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senzublast

PostPosted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 4:21 pm


~~~*~~~1st issue~~~*~~~
I have no urge to eat alot lately.
I know, this may sound like nothing, but I keep trying to get more wieght on me, then I loose it again.
The most I eat is at lunch, and I rarely have any appetite for anything else. I think its due to stress. And I know, sence summers coming, its going to be killer to me. Sence, I eat the most in school.

I've been under wieght for an extremly long time. It may seem all great and things, but its really unhealthy.


~~~*~~~2nd issue~~~*~~~

Boys, yep, boys. Theres a dance this weekend. gonk And I don't know what to do. I know I'm not getting a date... and secretly, there is this one boy, who I'd love to dance with. But, I don't know if he would. Yeah, hes my friend... but, I don't know if he wants more.
What should I do at the dance? Just talk to him some? Or what? Break out dancing like I did once when he walked behind me? [that was funny xd ]

Please help me. I'm full of other things, but I think I'll keep them to myselfs till I can afford a real shrink.
PostPosted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 5:20 pm


1. I have the exact same problem. Especially last year. I just never felt like eating at all. But I think with me, it was because I was depressed.

Basically, the only thing you can do is just force yourself to eat a good three meals a day. That, and try to figure out what exactly is making you feel like not eating, and get rid of it. If it's stress, there are plenty of ways to relieve that. Certain types of breathing and such.

But I know how you feel with all that, I'm really underweight too. 3nodding My mom's always bugging me to make sure I eat.

2. Ah, boys. xD

Well, if he's your friend, then you could just go up to him real casual and be like "Hey, you wanna dance?" I dance with my guy friends all the time. You could just joke around with him or something. And talking is always good too.

Hope this helped. ^_^ <3

ThisIsYogurt


Trix_Disorder

PostPosted: Mon Jun 12, 2006 10:18 pm


Ho'kay.

#1
I don't eat much either (maybe not to you or Jello's extreme, but it's there), and like you said, it gets worse in the summer. I usually only get a good dinner each day. But eating is important, like you said, not eating is very unhealthy.
Find something like a trail mix bar, or something healthy that you enjoy that you can eat often and without much hassel. That way, if you don't feel like eating, but you need to get something in your stomach, you can have that. Then eventually you can move on to bigger, better things. Drinking a lot helps too (Juice, Milk, etc, not just water).

#2
My favorite topic. Not.
Just ask him to dance casually, like Jello says, and then you can make stupid hinty flirty comments at him all night. Eye contact, hair touching, the whole shibang. If he's one of those rare, smart boys, he may pick up your hints and maybe respond to them.
And look smexy! heart
PostPosted: Tue Jun 13, 2006 9:30 am


1. I also have this problem...anymore I just don't have an inclination to want to eat. I think it's probably normal to feel no appetite in one's life. lately I don't have an appetite either, so don't worry. ^_^

2. if he is your friend, you could just ask him to dance, since he's your friend, he should want to dance too 3nodding heart hope I helped with your problems heart wink

swissfishwish1


senzublast

PostPosted: Tue Jun 13, 2006 2:51 pm


Thank gals. = ]

1Yeaa, I know what my problem is for not eating, but thats not going to go away. And I am making myself eat. -_-'

2 Heh... yeaa, hes a smarty. = ] Hes one of the smartest boys, which is a shocker. I have to go get a dress that morning, which of course will be "smexy" = ] You guys are real nice. And I always flirt with him anyway... Err, we tend to end up laughing most of the time we are near each other... xd


But, theres the one major issue... hes my ex boyfriend
gonk But yea.... it was really short... and we didn't really know much of each other then. =
PostPosted: Tue Jun 13, 2006 2:57 pm


1: I love foodddd Anyways, start with something small, like trix said. Then work your way to bigger foods. Find a food that you really like, and have that often.

2: Like everyone else said: casually go up to him, and flirt a little with him during the night. oh, and dance your heart out! anddd look schmexy! ;D

F U N K E H BOXERS


F U N K E H BOXERS

PostPosted: Tue Jun 13, 2006 3:00 pm


Quote:

But, theres the one major issue... hes my ex boyfriend
gonk But yea.... it was really short... and we didn't really know much of each other then. =
Who cares! that wa he past, now that you know him more, go for it. 3nodding

Hope i helped <3
PostPosted: Tue Jun 13, 2006 3:09 pm


[Funky.Music]
Quote:

But, theres the one major issue... hes my ex boyfriend
gonk But yea.... it was really short... and we didn't really know much of each other then. =
Who cares! that wa he past, now that you know him more, go for it. 3nodding

Hope i helped <3
Thanks. = ]

I'm still wondering how I can casually ask him to dance or somin... I know I can flirt well. = ]

senzublast


~pixxy of depraved acts~

PostPosted: Sat Jul 15, 2006 1:25 pm


twisted ya eating at school was allways my fave time of the day...but then we never really had much around the house nore was i wellcome to share in what was there ...g no wonder i turned out so ******** up lol ...get used to it kid eat all you can cause trust me there will be times when you wished you have ramen ...life sucks haha twisted
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