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 Posted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 8:07 am
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-xXLady RaiXx- lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- Me and Lupis dated back in Feb. 09. He cheated on me and for some odd reason I still have feelings for him. It's just a crush really. However he has said hurtful things to me, when talking about his new love interest. I'm going to believe that the things he said about being glad I'm an honest person are nothing about lies. Since all he wants to hear from me is "I'm happy for you". For me to say that would be a lie to me and a lie to myself. I do want him to be happy but he needs to not get so bloody impulsive and focus on the task at hand. His kids. I know he wants a companion and all, but honestly, if I was going through a bad divorce, I wouldn't want to look for a companion just yet. Even if it has been a year. The wounds are still fresh and need to be healed. perhaps he craves companionship some people are like that That's what's funny. He asked me to move in with him a month ago because he wanted companionship. He threw this ******** out there and I'm wondering if I should or not. Though he said it's not set in stone but he sure is acting like it is.
maybe you should wait to see if he gets back with his ex, you dont want to plant yourself in the middle of that mess. it would seem that, from just your side, you deserve better. Someone who actually sees YOU not "just a friend" or "one of the guys" you know? |
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Posted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 8:08 am
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-xXLady RaiXx- lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- Me and Lupis dated back in Feb. 09. He cheated on me and for some odd reason I still have feelings for him. It's just a crush really. However he has said hurtful things to me, when talking about his new love interest. I'm going to believe that the things he said about being glad I'm an honest person are nothing about lies. Since all he wants to hear from me is "I'm happy for you". For me to say that would be a lie to me and a lie to myself. I do want him to be happy but he needs to not get so bloody impulsive and focus on the task at hand. His kids. I know he wants a companion and all, but honestly, if I was going through a bad divorce, I wouldn't want to look for a companion just yet. Even if it has been a year. The wounds are still fresh and need to be healed. perhaps he craves companionship some people are like that That's what's funny. He asked me to move in with him a month ago because he wanted companionship. He threw this ******** out there and I'm wondering if I should or not. Though he said it's not set in stone but he sure is acting like it is.
he seems to be grabing at everything
perhaps he is taking the divorce harder then it seems |
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Posted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 10:04 am
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lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- Me and Lupis dated back in Feb. 09. He cheated on me and for some odd reason I still have feelings for him. It's just a crush really. However he has said hurtful things to me, when talking about his new love interest. I'm going to believe that the things he said about being glad I'm an honest person are nothing about lies. Since all he wants to hear from me is "I'm happy for you". For me to say that would be a lie to me and a lie to myself. I do want him to be happy but he needs to not get so bloody impulsive and focus on the task at hand. His kids. I know he wants a companion and all, but honestly, if I was going through a bad divorce, I wouldn't want to look for a companion just yet. Even if it has been a year. The wounds are still fresh and need to be healed. perhaps he craves companionship some people are like that That's what's funny. He asked me to move in with him a month ago because he wanted companionship. He threw this ******** out there and I'm wondering if I should or not. Though he said it's not set in stone but he sure is acting like it is. he seems to be grabing at everything perhaps he is taking the divorce harder then it seems
But he probably hates me since I'm too pushy.
I'm pushy because I care a lot and I get overbearing. I hate to see those I love get hurt. So I fight for them even when they don't want me to.
-sighs- I'm close to just burning the bridge.... |
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Posted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 10:13 am
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-xXLady RaiXx- lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- Me and Lupis dated back in Feb. 09. He cheated on me and for some odd reason I still have feelings for him. It's just a crush really. However he has said hurtful things to me, when talking about his new love interest. I'm going to believe that the things he said about being glad I'm an honest person are nothing about lies. Since all he wants to hear from me is "I'm happy for you". For me to say that would be a lie to me and a lie to myself. I do want him to be happy but he needs to not get so bloody impulsive and focus on the task at hand. His kids. I know he wants a companion and all, but honestly, if I was going through a bad divorce, I wouldn't want to look for a companion just yet. Even if it has been a year. The wounds are still fresh and need to be healed. perhaps he craves companionship some people are like that That's what's funny. He asked me to move in with him a month ago because he wanted companionship. He threw this ******** out there and I'm wondering if I should or not. Though he said it's not set in stone but he sure is acting like it is. he seems to be grabing at everything perhaps he is taking the divorce harder then it seems I get that feeling, also. But he probably hates me since I'm too pushy. I'm pushy because I care a lot and I get overbearing. I hate to see those I love get hurt. So I fight for them even when they don't want me to. -sighs- I'm close to just burning the bridge....
