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 Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 6:01 pm
He keeps leading me on, and then throwing it all away.
He says he's selfish, and wants me no matter what the cost; and then turns around and says he thinks he's holding me back and walks.
He says he loves me, and he wants to be friends, and this isn't the first time he did this.
What am I to do?!!?!
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Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 6:08 pm
First forget about his "wants" then think, is this the type of relationship you really want with a guy? Is this how you should be treated? After you think about that tell him that. More then likely you won't hoiw your treated, but you need to be selfish here, if you wish to leave him tell him that, not in any angry tone, but tell him this is not how you should be treated and think that you think you both need to move on
Hope this helps, feel free to PM me with any problems
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Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 7:05 pm
But it's not like I want to leave....
This is complicated. sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Apr 23, 2008 7:49 pm
You need to leave him, and give him time to figure out what he really wants. Tell him you want to be with him, but you cannot play games. Either he wants you, or he dosn't and you won't put up with his flip flopping anymore. It happened to me, and I just couldn't take the drain that it put on me. If you love it, let it go, and if it comes back, it's yours.
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