How do you deal with bullies?

[ch3rry_l0ve]

didnt rly deal with bullys before...
no one rly does in our school,
except for ppl who smoke at school and got caught``  

[mitsuo01]

Is picking on friends bullying? If so I'm a bully. xd I also pick on the students on my 5th period TA Japanese 1 class. Its fun. xd They know i'm just doing it for fun, and they dont take offence. I also threaten them, but also in good fun. 3nodding xd  

[vietdreams]

I get bullied most of the time just because people don't know me. I mean some of them from the start just start picking on me just becuase i'm " smart" .they'll be saying bad things about me, but hen it comes to answers they come to me. But like over the past few years, these people who bullied me got to know me better and they actually said sorry. So the way i deal with it is just ignoring them. The only reasonw hy they bully you is to irritate people, or make poeple feel the way they are feeling. But I have never been bullied the way you have been bullied.  

[INSANE RANDOMNESS]

I bring a bullies confidence down... not that hard!  

[~MuNkEy~MuNcHeR102~]

thw way i confront bullies is i beat the s**t out of them
im chinese and we aint afraid of any other ppl
we get bullied and we got our friends behind our backs
if 1 of us get jumped, then we all hunt dat muthafu*ka down  

[iiLukaii]

i just beat da hell outta of dem till they stop...cause i dont take stuff from ANYONE i even talk back to my own mom...so if i do dat to my mom...what u expect from some guy talking smack...  

[2DsGuitar]

i go all jet lee on them cause they know I can whoop their @$$ mrgreen . Plus I gotz known since I'm cool with every1  

[Angmar01]

fear well always be the best tool ^_  

[happynhyper]

ignore  

[chink-e]

where do u live??!!!!!! if u live in east london!!!! (where i live) u can get a bunch of chinese ppl to jump him!!! I'm being serious!!!!!
but if u dont live there.......just get all your mates together and then jump him!!! lol xd
wt race is he white, black??....cuss them bak!!!!!!!! swear at him, smack him in the face, kick his balls, throw a chair at him (thats wat my mate does lol), make him feel pain!!!!!!!
(but dont kill him......)  

[Seijin]

It happened in France:

when I entered junior high I was confronted to a bully... someone 2 or 3 years older than me...
he was taller than me.... the top of my head could hardly reach his shoulders...
but when I was 11 year old I couldn't control my temper... when I felt like he wanted to torture me (by pushing me around without any reason, I didn't even know him).

I just punched him on the eye... sweatdrop
(since I was shorter than him, I had to jump while punching lol ^^)

His eye was all red... then, we both went to the principal office and we had to explain what happened.
But well... it didn't seem like this but, I really was afraid... so when they interrupted the fight.... I was crying whee
No one knew why I cried because I ended up to be the one who hurted the tall guy.
(ps: in the principal office, the one to be scolded was the tall guy because everyone in the school yard said he was the one who started to bully me... plus she asked us to stand up and she compared our height... and then she said to the tall guy: "but you agree with me, don't you? you are way taller than him" )


I didn't really like the few next days....
everyone at school knew me. I happened to meet people pretending to be my friend even though i don't know them.
When i met supervisors in the establishment they smiled at me and said: "good job!".
This phenomenon lasted for one year...

I felt like hiding my face in a bag....

PS: now I'm way more composed.... someone can hardly make me get angry. To tell the truth, people I meet now can't even imagine that I was a bit short tempered when I was young. On the contrary people I knew when I was little won't be able to recgnize me right now.  

[Seijin]

bamboowitch

There is someone at my school who has been contantly insulting me ever since i met him, however he is not bullying just me but anyone practically. But the only difference is that he adds extra insults for me because i'm chinese and its really irritating me. (the racist insults are the usual... like "Speak english beucase in OUR country thatw what we speak"
and when i do he's like "Pardon me" and laughs at me etc)
I can't do anything because when i try and speak morals with him... he laughs at my face...(no suprise there considering he's an senceless idiot)
I have reported the incidents to my tutor and my year head but despite him apologising to me, after a while he continued to harass me... and its really getting out of hand because he has crushed my pride and dignity and i feel hopeless because he doesn't care whether he's been reported or anything considering the fact he constantly pulls pratical jokes on my old maths teacher whom has no directional hearing... how can you deal with a person who even when confronted by his seniors doen't change, even if his parents are informed? How can one make a bully fell guilty for his deads when he cares about no one's opinon of him?

