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 Posted: Sat Jul 28, 2007 8:10 pm
I figured out that my ex g/f is 5 months pregnant, and she had yet to tell me this whole time. She was on birth control.
Once thing I don't get, is that she said she had her period a couple of days after we had sex.
I'm pretty sure 100% that its my child.
I don't know what to do. I know I need to tell my parents, but i'm afraid of how they will react.
I'm only 17 and it appears as i'm a failure to them.
My family is falling apart as it is.
Mother left the house due to my dads drinking
Father got arrested recently for DUI
Brother might be going into Airforce soon.
I don't know what i'm going do.
Me and her have no feelings for each other, she tells me not to worry about it, but of course I am.
Help.
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Posted: Sat Jul 28, 2007 9:07 pm
Maybe worry about getting your life together so you can help support your child... if that's what you want to do.
The military actually isn't a bad option, or you should get some kind of job while you go to school.
As far as her having her period, it happens.
If she was that close to her period already, that's not unusual at all.
For future reference, if you REALLY don't want to have a baby, you should use condoms in addition to other forms of birth control.
I wouldn't worry about your parents right now. Seems like you need to worry more about YOU.
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Posted: Tue Jul 31, 2007 8:11 am
Well, you're still a minor and you'll probably need their support too. The period things happens sometimes... You need to focus on your child now... becuase even when you're family is all beck together, or even if your family shatters, you'll still have a child wandering around your feet, and that child is the most important thing.
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Posted: Wed Aug 01, 2007 12:55 pm
sayshana Well, you're still a minor and you'll probably need their support too. The period things happens sometimes... You need to focus on your child now... becuase even when you're family is all beck together, or even if your family shatters, you'll still have a child wandering around your feet, and that child is the most important thing. Well, considering what he said about his family, I'm assuming they're not accomplishing a lot in the way of support to begin with. But yes... regardless of how your family is, you've made your own family now, and I think you understand how important it is to have stable, involved parents in a child's life.
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Posted: Thu Aug 16, 2007 2:39 am
How are things going now?
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Posted: Wed Aug 29, 2007 8:24 pm
LostxInxLonliness I figured out that my ex g/f is 5 months pregnant, and she had yet to tell me this whole time. She was on birth control. Once thing I don't get, is that she said she had her period a couple of days after we had sex. I'm pretty sure 100% that its my child. I don't know what to do. I know I need to tell my parents, but i'm afraid of how they will react. I'm only 17 and it appears as i'm a failure to them. My family is falling apart as it is. Mother left the house due to my dads drinking Father got arrested recently for DUI Brother might be going into Airforce soon. I don't know what i'm going do. Me and her have no feelings for each other, she tells me not to worry about it, but of course I am. Help. It doesn't seem to me that you're not failing your parents. It seems almost as though they're failing you. Your Dad drinks and your Mom left, there's a lot worse you could do then getting your gf pregnant.
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Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2007 8:28 am
pretty_pink_angel21 It doesn't seem to me that you're not failing your parents. It seems almost as though they're failing you. Your Dad drinks and your Mom left, there's a lot worse you could do then getting your gf pregnant. absolutely agree. and you are a great guy, just support the mother of your son. you can try to get some money for helping her... but first keep communication with her and go with her to exams & things. even you dont have feelings, you are together in this.
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