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PostPosted: Thu Jun 25, 2009 11:46 am


I am pro-choice. I think a women should have the right to choose and the government should not go interfering in what is absolutely a personal choice. After all, it affects only the women since it is her body (by "only the women" I mean not the government/rest of society).

I also do not believe that abortion is killing a baby per se because if it is early enough the "baby" is just a mass of cells waiting to take shape. If it were an actual baby at that stage, then yes, it would be homicide. But it's not. It does not even resemble a human for quite some time.

If a woman has been raped, then she should be allowed no matter what the circumstances are to get an abortion if she so chooses. It was not her fault. If she doesn't want to carry the baby of a pervert and a stranger to full term she should be able to rid her body of the atrocity she will probably always associate with the poor child if she had delivered it. The baby would also have to face never knowing its father and being branded something to the effect of a freak for being the product of a rape.
PostPosted: Sat Jun 27, 2009 10:20 pm


I am MOST DEFFINATELY pro-choice!

but I do not believe in using abortion as birth control like some people are doing these days.

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PostPosted: Sat Jun 27, 2009 10:34 pm


Abortion should not be used for birth control. That is not why it was developed. People should be responsible if they have sex; protection and prevention is key. Men can't expect women to just get an abortion if they accidentally impregnate their partner; that's not how it works. It is not like the morning after pill. It should only be used if their is no better choice and it benefits the woman more than in getting rid of an unwanted child.
PostPosted: Mon Jun 29, 2009 3:28 am


OMG EXACTLY! high five for you.

Some guys make me angry in there view of abortion. I know this girl and her man told her that if he ever got her pregnant and she didn't get an abortion that he would leave her. What a scum bag right?

Abortion is definitely a last resort kind of thing. It's only there for extreme circumstances but it should still be the women's choice if she feels it is right.

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PostPosted: Thu Jul 09, 2009 11:37 am


EXACTLY. Abortion is extreme. You should not just up and decide to have an abortion.

Guys are pigheads if they want the girl to get an abortion just because they didn't want to use a condom and got the girl pregnant.
PostPosted: Fri Nov 27, 2009 3:00 pm


I didn't contribute to the other subjects becuase I didn't think there was another subject I could bring up that would be of any assistance. Because this topic has so few posts, and I do have a somewhat different view on it, I chose to partake in this one. Enjoy LOLOL!

How typical of me, I am anti-abortion.

I seem to find more and more that, among this subforum, I am sharing the opposing point-of-view with no one. That is no problem, because it means I am able to thouroughly see the other side. The only thing I don't like about it is that is often seems like my point-of-view is ignored by most people. However, that is their problem. =D

Now then, as far as the baby being "part of the woman's body," I must disagree for this reason: Do you belong to your mother? Like, can she sell you for money? The question is not weather she would want to, but if she can. It's quite illegal nowadays. Back in the old days, a parent could sell their children to get themselves out of debt. Therefore, I think that saying a child belongs to a parent is very . . . middle-age-y.

Another question arises then, is it illegal for your mother to kill you? Why, of cource it is! Why then should it be perfectly alright for her to kill you if you were younger and more helpless? I argue that murdering an unborn child through abortion is merely age descrimination, but there are exceptions in which I would find it legit.

Consider: many people argue that a fetus is not alive. However, they argue perfectly well that a tree is alive.

What does a tree do? Does it feel pain? Maybe a little; it can't be determined for sure. Does it move? Not much, but very slowly towards the sun, which gives it life. Does it breathe? Not in the same process we do, but generally. Does it see or think? See, no, but maybe small doses of unsophisticated thought. Does it grow? Indefinitely.

And the fetus? Does it feel pain? Maybe a little; it can't be determined for sure. Does it move? Not much, but they ocasionally kick or sway within the mother, which gives it life. Does it breathe? Not in the same process we do, but generally. Does it see or think? See, no, but maybe small doses of unsophisticated thought. Does it grow? Indefinitely.

