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 Posted: Sat Oct 10, 2009 12:12 am
I think it's best to wait until it's someone that you WOULD marry.
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Posted: Sat Oct 10, 2009 2:22 am
Sometimes you can find a person you THINK you will marry and end up doing it while engaged then a few months down the track they do something that ruins it. I learned this the hard way as an ex fiancee cheated on me roughly 6months before our wedding date was due.
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Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 3:19 pm
I don't believe that sex before marriage is wrong. Sex has changed from the ultimate way of expressing ones love for another to almost as commonplace as kissing.
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Posted: Sun Oct 18, 2009 3:24 pm
i say it doesnt matter as long as ur ready and its with the person u care about then make sure ur protected and careful.Its ur desicion anyway.
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Posted: Tue Dec 08, 2009 1:21 pm
I don't believe in sex before marriage! why? well, y would you get married then? lol! I know its not the best debate thing to say, but im too lazy to write a lot! hehe!
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Posted: Mon Dec 14, 2009 6:25 am
i think your right it depends on your reason , but if it is just because your friends have done it or something like that i don't think you should do it!
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Posted: Mon Dec 14, 2009 6:46 am
its better to wait until after marriage. premarital sex is just wrong according to the Big Man Himself *points up*
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Posted: Thu Dec 17, 2009 10:58 pm
I think you should save your self for the person you love, then they would know that you are ther one and true love.
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Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 8:33 am
Is it wrong? Not only yes, but hell yes!
If they truly loved you, and you wanted to wait, they would allow you to. Though, by church you are forced to. And do you really want the chance of getting the girl pregnant BEFORE you even leave High School? Some of you may be saying, "Oh... I'd just leave her if that happened.", this is the part I give about "Putting yourself in other peoples shoes." If you were her, would you want to take care of a child all by yourself. My girlfriend, whom i love and will never, ever leave, knows I want to wait. I have some "Fun" with her, but i would never get into bed with her, unless we got married and both of us were ready. And anyway, what my mom would do to me of she fund out would make it not even worth it. ((Yeah, It will be THAT bad!))
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Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 8:48 am
V_Kamihara Is it wrong? Not only yes, but hell yes! If they truly loved you, and you wanted to wait, they would allow you to. Though, by church you are forced to. And do you really want the chance of getting the girl pregnant BEFORE you even leave High School? Some of you may be saying, "Oh... I'd just leave her if that happened.", this is the part I give about "Putting yourself in other peoples shoes." If you were her, would you want to take care of a child all by yourself. My girlfriend, whom i love and will never, ever leave, knows I want to wait. I have some "Fun" with her, but i would never get into bed with her, unless we got married and both of us were ready. And anyway, what my mom would do to me of she fund out would make it not even worth it. ((Yeah, It will be THAT bad!)) I think i love your opinion and how it's stated. I don't think it's necesarrily wrong, but all-in-all just not a very good decision. WAITING IS GOOD!! I think most young people in relationships now have very little concept of time and waiting, and think that dating for a couple months is a "long time to wait". I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 and a half months and i've already said to him that i wanted to wait. He told me he felt the same, and we celebrated, heh. I think that we're a pretty good example to the rest of the young-dating-population. (JSYK, there's a big age-gap between us. i'm 14, he's 17.)
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Posted: Thu Jan 21, 2010 6:59 pm
I think teens are to naive to have sex before being married because then they drop out of school because of a child and most likely have a divorce at 20.
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Posted: Sat Feb 06, 2010 10:31 am
 These little knights... When teenagers are having sex like a couple of rabbits, then I say it's wrong.
Because more times than not, they're not using protection or they say they're responsible for sex.
Yet when her belly starts rising, all Hell breaks loose.
Sex (scientifically speaking) is the act of bringing a female's egg and a male's sperm together to form a baby.
Therefor, if you are responsible enough to have sex, you are responsible to have a child and rise it properly.
When your adults, the same rule still applies, but by then you're a little more on your feet (hopefully) and are more stable that you can take care of a child if that should ever happen.
All in all though, I say it's best to wait for the person you marry.
I once had a speaker come to my school who addressed the word 'love' and sex.
One thing he said has stuck to me ever since he came, and I life by this.
"If you have sex with other people, you'll eventually start comparing your partner to others."
Okay, I'm not entirely sure if that's what he said, but that's his point.
When you have sex with more than one person (and I'm saying you had sex with your girl/boy friend, broke up, got a new girl/boy friend and start having sex with them) you begin to compare them.
S/He's the better lover.
S/He felt better.
S/He was prettier.
He was larger.
She was tighter.
Your head becomes filled with comparisons of ex-lovers, that sex isn't the same anymore.
When you only have one partner and one partner only, there is no comparing or criticizing (well, I hope there isn't anyway. I know no one's perfect but if you never had sex before then how do you know it's wrong?).
Just enjoying a wonderful moment with the love of your life.  ...will rock your world
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Posted: Thu Feb 11, 2010 3:14 am
I don't think it's wrong. I never want to get married. Why should I remain a virgin. After 8 years of being sexually active, its kind of too late anyway 4laugh
Edit: @ Randomly Gone Insane: it's not quite like that. I personally do not compare in the 'Oh he was bigger' kind of way. Everyone is different and they have sex in different ways (well, not the basic mechanics, but you know what I mean) It's quite nice to get different.....perspectives. Besides which, what if someone, like myself doesn't want marriage or children? Are you saying they should remain a virgin forever?
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Posted: Thu Feb 11, 2010 3:34 am
Toastes thats way off topic. dolphins arn't people, and they have babys every time! unless your going to invent the dolphin condom. and they don't get married. don't compare a fish creature to humans..
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Posted: Thu Feb 11, 2010 3:28 pm
Foxglow I don't think it's wrong. I never want to get married. Why should I remain a virgin. After 8 years of being sexually active, its kind of too late anyway 4laugh Edit: @ Randomly Gone Insane: it's not quite like that. I personally do not compare in the 'Oh he was bigger' kind of way. Everyone is different and they have sex in different ways (well, not the basic mechanics, but you know what I mean) It's quite nice to get different.....perspectives. Besides which, what if someone, like myself doesn't want marriage or children? Are you saying they should remain a virgin forever? These little knights... For choices such as not getting married, I personally scoff at because I can't picture anyone not settling down with another.
But to be fair, I don't care what you do at that point.
If you're not going to find someone to love for the rest of your life (or just simply not marry) then you have full rights to have sex.
While I don't agree with the idea, there's really nothing to do against it.
If you're not going to get married, then why save it?
And in rebuttal to comparing:
What if you come across someone who didn't do something your last partner did that you enjoyed?
Say you tell them, and refuse.
To me, that's kind of... a bummer.
I understand no one is going to do anything right away, but what if they just absolutely refuse for whatever they may have?
Sure, you could give up whatever it is you're trying to make them do, but you'll still think back to it, and how much you enjoyed it, and how you'll never be able to do it again. ...will rock your world
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