Things he's done to bully me:

Bully: Has any one told you you're really beautiful
Me: (ignores)
Bully: Is that a yes or a no?
Me: Go away, I want to do my work
Bully: You know you should be a porn star since you're so beautiful

Bully: oh so our history teacher isn't here is he?
Me: (ignores)
Bully: Oh i can't wait, i can sit next to you this lesson and we could have sex with each other.
Me: (screams a load of random chinese words at him...)
Bully: (laughs like a efffing idiot he is)

Bully Friend 1: Dare you to hug her
Bully: (laughs)
Me: (walks away from them)
A little while later when i need to ask some help for the teacher... the ******** pervert hugs me! So i kicked him in the privates and punched his face and he laughes with his friends at me... My friend tries to confront the bully but since the buly is far taller than him... he gets pushed away so i scream a load of stuff at the bully but yet again he laughs at me...
(I told my mum this and she said it was good that i kicked him because you shouldn't let perverted twisted bullies away with things like that)
(OK, how is a hug offensive or classified as bullying,harrasment etc... the anwser is simple, when you don't want the hug, when the person who is hugging you did it to provoke your anger[I don't usually hug anyone outside my family and i absolutely hate the idea of hugging the opposite sex even if they are you're friend yet alone someone who has contantly bullied you!] and its not in my blood to embrace someone outside my familly in many cases...)

Bully: I'm just going to stand here with you becuase your my friend
Me: (moves away)
Bully: oh you want to go here
Me: Go away...i'm not your friend
Bully: Oh yeah.. we're the best of friends
Me: Go away now... you're annoying me, i wil never be a friend to the likes of you!
Bully: Now now, you're getting all angry and worked up.. you need to learn to calm down... don't get so fustrated, its bad for your health!
Me: Shut up and go! I'm serious!
Bully: You shoould go see an pshyciatrist
Me: ******** off.. serioucly i'm not you bloody friend now go away don't you understand?
Bully: (laughs again)

The f***ing b*****d (mind my language) was having an "intelligent convasation" REALLY LOUDLY about how asain eyes look like and then commented as if i were invisible that i must be japanese because my eyes aren't chinesey.... he then laughed really irratibly and all i did was stare at him until i finally could'nt stand his effing rubbish and shouted in Chinese at him for ages then stormed off in front of the classs... I effing hate that guy.

When I told my teacher of the incidents, she said i should try ignoring him... but when i did that he believed i was deaf and so my friends back me up and get themselves bullied so that I felt so guilty about them being shouted at I told the bully to go away and stop bullying me... So in the end i'm unsble to ignore him because he'll just hurt the people who stick up for me...
When I told my teacher again... she asked whether a "convasation" with the bully would help so that i could point all the annoying things he does.... basically she's asking me whether i want the chance to publically humuliate him and make him feel guilty for his wrong doings but at the same time theres a risk i'm the one who's going to be bullied more if he knows how annoyed i am at him.

Discuss
Do you get bullied like this?
How do you deal with bullies like this?
Have you got any advice for me to deal with the matter?
Anything related to the topic...

hey hey hey....
I have a hypothesys about this....
He likes you but he is a total jerk... so when he sees you instead of being nice to you he feels like teasing you.....

er.....
ok it might not be the case i guess neutral


it works like this....

his main goal is to make you angry. So he does all he can to do it.
The thing he noticed is, when he is laughing at you, you get angry. So he decides to laugh at you everytime you try to respond to him!

Now what i suggest to you...
first do not get angry when he laugh at you.

then (since you are not the only one to be bullied),
with your friends you just do the same to him... like this:

tell them to do a sarcastic laugh when they see him.
And when he tries to open his mouth to do a joke just tell something like... "whoaaa don't open your mouth it stinks eeeeeeer.....". Tell all your friends to do so.
Just do as if you are all making fun of him when he turns his back.
When he tries to make fun of you, just laugh (and tell all your friends to do so too)

you'll see. After a certain amount of time, he'll feel really weird.
Because it's really hard to see that everyone at school is making fun of you and you don't even know why...
He'll start to feel like the buffoon of the class....

But well do it only if you think he really deserves it... because it can be hard to him.
He might even think he actually stinks for real or something like that....  

[evulukwu]

ican not deal with bulkly  

[mermaidmelody33]

Hmm...bullies? I don't think that I dealt with real bullies before...There is this guy who kept on picking on me but it turned out that he only tries 2 get my attention coz he likes me...so does that count as a bully?  

[madkiller007]

Bullies, if i weren't a civilized citizen, i would beat the crap out of him, is just that then my parents would beat the crap out of me.