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 Posted: Sat Mar 22, 2008 9:25 pm
I have an issue with my GF she is 14 and you can see a pic of me and her on my profile, it just feels that she isnt mature enough for a relationship or the relationship i would like to have, i am 16 and it feels like we are just friends and not going out, i let her have a lot of slack and hang out with her other friends alot and yeah i just would like to have more time with her, i was wondering if i should just break up with her and be friends or if i should talk to her about it, if i talk to her what should i say?
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Posted: Sat Mar 22, 2008 9:42 pm
First off, very cute picture! :]
As a 15 year old girl and in a relationship with a 17 year old boy, let me say from my perspective (which is most likely the same as hers) that it's intimidating dating somebody older than you. You feel like there are so many expectations and that they have so much more experience. Plus, on top of all of that, if you like them then you are trying really hard to impress them.
I don't think it's worth breaking up over just yet. I do feel that you should talk to her. How? Just explain to her whats going on. If it's that she isn't giving you enough physical attention by shying away from a kiss or something, then ask her why she is scared of it and explain that she can trust you. If you feel that she can't have serious conversation and just wants to goof around, then tell her that you wouldn't mind becoming a little bit more serious by taking your relationship to the next step. If it dosen't work out after awhile, tell her you'd love to be best friends and that you just think you'd have a better relationship without all the stress of dating.
I guess since I don't exactly know what you mean by immaturity it's a little hard to help. If you want to let me know I will gladly give more help! <3 xoxo LC
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Posted: Thu Mar 27, 2008 8:04 pm
Honestly, it's just the way a girl works. Everyone hates being nervous, and your girlfriend is just reacting to that by acting like a really good buddy. She probably does like you, because she's doing this. If she didn't like you, she might try to be more lovey-dovey, to "force" herself to like you.
I know, a girl's mind is a labyrinth.
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