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Posted: Thu Dec 17, 2009 7:56 am
yesterday i finally talked to my bf about sex . a bit of arguing i refuse to believe that i am obsessed with sex if that was the case i'd have a box of toys and tons of sexual things. well i told my bf i dont think i am. and he said hes just not interested in sexual things like the way i am. i told him we would have to negotiate on that not to mention when we have sex sometimes i shy away from him when he tries to kiss me it was kinda like a natural reaction like i couldnt help it when we were having sex. but normally when he comes home and we kiss im fine ...just when we have sex i shy away. last night we made love and it was awesome i started by asking what he wants me to do and he showed me how he wanted me to kiss and touch him i felt like a virgin . no more shyness tho it was so great.
Q. why did i shy away during sex?...yet normal kisses were easy?
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Posted: Thu Dec 17, 2009 4:06 pm
could be that in your state of mind that during sex your doing something dirty but you enjoy and that while kissing during sex, you didn't want to kiss during such a place
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Posted: Thu Dec 17, 2009 4:43 pm
First off, sex doesn't always have to be kinky and dirty. So if you get that into your head it wont be so hard to kiss. Sex is natural and you shouldn't feel bad if you're of age. Making love is also not impure of dirty. Only if you make it out to be.
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