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 Posted: Sun Mar 29, 2015 7:17 am
i feel kinda stuck in the middle somewhere when it comes to appearance i love to wear makeup but at the same time i like to look more manly
I don't really know what to do i feel uncomfortable in my body
(partly because im pregnant and feel more feminine then usual)
it changes a lot if i wanna wear guy clothes or if i wanna have my boobs hanging out
has anyone been through this or have any idea to make it more comfortable?
its kinda confusing even to me because sometimes i wanna be identified as a girl and other times a guy. kinda like two sides of me :/ it confuses my partner too because i cant make up my mind and be comfortable
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Posted: Sun Mar 29, 2015 7:24 pm
I feel for you. It can be very difficult to figure out one's self in an ever-changing world. There are so many kinds of labels. Too many. I'm aware that each case is quite different, though. Sometimes there are terms that transcend the use of labels. Whatever the case may be, you are human.
Also, I can relate to the whole concept of gender... I kind of decided that slapping a whole bunch of labels on me gave me a bit of a headache. I don't know if this helps, but I personally use the term omnigender, or whatever feels right at the time.
If you tend to go back and forth between male and female, then do what feels right (within reason, of course).
You are you and that's what matters.
I hope that didn't sound too preachy. xP
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Posted: Mon Mar 30, 2015 6:44 am
Iris_Vividae23 I feel for you. It can be very difficult to figure out one's self in an ever-changing world. There are so many kinds of labels. Too many. I'm aware that each case is quite different, though. Sometimes there are terms that transcend the use of labels. Whatever the case may be, you are human. Also, I can relate to the whole concept of gender... I kind of decided that slapping a whole bunch of labels on me gave me a bit of a headache. I don't know if this helps, but I personally use the term omnigender, or whatever feels right at the time. If you tend to go back and forth between male and female, then do what feels right (within reason, of course). You are you and that's what matters. I hope that didn't sound too preachy. xP Hehe thanks it helps a lot whee
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Posted: Mon Mar 30, 2015 12:46 pm
kuro_fuzzipaws_miyako Iris_Vividae23 I feel for you. It can be very difficult to figure out one's self in an ever-changing world. There are so many kinds of labels. Too many. I'm aware that each case is quite different, though. Sometimes there are terms that transcend the use of labels. Whatever the case may be, you are human. Also, I can relate to the whole concept of gender... I kind of decided that slapping a whole bunch of labels on me gave me a bit of a headache. I don't know if this helps, but I personally use the term omnigender, or whatever feels right at the time. If you tend to go back and forth between male and female, then do what feels right (within reason, of course). You are you and that's what matters. I hope that didn't sound too preachy. xP Hehe thanks it helps a lot whee Yay! I'm glad. ^ ^
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