I've always wondered when you know you can place the blame on someone. I feel like it can be everyone's fault. In all situations.
Which is probably why things like this are so easily debateable.
Like, I'm going through this situation with some friends and uhm family right now.
My best friend snuck out of my room one night to go have sex with a... with someone much older than us.
I never got around to putting the screen back in my window, and my mother found out.
I was honest with my mother what was going on.
And now my best friend is in... alot of trouble and the man she was screwing is going to jail.
Who's fault is it all?
Mine? for being lazy, and being honest when confronted.
Hers? for screwing a *****, and using me in the process of it? ((karma?))
His? For being... well, a ***** my mothers for being a big mouth and telling her whole family, even though she promised me she wouldnt?
I can say it would be all our faults. We all had a part in it.
But everyone is pointing fingers at one person or another. And of all the pointing finger, it's gotten to be my fault the most.
But I dont feel like it IS my fault. I didnt screw a a *****. It's hers for being a slut, and his for thinking it's okay.
Maybe here's a better example:
A prostitute is raped.
Yes. They're both in the wrong?
But who's fault is it?
Her's for provoking it by having sex with everyone, and dressing provokitly, or his for letting his p***s take over his mind and take something by force?
Or, a dog is run over by a car.
Is it the dogs fault for running into the street like a dipshit?
Or is it the drivers for not stopping or swerving.
Of course, these other few ones arent as elaborate as the first one, but that's only because it's currently going on in my life, and it really made me wonder.
How do we know who is the main one at fault when things go wrong?
Or is anyone at all at fault, or is no one?
D: Give me your thoughts on this.
Disclaimer: I am not using you to vent about my problems, I was merely using it as an example.
Which is probably why things like this are so easily debateable.
Like, I'm going through this situation with some friends and uhm family right now.
My best friend snuck out of my room one night to go have sex with a... with someone much older than us.
I never got around to putting the screen back in my window, and my mother found out.
I was honest with my mother what was going on.
And now my best friend is in... alot of trouble and the man she was screwing is going to jail.
Who's fault is it all?
Mine? for being lazy, and being honest when confronted.
Hers? for screwing a *****, and using me in the process of it? ((karma?))
His? For being... well, a ***** my mothers for being a big mouth and telling her whole family, even though she promised me she wouldnt?
I can say it would be all our faults. We all had a part in it.
But everyone is pointing fingers at one person or another. And of all the pointing finger, it's gotten to be my fault the most.
But I dont feel like it IS my fault. I didnt screw a a *****. It's hers for being a slut, and his for thinking it's okay.
Maybe here's a better example:
A prostitute is raped.
Yes. They're both in the wrong?
But who's fault is it?
Her's for provoking it by having sex with everyone, and dressing provokitly, or his for letting his p***s take over his mind and take something by force?
Or, a dog is run over by a car.
Is it the dogs fault for running into the street like a dipshit?
Or is it the drivers for not stopping or swerving.
Of course, these other few ones arent as elaborate as the first one, but that's only because it's currently going on in my life, and it really made me wonder.
How do we know who is the main one at fault when things go wrong?
Or is anyone at all at fault, or is no one?
D: Give me your thoughts on this.
Disclaimer: I am not using you to vent about my problems, I was merely using it as an example.
