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As life goes, it is a rollercoaster, always full of ups and downs and spirals. Well, finally after a long slope downwards, a huge peak has eneterd my life, and his name is Gav, my new boyfriend.
On the 22nd of October, after not seeing him for ages, Gav came round, accompanied with a Vikki. Me and him hadn't seen each other for over a year, due to me not leaving the house much and being unable to go to the band rehersals of our mates band (They are called Karcharodon, look them up on MYspace for old music, just be warned, their style is changing for the better, but their old stuff is still pretty good). So yeah, he was wondering how I was while at Vikkis, so he suggested they come see me. Well, this was a suprise on its own, but a good one, and it lead to us three going out to the arcades on the seafront. It was nice, while Vikki played the 2p machines, Gav and I often spent the time outside catching up and having a nice ciggarette. And then we all arranged to meet up with Nikitta the next day and go to the pub.
Well, that day was good too, Nikitta and Vikki were kids, playing games and 2p machines, having a laugh, while Gav and I were more parenty, being the responsible adults and chatting, and yes, smoking too. And we still talked for ages that day. We even sat in his car for a good 6 and a half hours, just chatting once Vikki and Nikitta had left. Well, this wasn't strange for us, we knew we got on well together, and so we chatted and chatted and smoked, and fox watched, cos there are tonnes of those critters near my house most of the time. It was nice, talking to him and all that, and knowing he was gonna be bored the next day, he invited to pick me up and watch films round his house.
And my gawd, does he have a nice house. His parents are really nice too. So yeah, we watched Nuimber 23 and Robin Hood Men in Tights. Teehee, so fun. We cuddled and such, all in a friendly manner. And yes, we met up again the next day, and this is when we realised we liked each other in... unconventional ways. lol. Well, even though we were really strongly attracted to each other, I had niggling feelings about dating at that time. I was taking a break from dating cos the last relationship I had, well, it didnt go too well (I felt like I was a prisoner in my own home, and being socially suffocated by that guy).
Anyway, we met again the next day, and I decided to say bugger to all the bad thoughts about dating again and said to Gav I'd love to date him, and boy was that the best decision I made. He is adorable, sweet, kind, funny, sure, a little bit teasing, but in a fun way. Its no suprise we are happy together, I mean, we were mates for two years. And I actually havent been this happy in my life EVER.
Well, I say that, it sure started rocky. A week into mine and his relationship, his ex contacts him, wanting to talk. Well, that was her original excuse, but the truth is she wanted him back, but he didnt want her back, cos not only was he with me, but he also lost his feelings for her a while before they split up, and she didnt exactly treat him the best. Hell, she even forgot about their two year anniversary!!! But he met with her to tal, and this fuelled her anger. She wanted him back, and if she couldnt have him, she didnt want anyone to, so she set out, calling him excessively, and met him again once.
Well, he wasnt going back to her, so she got nasty. She started spreading rumours that he and her slept togehter whie he was with me, literally in my presence at that ttime, what a twit of an idea she had then, and of course, it didnt work. So when she found that out, she started saying she was preggy,and needed money from him to have an abortion. Well, there were a few things wrong with her idea there too. Firstly, she said she found out she was preggy a week into it, which is actually physically impossible, secondly that it costs at a free NHS clinic. So yeah, once caught out, she dropped it all and has promised to never talk to him again. Lets see if that lasts.
Well, along with Amy, there was another problem in mine and Gav's relationship - his best mate Faye. Him and her had had a thing a couple of weeks before I came into Gav's life again, but she was taken at that time, and mucked about breaking up with her boyfriend. Well, if she had, she and Gav would have become an item, but all the playing around she did pushed Gav away and made way for me. But when she finally decided she wanted Gav more than her boyfriend, it was too late, and she started off on one. She kept coming to his house, talking to him and mentioning that she liked him a lot. Well, I thnk that was to make Gav feel guilty and break up with me to save her feelings. But that didnt work.
So yeah, through all that, Gav and I are to celebrate our 8 weeks of dating tomorrow, and we couldnt be happier. I could really see him and I lasting ages, and I hope we do, cos I really do love him deeply.
 Karaguni · Thu Dec 20, 2007 @ 03:17pm · 0 Comments |
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