i dont think he hates you
but whatever you do don't go burning bridges |
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Posted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 11:07 am
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lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- Me and Lupis dated back in Feb. 09. He cheated on me and for some odd reason I still have feelings for him. It's just a crush really. However he has said hurtful things to me, when talking about his new love interest. I'm going to believe that the things he said about being glad I'm an honest person are nothing about lies. Since all he wants to hear from me is "I'm happy for you". For me to say that would be a lie to me and a lie to myself. I do want him to be happy but he needs to not get so bloody impulsive and focus on the task at hand. His kids. I know he wants a companion and all, but honestly, if I was going through a bad divorce, I wouldn't want to look for a companion just yet. Even if it has been a year. The wounds are still fresh and need to be healed. perhaps he craves companionship some people are like that That's what's funny. He asked me to move in with him a month ago because he wanted companionship. He threw this ******** out there and I'm wondering if I should or not. Though he said it's not set in stone but he sure is acting like it is. he seems to be grabing at everything perhaps he is taking the divorce harder then it seems I get that feeling, also. But he probably hates me since I'm too pushy. I'm pushy because I care a lot and I get overbearing. I hate to see those I love get hurt. So I fight for them even when they don't want me to. -sighs- I'm close to just burning the bridge.... i dont think he hates you but whatever you do don't go burning bridges
but it seems that my dad has been right...I am turning into my mum...
but..I don't need Lupis to give me the same crap I receive from my parents. I don't. He's just adding onto the stress. It's not something I need. That's why I am so snappy and bitchy. Not to mention I'm on my cycle so my moods are 200x worse to begin with. >.<
On a normal day, I'd be like whatever do what you want. Get hurt, I don't care. Now it's more emotional. >.< |
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Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 6:07 am
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-xXLady RaiXx- lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- That's what's funny. He asked me to move in with him a month ago because he wanted companionship. He threw this ******** out there and I'm wondering if I should or not. Though he said it's not set in stone but he sure is acting like it is. he seems to be grabing at everything perhaps he is taking the divorce harder then it seems I get that feeling, also. But he probably hates me since I'm too pushy. I'm pushy because I care a lot and I get overbearing. I hate to see those I love get hurt. So I fight for them even when they don't want me to. -sighs- I'm close to just burning the bridge.... i dont think he hates you but whatever you do don't go burning bridges I can't keep on going with it. He said hurtful things to me.. but it seems that my dad has been right...I am turning into my mum... but..I don't need Lupis to give me the same crap I receive from my parents. I don't. He's just adding onto the stress. It's not something I need. That's why I am so snappy and bitchy. Not to mention I'm on my cycle so my moods are 200x worse to begin with. >.< On a normal day, I'd be like whatever do what you want. Get hurt, I don't care. Now it's more emotional. >.<
perhaps a little distence is best then, however, the jew maintains...fire bad. |
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Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 10:08 am
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lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- That's what's funny. He asked me to move in with him a month ago because he wanted companionship. He threw this ******** out there and I'm wondering if I should or not. Though he said it's not set in stone but he sure is acting like it is. he seems to be grabing at everything perhaps he is taking the divorce harder then it seems I get that feeling, also. But he probably hates me since I'm too pushy. I'm pushy because I care a lot and I get overbearing. I hate to see those I love get hurt. So I fight for them even when they don't want me to. -sighs- I'm close to just burning the bridge.... i dont think he hates you but whatever you do don't go burning bridges I can't keep on going with it. He said hurtful things to me.. but it seems that my dad has been right...I am turning into my mum... but..I don't need Lupis to give me the same crap I receive from my parents. I don't. He's just adding onto the stress. It's not something I need. That's why I am so snappy and bitchy. Not to mention I'm on my cycle so my moods are 200x worse to begin with. >.< On a normal day, I'd be like whatever do what you want. Get hurt, I don't care. Now it's more emotional. >.< perhaps a little distence is best then, however, the jew maintains...fire bad.
And I finally realized that he's a pathological liar after talking to a friend. :3
So yeah, if he wonders why I'm not going to pick up my phone and what not, it's because he needs to apologize. :3 |
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Posted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 9:37 pm
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-xXLady RaiXx- lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- I get that feeling, also. But he probably hates me since I'm too pushy. I'm pushy because I care a lot and I get overbearing. I hate to see those I love get hurt. So I fight for them even when they don't want me to. -sighs- I'm close to just burning the bridge.... i dont think he hates you but whatever you do don't go burning bridges I can't keep on going with it. He said hurtful things to me.. but it seems that my dad has been right...I am turning into my mum... but..I don't need Lupis to give me the same crap I receive from my parents. I don't. He's just adding onto the stress. It's not something I need. That's why I am so snappy and bitchy. Not to mention I'm on my cycle so my moods are 200x worse to begin with. >.< On a normal day, I'd be like whatever do what you want. Get hurt, I don't care. Now it's more emotional. >.< perhaps a little distence is best then, however, the jew maintains...fire bad. Yeah. Which is why he told me to wait for him to call me. I'm not going to answer my phone unless he apologizes. And I finally realized that he's a pathological liar after talking to a friend. :3 So yeah, if he wonders why I'm not going to pick up my phone and what not, it's because he needs to apologize. :3
here is a crazy question
