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Well, if a man is not driven by their sex. then there isn't very many reasons why.

1. Their gay, and you just don't float their boat

2. They actually are but just are nervous or shy

3. They actually are but know that seeming to be unobtainable drives women mad.

4. They have a moral code that for some reason denies sex. (usually only in religion)

5. There is something wrong with them.

6. He needs you to spice stuff up. and initiate.

7. He gets more than enough from porn. Seriously. Even if a guy has a really low sex drive. he is still going to masturbate. And when a guy masturbates, his testosterone levels go down. Thus the want for sex drops. I personally don't know the reason why some guys choose being a lone over a partner, but many do. You are not alone in the women not getting enough attention dealio. Type in "why won't my boyfriend sleep with me?" into google and you will have a trillion results.

Who knows whats going on with him. Tear his clothes off and do things to him. and if he shoves you away. then there is a problem.

He won't do it until I get on birth control. He's paranoid is all. I totally understand, it's just funny to complain about.

Dude, if the person i loved tried to sexually assault me, i would not b***h about it.

and pshaw, respect? respect and sex have nothing to do with eachother. Sex is such a base and primal action. Seriously, sure it is 'magical' sure it 'brings you closer together' but in reality it is just like jacking off. Two people trying to have as much pleasure as they possibly can with eachother.

The first couple times are very special. But when your counting out hundreds of times.... i mean... come on....

And i understand the birth control thing.... There have been a few scares.... and well.... lets say i understand haha

Naw, he won't do it without at least two forms of protection. Like I said, he's paranoid, haha.

But not that big of a deal. I think my mother's about to put me on it soon anyway for other reasons.

Condoms do lose a little bit of the goodness....

but, in the end you don't have to (in biblical terms) Spill thy seed unto the ground.

which gives peace of mind, and well... its better.

Helpless Corpses Enactment
by Sleepytime Gorilla Museum

Lyrics, from James Joyce's Finnegans Wake

The oaks of ald now they lie in peat yet elms leap where askes lay. Phall if you but will, rise you must.

A hand from the cloud emerges, holding a chart expanded. The eversower of the seeds of light to the cowld owld sowls that are in the domnatory of Defmut after the night of the carrying of the word of Nuahs and the night of making Mehs to cuddle up in a coddlepot, Pu Nuseht, lord of risings in the yonderworld of Ntamplin, tohp triumphant, speaketh.

Mother of moth ! I will to show herword in flesh
Of all the stranger things that ever not even in the hundrund and badst pageans of unthowsent and wonst nice or in eddas and oddes bokes of tomb, dyke and hollow to be have happened! The untireties of livesliving being the one substrance of a streamsbecoming. Totalled in toldteld and teldtold.

Ascend out of your bed, cavern of a trunk, and shrine!

Vah! Suvarn Sur! Scatter brand to the reneweller of the sky,
thou who agnitest! Dah! Arcthuris comeing! Be! Verb
umprincipiant through the trancitive spaces! Kilt by kelt shell kithagain
with kinagain. We elect for thee, Tirtangel. We
Durbalanars, theeadjure. A way, the Margan, from our astamite,
through dimdom done till light kindling light has led we hopas
but hunt me the journeyon, iteritinerant, the kal his course,
amid the semitary of Somnionia.

Too mult sleepth. Let sleepth.

The oaks of ald now they lie in peat yet elms leap where askes lay. Phall if you but will, rise you must

+5

Oh yeah and in addition to that... if you want to be extra extra safe... make his a** pull out.

Problem solved... enjoy ;o

Edit: @guys above: ;o XD