Similarities much? Methinks so. =D Why, then, would a fetus not be alive? Is not growing and thriving the very basis of life? Is that not what a fetus is doing? I don't think anyone has the right to say it is not a living thing. Most of them feel the abortion. An abortion is the process of slowly hacking away the fetis bit by bit. Lovely. Usually, an abortion is not much less dangerous than giving birth.

Now then, as this is not about wheather or not babies are alive, onto the actual subject, more or less. I believe it should be illegal. However, it should also be an option in the extreme case of "if you give birth, both you and the baby will die." If that be the case, it should be legit to have the choice. If just the mother will die and the baby will be fine, it could still be a choice, but it seems so twisted. In the animal world, mothers are supposed to give their life for their children. What we are seeing here is, "Holy crap! Kill my baby, and save me instead!" In the situation in which the mother has several chindren she must provide for, and they will be orphans, it is a moral decision.

In conclusion, the issue of abortion should, indeed, be very precarious, and I agree with much of what you have said.
Overall, the excuses for abortion are illegitimate, as most of them thrive around what an uneducated lumberman would say about cutting down a sapling tree, "It wasn't . . . really . . . alive . . . in the first place."

And that's all I have to say about that. =D

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PostPosted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 1:12 pm


i'm pro-life.

because, even if a fetus "isn't alive", it at least has the potential to be.
i mean, i worded that stupidly- just read follower's post. >>
being pregnant could be a helpful lesson to some of the people that get pregnant.
PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 2:46 pm


Being alive doesn't mean that it certain situations it would be better served to keep the child. If you were the child of a rape victim, how would you feel living out your life with that ignonimy over your head for the rest of your life? Besides, pro choice does not mean anti life. It just means you should let the individual case determine the decision.

And there is a limit to when the abortion can be performed. Of course there can be no abortions in the third trimester; if it is performed, what they do is basically cause a still birth. That is wrong. And usually it would not be done in the latter stages of the second trimester. So it is not like you're a killing a "baby," just the potential to become a baby. And for example, what if something happened to the child during birth that killed it? Would that be considered abortion, too, even though it was a completely unpredictable act?

To what point are you countering "part of the woman's body"? I see no one having claimed that the child is part of the mother, that the child belongs to the mother. Being part of an individual just means that the government shouldn't regulate whether that individual has a right to decide for all cases whether or not the so called "murder" can be performed, on her body. The woman is an individual; the mother can make her own decision, not a group of strangers.

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 07, 2010 3:06 am


see, when you put it that way, i'm so tempted to be swayed to pro-choice.

but, what you said about it's only the potential to become a baby?
that's exactly what i was telling my friend the other day when we were
talking about abortion. i told her that maybe it seemed like a very measely
and patheticly small act to get an abortion, but it had a huge ripple.
what if that baby that never was able to assert an opportunity could have
saved millions of people? of course, that also means that baby could kill
millions. [in time.] but, i think abortion almost diminishes the worth of
humans. it's like saying, "you're only really tiny and unimportant right now.
you're going to be a nusiance; therefore, i am going to rid myself of you."
and it's not like the baby can say, "please, i promise to clean my room everyday."
when, i thought one person could make a huge difference? why not that person be the baby?

but then again, i'm just rambling here.

rape cases~ have the baby, give it up for adoption.

if the child were killed at birth, it's not abortion.
it was unintentional and accidental.
abortion is intentional. nobody accidentally gets an abortion.
nobody wanders into a room and gets an abortion without their awareness.
PostPosted: Fri Jan 22, 2010 5:16 pm


Actually, that's not true. You know the prejudice against Deaf people? Well, up until recently, Deaf women were often sterilized without their consent, which was made possible by the language barrier. I'm pretty sure that, depending on how prejudiced the family was, if the women did get pregnant, they would give her an abortion, under the pretense of something else. Of course she would realize it afterwards but she would be powerless to stop it. I'm sure this has occurred in other prejudiced minorities, too.

