutty ______108. prim & proper ______109. ultra-feminine ______110. official domina goddess uniform ______111. french maid ______112. child/baby ______113. slave ______114. macho ______115. biker ______116. leather ______117. spandex ______118. rubber/latex ______119. masks/hoods ______120. costumes ______121. lingerie ______122. garters/stockings ______123. corsets/cinches ______124. boots ______125. high heels ______126. tattooing ______127. body piercing ______128. branding
Comments & added items:
How do you like it? (use all that apply): (N) never (T) thuddy (S) stingy (L) light (M) medium (ouch) (H) heavy (hurts) (?) unsure
Part of body: bondage corporal torture back & shoulders bottom & thighs breasts & chests genitals feet & ankles wrists
Part 3 - Checklist (we have disscussed): __ Limits and safe words __ Exclusivity and depth of relationship __ Sex and birth control __ Safer sex - current health (infectious diseases, HIV, STDs, herpes), testing, preventative measures (condoms, dental dams)
Kamen Rider Ryldlyn · Tue May 13, 2008 @ 04:11am · 3 Comments |
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