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Posted: Sat May 16, 2015 10:54 am
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Posted: Sat May 16, 2015 5:58 pm
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Posted: Sat May 16, 2015 7:59 pm
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Posted: Sat May 16, 2015 8:17 pm
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Punkyheart Kittieh Professor Cypress No, you're right to do so in that manner. Just have a final word with her, let her know that you mean it this time, and ditch her. You don't need anyone that can be counted as THAT toxic and emotionally manipulative. Her time has passed, from what you made it sound like, she refuses to grow up in the slightest. So my thoughts on the whole thing is to definitely drop her. thank you for your answer ;~; i've been struggling all day with it.. i know it needs to happen but i couldn't figure out how or when. with more time and people agreeing with my opinion about what needs to happen i've finally made the choice to go through with it tonight. More power to you. But definitely, the sooner you make that closure the better, BEFORE she tries to do something or say something dumber.
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Posted: Wed May 27, 2015 1:28 pm
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Posted: Wed May 27, 2015 3:55 pm
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colon bracket You are definitely not being harsh. I think you're being really kind, actually. But you need to stop that, because your kindness isn't working. Delete her from your life if she can't accept the fact that you've moved on. Her jealousy and inability to be happy for you shows her immaturity in this whole situation. You're right, she was being really unrealistic when she expected you to drop your entire life and move into her house with her parents. Now she's the unrealistic one again. You broke up ~6 months ago and you're pursuing a relationship with someone else. The end. Her opinion doesn't matter anymore because all she's doing is making you upset and anxious. Life is too short for that. Putting up with her manipulative behavior and passive aggressiveness is unnecessary. Cut her out. Remove her from Facebook or Tumblr or whatever social media she's using to harass you. If she can't respect your space and your decisions then you do not need to be friends with her in any aspect.
~An apple a day
The post above has pretty much everything I wanted to say about this. I wish the OP the best of luck dealing with this person - she seems like a real challenge to contend with. Cutting ties with her might feel hard, but I, too, think you have been exceptionally kind so far and should not feel the least bit of guilt for pursuing your happiness and distancing yourself from the people who seek to deny you from it.
keeps worries away~
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Posted: Wed Jun 03, 2015 8:35 pm
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Posted: Fri Jun 05, 2015 10:25 am
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Posted: Fri Jun 05, 2015 8:13 pm
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Posted: Tue Jun 09, 2015 7:04 pm
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