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 Posted: Fri Oct 02, 2009 8:08 pm
when i give my bf a bj it seems like it takes forever to c**, and thats IF he cums. I dont know what to do, ive tried using my hands too, going faster, once he even just used his hands while i sucked on him but it still seemed to take forever. really we havent done it that much so i cant really ask him if theres something im not doing. he seems to be prefictly ok though when we have sex, its only when i give him bj's. so what do yall think i could do, or is there like maybe some guy could tell me what they like so i could get an idea.
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Posted: Fri Oct 02, 2009 10:47 pm
Some guys take longer than others. And some guys take longer with certain activities. So it's not uncommon for a guy to orgasm quickly from sex but not from oral sex, for example.
Everyone has different preferences. So there isn't much you can do other than talk to him about it. Because what speeds things up and feels great for one guy might not really do it for another.
It doesn't matter if you have only done it a few times. You can still ask him there's anything he'd like you to do different. Even if he is inexperienced too, he should still know what feels good and what doesn't!
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Posted: Sat Oct 03, 2009 1:47 am
You two can also look up resources online for tips and new ideas too, or read books. There's some in this guild and you can find your own - Google is a good place to start. 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Oct 03, 2009 7:21 am
ok so its more than likely just him taking longer for some things than others. and looking things up and reading things such as eroticas could help my imagination.
i guess i will have to talk to him about it, but we still sometimes feel akward talking about it. i know its just because we r both shy people and we just resenctly started doing things like this but we get a little more confedent and less scared each day.
and this brings me to my nex question for yall, when yall first really became sexually active were things a little akward at first, and if so how did yall get over the akwardness?
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Posted: Sat Oct 03, 2009 11:29 am
Things were not awkward for me when I first started having sex. My partner and I had great communication. And things just aren't awkward once you've talked about it and gotten it out in the open. 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Oct 03, 2009 2:12 pm
im starting to think that im more shy than he is......
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