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Posted: Sun Apr 30, 2006 7:23 pm
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Posted: Sun Apr 30, 2006 7:50 pm
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Posted: Sun Apr 30, 2006 10:24 pm
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I'm sorry, I have trouble praying. I have tried to pray, but I'm going through alot right now. It's getting better, I went from not praying at all to trying to pray. He has proposed to me, but I don't know what to say. I'm still just in High School, so we can't have an acctual wedding until later. I haven't answered yet, but you do make a good point with marriage. I want to spend the rest of my life with him, I really do, I want to grow old with him, I can't picture my life without him. God sent him to me, to help me, but I can't except the help if I don't want it. I am so confused. I think I will do more than try to pray tonight, I think I will. I need God more than ever.
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Posted: Mon May 01, 2006 10:29 am
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Posted: Mon May 01, 2006 10:35 am
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When you mentioned God bringing him to you perhaps this is why. Perhaps if you do throw away the knife it's as what the other poster said. Maybe instead of a real knife you can have a picture? Or he can be your reminder of what all you've over come.
Crimson_Enigma I'm sorry, I have trouble praying. I have tried to pray, but I'm going through alot right now. It's getting better, I went from not praying at all to trying to pray. He has proposed to me, but I don't know what to say. I'm still just in High School, so we can't have an acctual wedding until later. I haven't answered yet, but you do make a good point with marriage. I want to spend the rest of my life with him, I really do, I want to grow old with him, I can't picture my life without him. God sent him to me, to help me, but I can't except the help if I don't want it. I am so confused. I think I will do more than try to pray tonight, I think I will. I need God more than ever.
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Posted: Mon May 01, 2006 12:36 pm
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LittlePinky82 When you mentioned God bringing him to you perhaps this is why. Perhaps if you do throw away the knife it's as what the other poster said. Maybe instead of a real knife you can have a picture? Or he can be your reminder of what all you've over come. Crimson_Enigma I'm sorry, I have trouble praying. I have tried to pray, but I'm going through alot right now. It's getting better, I went from not praying at all to trying to pray. He has proposed to me, but I don't know what to say. I'm still just in High School, so we can't have an acctual wedding until later. I haven't answered yet, but you do make a good point with marriage. I want to spend the rest of my life with him, I really do, I want to grow old with him, I can't picture my life without him. God sent him to me, to help me, but I can't except the help if I don't want it. I am so confused. I think I will do more than try to pray tonight, I think I will. I need God more than ever.
Maybe you're right. I have alot of thinking I'm going to have to do. I may not be on for a couple of days. Thanks for the advice you two.
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Posted: Mon May 01, 2006 1:19 pm
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Posted: Mon May 01, 2006 8:37 pm
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I just got back from talking with my boyfriend. I am so scared, I don't know what's wrong with me. I was talking with him about our relationship and explaining how important the knife was to me, he said I could keep it, but he wanted me to clean it. I said I would agree to the two promises, but then I asked him something. I can't remember what, but something I said came out wrong and hurt his feelings. We got in an argument and I just started crying for no reason, I couldn't stop. I held the phone to my ear and just kept crying. I cried for an hour and thirty minutes, just holding the phone. I couldn't say anything, everytime I tried to say something it came out as a sob. I was choking every time I opened my mouth.
I think I was having a panic attack. I told him what I thought about the relationship, I remember something about me saying a waste of time, I think he took it the wrong way. Then I asked him if he still wanted to be my boyfriend, he said no. I then asked are we over, and he said yes. I wanted to hang the phone up, but I couldn't because then that would make it final. I just held it and cried. I started shaking and rocking back and forth, trying to make something come out of my mouth. I couldn't say anything. My boyfriend asked me what was wrong and if I was okay, but I just shook my head yes, I couldn't speak, and he couldn't see me shaking my head. I don't know what's wrong with me? I don't know what happened? Someone please tell me what happened.
My boyfriend and me are still going out, but I'm so scared. I was so afraid of being alone, of going back to the way I was three years ago. I am afraid of myself, I don't want to be alone. I can't be alone or I will go back to the way I was. I know it, that's why I was so upset. That's why I couldn't say anything, because I was so alone. It was just me in the world, all alone, by myself. I...I...I'm so scared. Someone tell me what's happening. Someone tell me what's wrong with me? Please....someone...anyone.
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Posted: Tue May 02, 2006 8:56 am
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Posted: Tue May 02, 2006 3:07 pm
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Thanks for commenting, it means alot to me that people care. I talked to him today and the situation is better, but it scares me even more to know all my happiness is rooted to this one person. I told myself over and over that I was alone, but whenever I truly was, I broke down. Am I crazy? I mean I cried so much and so hard over him. I really do love him and I couldn't live without him, I just couldn't. After the three years I put myself through. With all the cutting and drug abuse, and the atempted suicides, I really had nothing left of me. I had nothing that made me pure and innocent, that made me worthy of living. All I had left was my virginity. I gave that to him also. I gave him everything I had left of myself. I gave him the only thing that kept me pure. I gave him all I had. I care about him so much, I just can't live without him. I am afraid to leave him because he has the only thing I had left of myself. And it hurt so much to be so alone. I'll never be okay, not after yesterday. Never.
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Posted: Tue May 02, 2006 9:33 pm
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Posted: Wed May 03, 2006 6:45 am
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Posted: Wed May 03, 2006 2:39 pm
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Posted: Thu May 04, 2006 11:14 pm
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Posted: Fri May 05, 2006 2:38 pm
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