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 Posted: Thu Sep 07, 2006 12:37 pm
Well, i dont believe in pre-marital sex mainly because:
1. The bible does state that it is a sin.
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2. When you have sex with someone, you have to remember that you're giving that person a part of you. That is mainly why God made it for married people.
Plus, it's so much more sweeter if you wait in addition to never missing it. 3nodding
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Posted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 9:59 am
I've already had premarital sex, and with the wrong person. So all I have to say is for all of those out there that are still a virgin and are dating that one 'special someone' is to save yourself untill after your wedding, and if your soul mate can't handle that then send them packing.
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Posted: Tue Sep 12, 2006 11:10 am
ScarredImage Through personal experience I think it's not a good idea. Cuz you never know when things will happen and suddenly the one you think you'll have forever is gone, just poof! It can really leave a person (especially girls) feeling empty and unworthy. I personally feel like I can't marry anyone but the guy I lost my virginity to because I won't have anything to give the guy I marry. Least if I married my ex I'd know he already has my virginity so I don't have to worry about giving him that...if that makes sense. *sigh* It's really hard not to have premarital sex, anyone who says otherwise is crazy. But it's better to wait. Ner...now I miss my ex and want him back...excuse me while I pray our relationship will work out again (without the sex!)... I'll def pray for you.
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Posted: Tue Oct 10, 2006 4:20 pm
well, they way i look at it, i'd be happy to hear my wife tell me that she waited all her life for that one special person...
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Posted: Tue Oct 10, 2006 4:41 pm
My plan was to wait till marrage, I got engaged, and well I gave in. Got pregnant, found out he was cheating on me, and I'm a single mother. I know pleatly of adults that arn't virgins, but at the same time didn't have what happened to me. If you are responsible and don't let it controll your life... Then My thing is so many young people get into it.
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Posted: Wed Oct 11, 2006 12:00 pm
well I am planing on waiting untill marrage but I would still marry someone even if she had'ent waited.
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Posted: Wed Oct 11, 2006 3:27 pm
Yes, I'd marry someone even if she had'nt waited. But that would feel so great in my heart. It's not like no one will marry you if you're not a virgin, but they will always bring in their hearts that they are not the first ones.
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Posted: Thu Oct 12, 2006 4:08 pm
My mother was a virgin, my father wasn't. sometimes I wonder if life would have been better for her if she didn't marry him. I mean he cheated on her. Thats why they are devorced now. confused
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Posted: Fri Oct 13, 2006 5:49 pm
Define marriage... In the Bible, the basics of being married was having sex with that person. In my opinion, papers given to you by the government do not define you love for a person and therefore giving you a right to have sex with them. If the people truly love each other, then I doubt God looks at them as sinners...
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Posted: Fri Oct 13, 2006 11:50 pm
Adragorn Gelsius Define marriage... In the Bible, the basics of being married was having sex with that person. In my opinion, papers given to you by the government do not define you love for a person and therefore giving you a right to have sex with them. If the people truly love each other, then I doubt God looks at them as sinners... were does it say that?
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Posted: Sun Oct 15, 2006 1:26 am
Linkg Adragorn Gelsius Define marriage... In the Bible, the basics of being married was having sex with that person. In my opinion, papers given to you by the government do not define you love for a person and therefore giving you a right to have sex with them. If the people truly love each other, then I doubt God looks at them as sinners... were does it say that? yes, were? (I hope you're brave enough to answer this question as you were to say what you said)
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Posted: Sun Oct 15, 2006 12:21 pm
Everywhere... God looks at the matters of the heart, not a corrupt goverment's law...
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Posted: Sun Oct 15, 2006 7:08 pm
Adragorn Gelsius Everywhere... God looks at the matters of the heart, not a corrupt goverment's law... but God says that all govenments are there because God lets them be there, and sex is not the basis of love and matters of the hart are love.
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Posted: Sun Oct 15, 2006 7:49 pm
So, God placed the German government there, porposfully to kill of all opf the Jews? You certainly know your facts...
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Posted: Sun Oct 15, 2006 10:53 pm
I've done it and believe me for you that haven't don't do it. Its not owrth the pain you will go through.
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