Potential doesn't equal reality. We make ourselves, using what nature has given us. Our genes may code us, but our experiences shape how we manifest those traits.

Also, abortions aren't necessarily performed because the women thinks that the baby is worthless. For example, if, when an amnioscientisis was performed, she learned the baby would be born with a serious defect (retardation, celebral palsy, etc.) what should she do? Bear the ramifications of bringing forth a child who will only suffer needlessly and perhaps die anyway? Or have an abortion and save both her and the child pain? Seriously.


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 22, 2010 5:54 pm


Pro-choice.

why is it that only a woman's body is regulated by the government?
i'm not a total feminist, but that pisses me off.
A man can't tell me what to do with my own body.

My mom's boyfriend [at the time] pressured her to have an abortion when she was pregnant with me, and if she had, i wouldn't have missed anything. But it's her OWN CHOICE. And either way, I would've respected her decision.

What nauseates me is that the bible thumpers get ALL IN YOUR FACE at them clinics and condemn you.
I don't care what the bible says about life beginning at conception. I do not see that little cluster of cells, a cyst, if you will, as a life.
The pope doesn't have a Ph.D. in science, so i don't care about what he says with regards to ANYTHING SCIENTIFIC.
it's between that person and God. So STFU and leave 'em alone!!!!!! Who are they to judge? Like, prophets or what? They aren't perfect either. Filthy hypocrites.

EDIT: Just read only's post. Building an army of words. Lemme just squeeze this in:

For me, this all boils down to our Right to Chose.
God himself gave us Free Will. WE OURSELVES ARE GIVEN THE RIGHT TO MAKE OUR OWN CHOICES, TO LIVE OUR LIVES AS WE SEE FIT.
And i also see this as the Government strengthening its chokehold on us.
it's just another way for them to control us.

"To each his own."

I know that if i were to get raped in college, i would not hesitate to plug the little sucker out. So i'm just being straight up with you guys. I am not running around saying its a Bad Thing and then running to an abortion clinic the very second i find out i'm pregnant.
PostPosted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 5:33 pm


I'm confused. Are you pro choice, or....what, because I can't tell. I'm sorry.

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PostPosted: Sat Aug 14, 2010 10:52 pm


i am kind of on the fence on this one.

Pro-choice
I believe a women has the right to do with her body as she pleases, also no one can say for sure when the baby becomes a person. also if the women was assaulted then she may not wish to be reminded every way by having a child growing inside of her.

Pro-life
Except in the case of assault if you are not ready to be a parent then you should not being having sex, end of story nothing ells is 100% and after all babies is what sex is for. and even in the case in assault there is the morning after pill for a reason. and i understand that it is hard to go full term with a baby then give it up but there are people out there who want kids but cant have them and you are killing off there chance to have them. And i agree with Oh Brizz beacuse even if you do not believe the child is alive there is still the potential and you never know that may be the person who was meant to find a cure to cancer you never know someones potential until you let them try. I once read this quote "the only people who could vote for slavery were free and the only people who can chose to have and abortion were born"
PostPosted: Tue Dec 21, 2010 9:50 pm


neatsa
i am kind of on the fence on this one.

Pro-choice
I believe a women has the right to do with her body as she pleases, also no one can say for sure when the baby becomes a person. also if the women was assaulted then she may not wish to be reminded every way by having a child growing inside of her.

Pro-life
Except in the case of assault if you are not ready to be a parent then you should not being having sex, end of story nothing ells is 100% and after all babies is what sex is for. and even in the case in assault there is the morning after pill for a reason. and i understand that it is hard to go full term with a baby then give it up but there are people out there who want kids but cant have them and you are killing off there chance to have them. And i agree with Oh Brizz beacuse even if you do not believe the child is alive there is still the potential and you never know that may be the person who was meant to find a cure to cancer you never know someones potential until you let them try. I once read this quote "the only people who could vote for slavery were free and the only people who can chose to have and abortion were born"


I'm pretty sure this is how most Pro Choice people feel; as with the slogan "pro choice is not anti-life"

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