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 Posted: Sat Oct 27, 2007 9:03 pm
me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost two years now and I would eventually like to have sex with him, but before that time comes I'm wondering how I could prepare myself for it any suggestions to help me relax and stuff" I'm still a virgin so I'm kinda nervous.
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Posted: Sat Oct 27, 2007 11:59 pm
My biggest suggestion would be to talk to your boyfriend about it before the deed. Talk about your expectations and his expectations. First-time sex is all about trust, discovery, and taking your time.
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Posted: Sun Oct 28, 2007 12:06 am
1. If you're very nervous, then wait. Wait until you are comfortable with sex and with your partner before having it. There's no reason to rush, and you will enjoy it a lot more if you are not nervous.
2. Have a water-based lubricant on hand just in case you don't make enough of your own natural lubrication.
3. Schedule an appointment with an ob-gyn to have your pap and get birth control.
4. Have at least one form of birth control that you know how to use.
5. Have a plan for what you two would do if an accidental pregnancy did occur.
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