I have something to add to this, my sister is a yaoi fangirl and loves gay guys. She supports them all the way, yet when I ask her what she thinks of lesbians and lesbian relationships she acts a bit strange and tells me to stop talking. Recently she left her phone out and to my curiosity I looked in it :p It was hurtful to see what she had. She typed things like "lesbians are disgusting" "my sister is such a dyke" "dykes like her should die" "A dyke like her will never be my sister"I was so hurt by what I read. How could she hate this much? This is what I hate, when yaoi fangirls love yaoi and just shut out lesbians. We are in the same frickin category.