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 Posted: Mon Dec 07, 2009 6:06 pm
my bf doesnt like to talk about sex he just never does. but when i want to talk about it. he says i obsess about it. sorry if i like knowing everything about sex knowlegde is power. also how do you have sex and not be curious about certain things or history of it. not to mention i get tired of him trying to lube us up with his saliva . i buy the water based lube and he claims its too slippery.. i dont know what to do about that. i dont like the taste of flavored lubes but regular lube dont taste any better lol. sometimes while having sex he wants to go back to oral i dont mind but the taste of the lube not so great. i feel like im not doing enough in the bedroom... i massage, feed him fruit, shower with him, dress in lingerie, play soft music, light candles. i dont know what to do anymore. any suggestions?
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Posted: Mon Dec 07, 2009 6:48 pm
That sounds like a lot to me. eek What is he doing for you if you're doing all those things for him?
There's nothing wrong with sex knowledge. smile I know a lot more than most people I know, and that doesn't make me a bad person or a pervert.
If he doesn't like water-based lube, there's oil-based lubes too, but you have to be careful because you can't use a condom with those (the lube will damage the condom).
If he wants to switch from intercourse to oral, you can ask that he clean off the lube first (or you can clean it off for him). If you don't like the taste (and I don't blame you, I don't either), you shouldn't be forced to taste it if you don't want to. You can just keep a damp washcloth or towel by the bed, and that way you don't have to get up and wet it in the washroom and all that.
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Posted: Mon Dec 07, 2009 7:54 pm
gah washoff lol ruins the moment blaugh sweatdrop we dont use condoms im on mirena birth control. we only have sex with each other.
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Posted: Mon Dec 07, 2009 9:21 pm
mikomihino_25_2 gah washoff lol ruins the moment blaugh sweatdrop we dont use condoms im on mirena birth control. we only have sex with each other. If you have Mirena IUD, that means you've had a baby or abortion, correct? Anyway, you'll have to settle for something if he wants to switch to oral during intercourse. Either washing it off, or only using saliva. Washing it off can be fun, you have to make fun and sexy. wink
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Posted: Mon Dec 07, 2009 9:28 pm
Preston Trelsly If you have Mirena IUD, that means you've had a baby or abortion, correct? Inserting an IUD is easier if a woman has been pregnant before. So a lot of doctors prefer to give them to women who have been pregnant. But women who have never been pregnant certainly can get them too. 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Dec 07, 2009 9:32 pm
LorienLlewellyn Preston Trelsly If you have Mirena IUD, that means you've had a baby or abortion, correct? Inserting an IUD is easier if a woman has been pregnant before. So a lot of doctors prefer to give them to women who have been pregnant. But women who have never been pregnant certainly can get them too. 3nodding Oh, I thought they couldn't. Then again, I thought I did hear about them making one specifically for women who haven't had children before.
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Posted: Mon Dec 07, 2009 9:45 pm
Preston Trelsly mikomihino_25_2 gah washoff lol ruins the moment blaugh sweatdrop we dont use condoms im on mirena birth control. we only have sex with each other. If you have Mirena IUD, that means you've had a baby or abortion, correct? Anyway, you'll have to settle for something if he wants to switch to oral during intercourse. Either washing it off, or only using saliva. Washing it off can be fun, you have to make fun and sexy. wink yes we have a child lol shes so cute.
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Posted: Tue Dec 08, 2009 9:13 am
Preston Trelsly Oh, I thought they couldn't. Then again, I thought I did hear about them making one specifically for women who haven't had children before. It was sort of rare for women without children to have an IUD for a while, mainly because of the fear that the IUD would cause infertility. But it's becoming increasingly common for childless women to get them now.
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