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 Posted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 2:12 pm
personally, i dont think sex before marriage is smart because theres way to many risks. even if you use protection, theres no guarenty you won't catch something. and if you ont end up marrying the person you have sex with, then it cheapens it when your with the person you do marry. Also if the person really loves you that much, they can wait.
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Posted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 2:59 pm
Sex before marriage is ok in my book, no matter what the reason for having it. As you grow older you will realise that sex is healthy, wether for love or a booty call ... not saying I sleep around .. i have been with 2 people in the last 4 years, but "disconnected sex" is just as good as making love, as long as both (or all crying ) partners realize what the relationship is or isnt heart / lol
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Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2008 6:16 am
RainJosh
I don't think you should do something just for the sake of god.
And anywayz, were Adam and Eve married?
Somehow I guess not.
 Not #1
But still better than you !!! umm that is not what she was talking about. i think she was talking about how if you have sex with someone and it doesn't workout, then you are not a virgin and can't lose it to your new wife. and it's perty much you did someones wife. think about this, you do it and you break up. five years later you find out he/she got married. and then you find them and are still friends. well you may feel kind of wrong because you have had sex with their wife / husband. doesn't matter before or after, you still did and you still know. correct me if im wrong.
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Posted: Tue Apr 01, 2008 2:35 am
Toastes umm that is not what she was talking about. i think she was talking about how if you have sex with someone and it doesn't workout, then you are not a virgin and can't lose it to your new wife. and it's perty much you did someones wife. think about this, you do it and you break up. five years later you find out he/she got married. and then you find them and are still friends. well you may feel kind of wrong because you have had sex with their wife / husband. doesn't matter before or after, you still did and you still know. correct me if im wrong.
O.o
I don't think I'd have any problem at all about that, as a matter of fact.
The past is the past, y'know?
Not #1
But still better than you !!!
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Posted: Wed Apr 02, 2008 10:56 am
Wow! I just got off the phone with my first and we were talking about if I regreted it being him. I had known him for a while and one day we decided basicly to have sex for the hell of it. About a week later I meat my now husband. I don't regret what I did. I'm kinda glade i didn't go through what some of my friends did. Having sex with their b/f and then later when they are not together anymore being upset. We had fun and neither of us got hurt. I'm not saying in any way that anyone should do the same as I did. I would in a way like it to have been my husband as my first but I dunno I'm fine with how it turned out. Just do what you feel is right. Don't just let it be anyone. we were friends for over a year so we had a connection. Wasn't some random dude off the street.
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Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 5:42 pm
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Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 11:53 am
Toastes i do realize this. and there is nothing that can sto it. it could be adultry. which means one isn't married.. o crud.. oops both can be married.. umm dang ima lose. well what makes sex before marrige wrong, is the fact that you should be married with the person you love, making it right. o and doesn't it defeat the whole idea? it isn't wrongif you are in love, like will marry for sure. i dono? any one else on my side? I know this is a lottle late, but adultry is when you cheat on you're spouse, not unmarried sex.
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Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 11:58 am
Okay, I may piss several people off with this, and if I do I apoligize now.
Sex is just sex. That's it period. it's not some special bond that happens. It's not something where when you do it you change and your relationship with the person becomes better, you're become more in love. That's not how it works. Sex is just an action. Sure it's more fun with someone you love, because you're more comfortable. But other than that it's just sex.
The whole reason religions say no sex before marriage is that if you did happen to get pregnant you wouldn't look like a whore. Sad but true.
Hell sex will ruin a relationship more than anything.
It's not some happy marriage ritual. It's just an action. It doesn't mean anything.
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Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2008 6:59 am
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Posted: Tue May 06, 2008 9:03 am
Correct me if I'm wrong but sex before marriage is a sin in every religion. But still millions do it. So.. -shrugs-
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Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 8:02 am
I think sex is a sacred, because it gives life, a new life...
and also if it is sacred then it must be done in a sacred way..
like sex after marriage..
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Posted: Sun May 18, 2008 9:47 pm
Everybody now days is doing it. That is why teen pregnancy is through the roof. I dont think you should before you are married becouse there is alot that goes with it. First you have to worry about diseases and then you have to worry about the other persons feelings and then you have to worry about pregnancy and then you have to worry about telling the other person if you are pregnant and then telling both parents. and then and then and then lol you get my point. I didnt wait until i was married but my wife did and i have many regrets about it. It is just safer to wait until you are married.
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Posted: Tue Jul 01, 2008 1:06 am
I think it's fine.
I technically lost my virginity from being raped just before my freshman year. I chose to have sex over a year later, to try and relieve my fear of it. I honestly think that if I had waited until marriage to try having sex, I wouldn't have been able to. So, really, sex before marriage was a good thing for me.
And, Lowenna, as far as I understand it, from my fiancee [who is the most insanely religious person/Pagan I know], it is perfectly fine in Paganism.
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Posted: Tue Jul 01, 2008 11:57 am
Ive personally always thought, that if you love someone its ok to have sex before marriage. I mean...If people wanna go out and have meaningless sex..Kudos to them. Its just not for me.
I lost my virginity to my husband, before we were married. But I knew he was my one, And I loved him dearly. SO I didnt care if we were married or not.
I dont think I would ever be able to have meaningless sex...Its just not something I could bring myself todo, nor would I ever want to.
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