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 Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 7:23 pm
first off im 17 male/ i have a girlfriend who is the best in the world but she introduced me to one of her best male friends (i shall call him bob on this) anyways me and bob go to talking and started ot get along really well next thing im in his top friends on bebo and he is sending me love on it so i return the favour.
Now here is my problem since i have met him i keep having 'weird' thoughts about , i mean he is a handsome person (he is the same age as me) but i really do not want to become wot my thoughts are suggesting.
please help i dunno if this is phase everyone goes through or not.
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Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 6:45 am
i don;t know if this is a phase that you go throught. I havn't had any guy friends talk about anything similar.
Yeh my friends like to have gay jokes with each other and my boyfriend would joke and say yeh id do him.
Try seing if you have feelings towards other guys. Do you still feel the same for your girlfriend like you did before you met Bob?
Do you have sexual thoughts about him, or is it that he is a guy and will know what needs you have??
Don't worry just let if go with the flow, try writing about it we will try and keep helping the best we can..
(I hope that helps >.<)
EAB.
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Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2008 7:21 pm
It actually sorta depends. If you just have...well, feelings, for him, they might fade in time, and it might just be some crush or something, nothing to really worry about.
If it's more then just feelings, it's an attraction to his body, sexual or not, then yeah...you might be bisexual. I doubt you're gay, not if you're as into your girlfriend as you appear.
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Posted: Mon Apr 07, 2008 3:17 pm
Everyone is gay. it just matters how much you are gay. Every one has that voice in your head that you cant control that says "Wow he looks great!" and all of that. but i believe your not gay unless you start doing things and that they feel right when you do them.
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Posted: Tue Apr 08, 2008 3:00 am
Most people at some point have these thoughts. They aren't abnormal or wierd.
I have a girlfriend and I've had thoughts about that sort of stuff before smile
I just realize there's nothing wrong with it and move on.
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Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2008 8:04 am
Well, you could be Bi.... sweatdrop
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