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 Posted: Mon Aug 14, 2006 8:07 am
I need some help... Most of you guys are mums and then others of you are very smart. I'm going to talk about my love life sweatdrop It needs some help and I really don't know where else to go.... I thought about posting this in purkle and I still might since there are more mums and other ages in there.....
The past 2 guys I've dated I haven't like.... The frist one was a total a** and this one I'm with now is so hyper he reminds me of a puppy who just can't help themselves scream And no their not my frist boyfriends Ihave had like 5 before them but I've gotten through 2 guys this year >< I've come to a point in my life when I don't even look at men when they walk by...I'm so upset with the last two guys i've been with I don't care if I'm every with another man again.. Is this bad? Or have we all seen that I like women but me? I feel so lost right now I really need a shoulder to cry on
(I'm sure there are spelling and type-o I just don't feel like reading over it and fixing them sorry cry )
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Posted: Tue Aug 15, 2006 7:23 am
I don't think anything is wrong with you. Maybe you are just at a point in your life where you don't know what you want. Trust me, men can be jerks no matter what their age.
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Posted: Wed Aug 16, 2006 12:06 pm
roocee I don't think anything is wrong with you. Maybe you are just at a point in your life where you don't know what you want. Trust me, men can be jerks no matter what their age. ... although I would change that to *people* instead of specifying just the male gender. Perhaps it is more a matter of choosing the person - the qualities that you like, more than getting yourself hung up on gender...? Or perhaps you just need a break from the whole dating scene!! There is absolutely nothing wrong with choosing to be alone for a while - sometimes it's the best thing you could do for yourself!! Good luck!
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Posted: Wed Aug 16, 2006 4:20 pm
i'd say you need some me time Lilim.
I used to go out with men just because they liked me, and i'd get fed up with them within a few months, but you see i didn't know any better.
It was only after i actually fell in love that i realised what i'd been doing before, and now someone really has to sweep me off my feet to get even half a chance of being part of my life, hence my single status for the past 2 years!
You're a great girl Lilim,very pretty with a lot of personality too, but you're young, and the guys you'll be dating will be young too, when men are generally at their most idiotic rolleyes
Some people find it hard to be single at your age, they feel the need to be on someone's arm to feel worthwhile, but you don't need that.
Can you tell me, your last 2 boyfriends, did they chase you? You may be doing the same as i did, don't think that you might be gay and not realise just because you don't like your boyfriends much, that's probably over complicating the situation.
I agree with Orange, you could simply need a break from it all, immerse yourself in your own interests for a while, go on a voyage of self discovery, make some new friends, but steer clear of romance for a while, until the real thing creeps up on you and suprises you maybe 3nodding
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Posted: Sun Aug 20, 2006 6:18 am
You guys are making some good points....Yes men are jerks but alot of women are also. So it's just going to be the samething no matter what i date crying And Poppetts you make the biggest point that's really touched me most of all... I mostly go out because I have too mum dosen't want me to turn down anyone she talks me into dating guys all the time >< I was maddly in love with someone once and my mum told me i couldn't be with him ever. Him and I were planning on getting married someday... After school and after we kinda knew how hard and sick the real world was.... crying since then I've had 3ish other boyfriends and i haven't been happy with any of them
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Posted: Sun Aug 20, 2006 2:01 pm
wow, your Mum needs to let you live your own life sweatdrop
You're such a pretty girl, you seriously don't need someone else matchmaking for you. Every woman needs to enjoy being single at some point in their lives, i don't think you become a whole person until you have done that.
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Posted: Mon Aug 21, 2006 11:15 pm
Poppetta wow, your Mum needs to let you live your own life sweatdrop You're such a pretty girl, you seriously don't need someone else matchmaking for you. Every woman needs to enjoy being single at some point in their lives, i don't think you become a whole person until you have done that.
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Posted: Fri Aug 25, 2006 8:18 pm
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