I dressed like a girl today

[cool4]

I put on a dress today, I'm not sure how I feel right now.

it's cute though.  

[padagira]

Be proud of yourself. That is more than what most of the people in my village wear at any given time.  

[Semok]

I wore a dress once. Everyone said I just looked...wrong. xd  

[GenevieveGautier]

"Oh, this dress looks cute."
*Puts On*
"OMG, look at how fat my arms look!"
*Puts away dress forever*

stressed  

[Aoi the Crossdresser]

pbtdkg

Be proud of yourself. That is more than what most of the people in my village wear at any given time.

Village? O.O Are you like an ancient being? O.O

And yeah....cool4? YOU ARE A FREAKEN GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SO DUH!!!!!!!!!!! DOESN"T MATTER WHAT YOU WEAR!!!!!!!!!!! YOU ARE A GIRL.  

[cool4]

Aoi the Crossdresser

pbtdkg

Be proud of yourself. That is more than what most of the people in my village wear at any given time.

Village? O.O Are you like an ancient being? O.O

And yeah....cool4? YOU ARE A FREAKEN GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SO DUH!!!!!!!!!!! DOESN"T MATTER WHAT YOU WEAR!!!!!!!!!!! YOU ARE A GIRL.

yeah but I hardly ever wear dresses or skirts or anything girly.  

[CaptainTeaTime]

i own like... one skirt. i think. in the back of my closet. that i usually bring out on laundry day because i need to wash all my pants and that's the only thing still clean. though i've been on search for a really nice/cute dress/skirt. i haven't found any that i deem acceptable. they usually all look bad on me or have a horrible color that i guess other people like, but are just ugh to me  

[Semok]

Alright, what the hell. Here's me on a drag night I had with some friends.


Can YOU spot the Semok!?  

[Aoi the Crossdresser]

The one on the way left? If so, then it's not right cuz YOU ARE A GIRL, so you are supposed to dress up like a guy. sad I don't get it.  

[Semok]

Yeah. It's not too hard to spot me. However, I almost always dress up like a guy, so I felt like dressin' up like a girl would be more of a shot, which it was xd  

[Aoi the Crossdresser]

Semok

Yeah. It's not too hard to spot me. However, I almost always dress up like a guy, so I felt like dressin' up like a girl would be more of a shot, which it was xd

No you dress up like a guy, DUH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How come it is more acceptable in society for women to dress up more like men and they won't get ridiculed where if the guy dressed up like a girl they get discriminated against and made fun of? It doesn't made any sense.  

[cool4]

Aoi the Crossdresser

Semok

Yeah. It's not too hard to spot me. However, I almost always dress up like a guy, so I felt like dressin' up like a girl would be more of a shot, which it was xd

No you dress up like a guy, DUH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How come it is more acceptable in society for women to dress up more like men and they won't get ridiculed where if the guy dressed up like a girl they get discriminated against and made fun of? It doesn't made any sense.

Cause though completely arbitrary, we have "gender" roles in society, it would be acceptable if we didn't feel men should be this masculine figure, and women have feminine traits. But somewhere in history and portrayal of media, art, and many other aspects we've projected these images about the ideal man and the ideal women. Everything we think about fits in these binary roles. And a non binary thinking would be needed to change what is accepted.  

[Semok]

Aoi the Crossdresser

Semok

Yeah. It's not too hard to spot me. However, I almost always dress up like a guy, so I felt like dressin' up like a girl would be more of a shot, which it was xd

No you dress up like a guy, DUH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How come it is more acceptable in society for women to dress up more like men and they won't get ridiculed where if the guy dressed up like a girl they get discriminated against and made fun of? It doesn't made any sense.

Uh, excuse me? Do you know how often I get ridiculed because of how I dress? I think men and women get ridiculed about the same amount, but with women, it tends to be more subtle. Like, women will ostracize other women or hurt their reputation by talkin' badly about them behind their back, whereas men tend to be more upfront and just tease the guy to his face.

I know I'm generalizin' and it isn't that clear cut, but both sides get discriminated against a whole lot.  

[Aoi the Crossdresser]

Semok

Aoi the Crossdresser

Semok

Yeah. It's not too hard to spot me. However, I almost always dress up like a guy, so I felt like dressin' up like a girl would be more of a shot, which it was xd

No you dress up like a guy, DUH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How come it is more acceptable in society for women to dress up more like men and they won't get ridiculed where if the guy dressed up like a girl they get discriminated against and made fun of? It doesn't made any sense.

Uh, excuse me? Do you know how often I get ridiculed because of how I dress? I think men and women get ridiculed about the same amount, but with women, it tends to be more subtle. Like, women will ostracize other women or hurt their reputation by talkin' badly about them behind their back, whereas men tend to be more upfront and just tease the guy to his face.

I know I'm generalizin' and it isn't that clear cut, but both sides get discriminated against a whole lot.

No, guys who crossdress as women get more discriminated against, especially in a horrible conservative town (*cough* ALAMOGORDO *cough*). My mom knows one who has gotten discriminated against, gotten laughed at, ridiculed, and gotten things thrown at him because he liked to dress as a girl and has been for like over 30 years. It's stupid.

If a girl dressed as a guy, they don't get ridiculed. Honestly, t-shirt and jeans, and they most likely get nothing since that is what guys wear.

He even asked the girl i was working with at Independent Living disability resource center and asked the caseworker that "Do you think the school district would hire me?" And she said like "I'm not sure, maybe not...the students or faculty could have a problem with you or something...maybe...we don't know."  

[Semok]

Oh, so apparently I'm no one, since I get laughed at, ridiculed, and have had cigarettes and drinks thrown at me from out of car windows because of how I dress. Apparently I just don't count. Oh yeah, and the fact that my whole community and family thinks I'm a horrible failure of a human bein', despite my academic successes, purely because of how I dress, yeah, that's just nothin'.

Oh yeah, and the fact that women who dress up with more cleavage and high heels are more likely to get hired for a job, whereas women who just dress is ********' comfortable clothes are considered "unprofessional," even if it's a suit.
Yeah, lets just ignore that too.

I'm not sayin' that guys who dress like girls don't get ridiculed as well, I'm just arguin' that it's pretty 50/50, but the way women are treated who dress masculinely tend to be ridiculed more silently.