What do you think makes love true love |
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Posted: Fri Jul 10, 2009 9:39 am
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lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- I get that feeling, also. But he probably hates me since I'm too pushy. I'm pushy because I care a lot and I get overbearing. I hate to see those I love get hurt. So I fight for them even when they don't want me to. -sighs- I'm close to just burning the bridge.... i dont think he hates you but whatever you do don't go burning bridges I can't keep on going with it. He said hurtful things to me.. but it seems that my dad has been right...I am turning into my mum... but..I don't need Lupis to give me the same crap I receive from my parents. I don't. He's just adding onto the stress. It's not something I need. That's why I am so snappy and bitchy. Not to mention I'm on my cycle so my moods are 200x worse to begin with. >.< On a normal day, I'd be like whatever do what you want. Get hurt, I don't care. Now it's more emotional. >.< perhaps a little distence is best then, however, the jew maintains...fire bad. Yeah. Which is why he told me to wait for him to call me. I'm not going to answer my phone unless he apologizes. And I finally realized that he's a pathological liar after talking to a friend. :3 So yeah, if he wonders why I'm not going to pick up my phone and what not, it's because he needs to apologize. :3 here is a crazy question What do you think makes love true love
But I am doing a little plotting and planning and getting a friend to help me with this issue. :3 |
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Posted: Fri Jul 10, 2009 10:06 am
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-xXLady RaiXx- lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- I can't keep on going with it. He said hurtful things to me.. but it seems that my dad has been right...I am turning into my mum... but..I don't need Lupis to give me the same crap I receive from my parents. I don't. He's just adding onto the stress. It's not something I need. That's why I am so snappy and bitchy. Not to mention I'm on my cycle so my moods are 200x worse to begin with. >.< On a normal day, I'd be like whatever do what you want. Get hurt, I don't care. Now it's more emotional. >.< perhaps a little distence is best then, however, the jew maintains...fire bad. Yeah. Which is why he told me to wait for him to call me. I'm not going to answer my phone unless he apologizes. And I finally realized that he's a pathological liar after talking to a friend. :3 So yeah, if he wonders why I'm not going to pick up my phone and what not, it's because he needs to apologize. :3 here is a crazy question What do you think makes love true love You know...I really don't know the answer to that question. I've been in 3-4 relationships over the past six years. And I still don't know the answer. -.- But I am doing a little plotting and planning and getting a friend to help me with this issue. :3
I can't tell you what the correct answers is
but I can tell you what I think difines true love
I think true love is the absence of conditions set upon love
thus unconditional
This is my answer
and you will find yours |
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Posted: Fri Jul 10, 2009 11:54 am
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lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- I can't keep on going with it. He said hurtful things to me.. but it seems that my dad has been right...I am turning into my mum... but..I don't need Lupis to give me the same crap I receive from my parents. I don't. He's just adding onto the stress. It's not something I need. That's why I am so snappy and bitchy. Not to mention I'm on my cycle so my moods are 200x worse to begin with. >.< On a normal day, I'd be like whatever do what you want. Get hurt, I don't care. Now it's more emotional. >.< perhaps a little distence is best then, however, the jew maintains...fire bad. Yeah. Which is why he told me to wait for him to call me. I'm not going to answer my phone unless he apologizes. And I finally realized that he's a pathological liar after talking to a friend. :3 So yeah, if he wonders why I'm not going to pick up my phone and what not, it's because he needs to apologize. :3 here is a crazy question What do you think makes love true love You know...I really don't know the answer to that question. I've been in 3-4 relationships over the past six years. And I still don't know the answer. -.- But I am doing a little plotting and planning and getting a friend to help me with this issue. :3 I can't tell you what the correct answers is but I can tell you what I think difines true love I think true love is the absence of conditions set upon love thus unconditional This is my answer and you will find yours |
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Posted: Fri Jul 10, 2009 12:10 pm
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Posted: Fri Jul 10, 2009 9:21 pm
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Posted: Fri Jul 10, 2009 9:22 pm
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-xXLady RaiXx- lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- lordstar -xXLady RaiXx- Yeah. Which is why he told me to wait for him to call me. I'm not going to answer my phone unless he apologizes. And I finally realized that he's a pathological liar after talking to a friend. :3 So yeah, if he wonders why I'm not going to pick up my phone and what not, it's because he needs to apologize. :3 here is a crazy question What do you think makes love true love You know...I really don't know the answer to that question. I've been in 3-4 relationships over the past six years. And I still don't know the answer. -.- But I am doing a little plotting and planning and getting a friend to help me with this issue. :3 I can't tell you what the correct answers is but I can tell you what I think difines true love I think true love is the absence of conditions set upon love thus unconditional This is my answer and you will find yours I will take your words to heart, old friend. :3
So how are you and your boy doing
still talking? |
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Posted: Fri Jul 10, 2009 9:29 pm
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lordstar Vasilius Konstantinos mate there is a lot more going on here then you see how she thinks and how she feels in a moment this is more about an inner struggle of mind and heart and clearly you have not taken into account the role of emotion in perception so far you have done quite a bit of judging (some of your comments are rather rude and uncalled for) and have not made much of an attempt to understand what is really going on
Whatever. |
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