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 Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 7:30 am
Ok, I do feel a bit stupid asking this but I'm doing it since I don't know an answer.
Well recently my bf has been fingering me down there and alougth it's not totally in my comfort levels he always respects when I want him to stop. Even though I just said it's not totally in my comfort levels I do like it.
But being as stupid as I am I'm not sure if what to do to him to give him pleasure. I know you can give a guy blow jobs but I don't know how.
I know it's a bit idiotic not knowing but any advice will be much appreciated.
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Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 8:29 am
Here's a suggestion:
Have you tried kissing his neck/ears/or him while he's fingering you?
Just light kisses, or hard if you prefer.
He may like it.
You can also give him a hand job.
And if you don't know tell him your not sure if your doing it right and try different things out.
You might besurprised what you can find out.
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Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 9:56 am
+Horror.In.Wonderland+ Here's a suggestion:
Have you tried kissing his neck/ears/or him while he's fingering you?
Just light kisses, or hard if you prefer.
He may like it.
You can also give him a hand job.
And if you don't know tell him your not sure if your doing it right and try different things out.
You might besurprised what you can find out. No, to be honest I've been a bit too nervous to do anything but since I know my trust levels are high with him I can relax a bit. I'll try that. Ok. And if it's ok to ask how would I start off redface It's a bit frustrating not knowing but I'll ask anyway even with embarassment lol.
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Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 11:48 am
[CherryBlossom] +Horror.In.Wonderland+ Here's a suggestion:
Have you tried kissing his neck/ears/or him while he's fingering you?
Just light kisses, or hard if you prefer.
He may like it.
You can also give him a hand job.
And if you don't know tell him your not sure if your doing it right and try different things out.
You might besurprised what you can find out. No, to be honest I've been a bit too nervous to do anything but since I know my trust levels are high with him I can relax a bit. I'll try that. Ok. And if it's ok to ask how would I start off redface It's a bit frustrating not knowing but I'll ask anyway even with embarassment lol. O.o hmm. Try nibbling at him. that might get him going a little try that on his neck.
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Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 12:29 pm
well i get turned on easily when i was with my ex and pretty much when she hugged me and i felt her kinda rub against it, it drove me crazy!! so play with him a bit try to figure out what turns him on and what not, see what pleases him
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Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 12:47 pm
[CherryBlossom] +Horror.In.Wonderland+ Here's a suggestion:
Have you tried kissing his neck/ears/or him while he's fingering you?
Just light kisses, or hard if you prefer.
He may like it.
You can also give him a hand job.
And if you don't know tell him your not sure if your doing it right and try different things out.
You might besurprised what you can find out. No, to be honest I've been a bit too nervous to do anything but since I know my trust levels are high with him I can relax a bit. I'll try that. Ok. And if it's ok to ask how would I start off redface It's a bit frustrating not knowing but I'll ask anyway even with embarassment lol. it might be a good idea to look around the internet for male masturbation tips, and just convert them to handjobs. you know, find out all the right places and what to do with them. also, ask him what he likes... anything he can tell you might be useful, as not all guys are the same.
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Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 1:30 pm
I'm going to try kissing his neck and try to find out tips off the internet to what he likes. He's my first bf and I'm also his first gf so he might not know what he likes either? From what I've heard from his friends he's not done much with girls and he does seem to get a little nervous to.
Any more help will be very much appreciate though.
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Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 1:47 pm
[CherryBlossom] I'm going to try kissing his neck and try to find out tips off the internet to what he likes. He's my first bf and I'm also his first gf so he might not know what he likes either? From what I've heard from his friends he's not done much with girls and he does seem to get a little nervous to. Any more help will be very much appreciate though. awww how kawaii. ^^ i see now, that changes everything. hmmm, im a shooming you know what you like him to do to you to make you happy right?
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Posted: Sat Jul 15, 2006 6:01 am
AkuraTheCrow [CherryBlossom] I'm going to try kissing his neck and try to find out tips off the internet to what he likes. He's my first bf and I'm also his first gf so he might not know what he likes either? From what I've heard from his friends he's not done much with girls and he does seem to get a little nervous to. Any more help will be very much appreciate though. awww how kawaii. ^^ i see now, that changes everything. hmmm, im a shooming you know what you like him to do to you to make you happy right? We've not done much but I like when he kisses my neck and the way he touchesme down there. (and they way when I just lie into his arms on his bed but I guess you weren't talking about that xp )
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Posted: Sat Jul 15, 2006 9:08 am
You sound a lot like my ex and I. smile We started dating when we were 16, and we were both each other's first boyfriend and girlfriend. I had a better idea of what I liked because I was into sex and porn, and I knew my body fairly well. He didn't know himself as well, but we both learned about ourselves and each other as we went along. Speaking from experience, a few things to think about: 1) Communication. Bolded because it's so important. If there's something you want to try, or something you want him to know about yourself (maybe you like where he touches you in a certain spot, etc), then tell him. He's most likely not going to know until you tell him, unless he can read minds. Vice versa for him, too. And if there's anything new you two want to experience or try out with each other, you need to talk to the other person before doing anything, so you can find out whether or not they're comfortable with your idea. Again, this applies to your boyfriend too. Besides sex, communication has another use: If you're having problems with the relationship, talk it out. Don't bottle it up inside, because eventually that person is going to explode, and that's always harder to deal with. My boyfriend and I always, always talk our problems out almost immediately after they happen, and it works. 2) Resources. Besides looking things up online, you can try reading books too. Most bookstores have a Sexuality section, or something like it, and you can flip through some of the books there. Your local library might have a similar section, or an Erotica section, etc. 3) As you're learning, don't make orgasm/ejaculation the ultimate goal. If it happens then it happens, but the most important thing should be enjoying what you're doing, and enjoying sharing something to intimate with your partner. Orgasm/ejaculation is just a bonus. 4) There's some stickies in this subforum and in this guild that you might find useful. For starts, the Oral and a**l Sex Sticky: http://www.gaiaonline.com/guilds/viewtopic.php?t=466747It has information on blowjobs, if it's something you think you might want to try, and I think it might have handjob info in there as well. If not, then it's in another sticky. I know it's in the guild somewhere.
