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Flight Thirteen

PostPosted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 4:39 pm


When I make love to my husband I feel pain. Its almost like I have a cut or cuts around the hole of my p***y and when he puts his d**k into me it hurts badly. And I hurt his feelings when I pull away from him like hes doing something wrong. Theres only one position where I don't feel pain while we make love and thats when we are spooning. what can I do about this?.
PostPosted: Sun Mar 19, 2006 5:02 pm


Well first of all, you need to talk to him and explain why you pull away. If you are in pain, the last thing you need is a guilt trip for trying to get yourself out of pain.

Now, depending on what kind of pain it is it could be different things. If I had to guess, I would say it's either lack of lubrication or something like a cyst. Lack of lubrication is an easy one to fix, just buy some personal lubricant at your local pharmacy.

If that doesn't work, it could be a problem. I would recommend speaking with your gynecologist about it because it's quite possible that it could be a cyst that, in certain positions, is being irritated by his p***s.

Just as a general thing, you should be seeing a gynecologist at least once a year after you turn 18 or become sexually active (whichever comes first). There are quite a lot of medical problems that can occur at that age or from sex (beyond STDs) and early detection is absolutly crucial. So it's important to get a full physical at least once a year.

Akhakhu


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 20, 2006 5:30 pm


mikomihino_25
When I make love to my husband I feel pain. Its almost like I have a cut or cuts around the hole of my p***y and when he puts his d**k into me it hurts badly. And I hurt his feelings when I pull away from him like hes doing something wrong. Theres only one position where I don't feel pain while we make love and thats when we are spooning. what can I do about this?.


Start taking responsibility for yourself and your body, and do yourself a HUGE favor by starting to see a doctor/gynocologist (if you aren't already seeing one). I've seen your past threads about this same/similar issue (pain during sex/oral sex), and that's almost all we can tell you. Since, you know, we're not medical professionals and can't give you a legitimate opinion about what could be wrong with you. neutral

It might be a good idea to refrain from sex until you can figure out what's wrong, too. If it's a simple lubrication problem, follow the advice from your past threads and buy some lubrication. Or use saliva. If it's not a lubrication problem, you need to see a doctor/gyno about it, because it could be indicating a larger problem.

And as Kukushka said said, once you're 18 (or sexually active, whichever comes first), you need to be seeing a gynecologist for a physical (pap smear, pelvic exam and breast exam) at least once a year. Be mature, and be responsible, and do something about your problem. Because you've complained about pain before, and I'm willing to bet the advice you receive this time isn't going to be much different from your other threads.

Your past thread about lack of lubrication: http://www.gaiaonline.com/guilds/viewtopic.php?t=1920388

Your past thread about pain during oral sex: http://www.gaiaonline.com/guilds/viewtopic.php?t=2132981
PostPosted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 12:38 pm


Well, before you hurt yourself even worse than you already are when you have sex, you should go to a doctor or gynacologist (Sorry if spelling on that is bad).

If he questions on why you pull away, tell him that it hurts and you think it feels like there's cuts around your v****a.

If you keep having pain during sex, try to cut down on it/stop and go to a doctor. I can't really tell you much more.

Peasant2013


A`poc-ellipse

PostPosted: Thu Mar 23, 2006 2:54 pm


Not Advice From A Medical Professional: If his p***s is on the larger side, and you are on the smaller side, then it could be that he is forcing himself. If you are tense, the v****a is alot less likely to expand as well.
PostPosted: Fri Mar 24, 2006 10:29 am


Are you hurting any other time? You might have an infection, example a yest infection. I had sex one time when I had one, OMG. I thought that I was going to die.

As everyone has said, talk with him and go to a doctor

Karasuaki

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