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 Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 3:52 pm
Okay, so I have friend at work, and his girlfriend is pregnant, presumably he is the father. He's almost 17, she's 14, almost 15, we all live in Texas, he doesn't have a job, and he doesn't have a driver's license. His mom is a hardcore catholic, and she abhores the idea of abortion. Both of his parents really don't like his girlfiend, and they know that she could be pregnant, and according to my friend, they think she's a whore. His parents want a paternity test, and they know that the baby could be his, but they really don't want to find out that it is.
His girlfriend has 3 older sisters, all of which are over 18, extremely territorial of their littlest sister, and one of the three sisters is a major player in a drug smuggling ring. All three sisters are ecstatic about the thought of their baby sister actually having a baby. He's still wondering if he is "safe," meaning her sisters won't ask their hulk-esque boyfriends to beat him up, and he's pretty sure that at least 2 of the sisters hate his guts. Plus, there's been a rumor going around that he cheated on his girlfriend, which is far from true. The two oldest sisters, who don't like my friend, didn't find out about my friend and their sister having sex from their sister, but from a friend.
She wants to keep the baby, and her sisters would be able to give their sister, and my friend if they're okay with him around, plenty of money to support themselves and the baby. She's taken 2 pregnancy tests, with a week in between each one, and both of them were positive. She's going to get a physical on Aug. 12, and her parents know that she's pregnant. And her mom is supportive, in fact, she's redecorating her daughter's room to my friend's liking. He's a pseudo-recovering alcoholic, his family is riddled with alcoholics, he's an ex-drug dealer, on top of that, he's worried all the stress of the situration will make alcohol all the more appealing to him, and he's worried that could hurt the relationship.
Any suggestions as to what he can do to improve the situation?
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Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2007 10:34 pm
My suggestion?
Stay WAY, WAY out of this.
What a disaster.
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Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 9:35 pm
scream gonk
As much as he is your friend, I definitely agree with Savina. You don't want to get caught up with this. It's a terrible situation...
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Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 11:49 pm
Be supportive from a distance.
Talk and things like that but I wouldn't get too involved. I know it sounds awful mean but it's such a mess, not something you want to be into too deep.
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