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Posted: Sat Jul 15, 2006 10:19 am
[CherryBlossom] AkuraTheCrow [CherryBlossom] I'm going to try kissing his neck and try to find out tips off the internet to what he likes. He's my first bf and I'm also his first gf so he might not know what he likes either? From what I've heard from his friends he's not done much with girls and he does seem to get a little nervous to. Any more help will be very much appreciate though. awww how kawaii. ^^ i see now, that changes everything. hmmm, im a shooming you know what you like him to do to you to make you happy right? We've not done much but I like when he kisses my neck and the way he touchesme down there. (and they way when I just lie into his arms on his bed but I guess you weren't talking about that xp ) take it slow ok. the both of you. As long as you like that, its ok but if it gets to the point where you dont, then stop. ok. Oh and one suggestion is this. DO NOT look for porn for idea. Ok. It wont help you at all. Im 24 and i dont even look at it. Not that it sickens me or anything but i think its all fack and that a real lady wouldn't do that. Just experenment more and dont ask your friends ether. cause everyone is really different. somethings make some people happy the others it hurts. so dont leasen to them. and its all about trust too.
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Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2006 3:03 am
my girlfreind likes to run her fingers on the bulge in my pants
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Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2006 12:46 pm
AkuraTheCrow take it slow ok. the both of you. As long as you like that, its ok but if it gets to the point where you dont, then stop. ok. Oh and one suggestion is this. DO NOT look for porn for idea. Ok. It wont help you at all. Im 24 and i dont even look at it. Not that it sickens me or anything but i think its all fack and that a real lady wouldn't do that. Just experenment more and dont ask your friends ether. cause everyone is really different. somethings make some people happy the others it hurts. so dont leasen to them. and its all about trust too. I know this is a bit old, but I disagree. I take offense that a real "lady" wouldn't do some of the things. That's great you have your morals and ideals that you are above porn, but not everyone is like that. I don't know if you;ve ever watched one or watched any specials about the porn industry, it's not all "fack" like you think. Personally, talking with friends, watching porn can't hurt. I don't view sex as a shameful thing and sometimes talking about experiences with close friends (real ones) you can learn some things. Of course don't mimic, but you can still learn some things with them. No offense, but you've said you're a virgin several times, so how do you know those things don't work?
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Posted: Sat Aug 12, 2006 12:01 am
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Posted: Sat Aug 12, 2006 2:13 am
Nikolita You sound a lot like my ex and I. smile We started dating when we were 16, and we were both each other's first boyfriend and girlfriend. I had a better idea of what I liked because I was into sex and porn, and I knew my body fairly well. He didn't know himself as well, but we both learned about ourselves and each other as we went along. Speaking from experience, a few things to think about: 1) Communication. Bolded because it's so important. If there's something you want to try, or something you want him to know about yourself (maybe you like where he touches you in a certain spot, etc), then tell him. He's most likely not going to know until you tell him, unless he can read minds. Vice versa for him, too. And if there's anything new you two want to experience or try out with each other, you need to talk to the other person before doing anything, so you can find out whether or not they're comfortable with your idea. Again, this applies to your boyfriend too. Besides sex, communication has another use: If you're having problems with the relationship, talk it out. Don't bottle it up inside, because eventually that person is going to explode, and that's always harder to deal with. My boyfriend and I always, always talk our problems out almost immediately after they happen, and it works. 2) Resources. Besides looking things up online, you can try reading books too. Most bookstores have a Sexuality section, or something like it, and you can flip through some of the books there. Your local library might have a similar section, or an Erotica section, etc. 3) As you're learning, don't make orgasm/ejaculation the ultimate goal. If it happens then it happens, but the most important thing should be enjoying what you're doing, and enjoying sharing something to intimate with your partner. Orgasm/ejaculation is just a bonus. 4) There's some stickies in this subforum and in this guild that you might find useful. For starts, the Oral and a**l Sex Sticky: http://www.gaiaonline.com/guilds/viewtopic.php?t=466747It has information on blowjobs, if it's something you think you might want to try, and I think it might have handjob info in there as well. If not, then it's in another sticky. I know it's in the guild somewhere. As i go thrue all the topics at this Guild, i still cant belive that u can write all that down, i mean, i can talk that much, but im not so much for writing. 3nodding And u are havng really good points to!...just one thing though wink Doesnt point 3 sounds a bit strange, i mean, last time i sheckt, everyone that it was stimulating getting a orgasm/ejection! smile Cuz i understand what u are saying, but i would rather say that its something that is importend to learn if u want to give/get a really good pleasure. Rather then saying that its a bonus...cuz then it sounds like its nothing special. xp Im not saying that u should rewrite it or that u was wrong or anything, 3nodding i just like to say what i think
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