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 Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2005 3:42 pm
ouch! haa than its going to be a LONG time. I turning 15 this year and the way my dad rules I wont leave til I'm like 18-19. (my sis is still here and shes engaged at 1 cool
And its not that fact that my friends arent acceptable to it. Its just I have said and done somethings that will make them so completely confused and maybe even disturbed to know. My friend that I like would be afriad to invite me over, but this is just a guess I have. but i have feeling she would react this way because-one she has a bf and second is that she isnt that way, at least I think..........
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2005 3:44 pm
Well...day at a time then i guess...
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2005 4:06 pm
MissCountLegacy it was easy for me to tell my mom I was bi. This guy had been bugging me and he liked me. My friend ((a girl in her 20's who was engaged to her boyfriend)) and I were at wal mart and the guy was there. He came up to me and asked if could talk to me, I said no, he asked if he could ask me a question, I said no again. my friend then put her arms around me and said "shes my woman she doesnt want you" she and I walked around holding hands. To this day he hasnt bothered me but anyway. When we got home we told my mom what we did, it was actually a joke, shes quite straight. Well after they left my mom was joking about "my woman" a few days of joking I told her that I was kind of interested in girls and she said it was perfectly fine. That was a relief for me. wow
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2005 4:14 pm
Well I'm curious, so I might not be much of a help.. I just talked it out with my mom(wouldn't dare! talk about it with my father!) but she understood she didn't might if I turned out bi or a lesbian all she said was that she would be dissapointed if she didn't have a grandchild, but my mom understood she wasn't angery or telling me to be straight(even though she can't really tell me what to be O_o) and so that's my story.
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2005 9:56 pm
Xxsexy_chickyxX Well I'm curious, so I might not be much of a help.. I just talked it out with my mom(wouldn't dare! talk about it with my father!) but she understood she didn't might if I turned out bi or a lesbian all she said was that she would be dissapointed if she didn't have a grandchild, but my mom understood she wasn't angery or telling me to be straight(even though she can't really tell me what to be O_o) and so that's my story.
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2005 10:01 pm
Uther_Litebring Xxsexy_chickyxX Well I'm curious, so I might not be much of a help.. I just talked it out with my mom(wouldn't dare! talk about it with my father!) but she understood she didn't might if I turned out bi or a lesbian all she said was that she would be dissapointed if she didn't have a grandchild, but my mom understood she wasn't angery or telling me to be straight(even though she can't really tell me what to be O_o) and so that's my story.
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Posted: Wed Feb 16, 2005 4:30 am
Uther_Litebring Uther_Litebring Xxsexy_chickyxX Well I'm curious, so I might not be much of a help.. I just talked it out with my mom(wouldn't dare! talk about it with my father!) but she understood she didn't might if I turned out bi or a lesbian all she said was that she would be dissapointed if she didn't have a grandchild, but my mom understood she wasn't angery or telling me to be straight(even though she can't really tell me what to be O_o) and so that's my story. Aww sad I watch yaoi on occasions although i am bi ^_^
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Posted: Wed Feb 16, 2005 8:26 pm
my sister came out to everyone one night and while the heat was on her I said I was gay too and no one minded me, because my sister was older and had a boy friend and stuff.
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Posted: Thu Feb 17, 2005 12:06 am
Wow cool.
Any ideas how i should come out to my parents
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Posted: Thu Feb 17, 2005 8:08 am
loginbin3000 Wow cool. Any ideas how i should come out to my parents What are your parents like? Usually a mom is much more understanding. Also maybe do it in a public setting like a restaurant, so if they get mad they can't make a scene. Oh and if anyone gets a chance look at my story on the second page of this thread
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Posted: Thu Feb 17, 2005 10:08 am
bigjr20 loginbin3000 Wow cool. Any ideas how i should come out to my parents What are your parents like? Usually a mom is much more understanding. Also maybe do it in a public setting like a restaurant, so if they get mad they can't make a scene. Oh and if anyone gets a chance look at my story on the second page of this thread Ok *Turns to page 2*
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Posted: Thu Feb 17, 2005 10:21 am
bigjr20 1. Im in college now, but in highschool, my junior year, it did slip out that I was bi. I had created an online personal saying bi/curious and it described me exactly and at my home town there is no one else like me. During a computer science class some kids thought it would be fun to see if there were any gays in town, and they found my profile and I was really scared. I found a print-out of the personal in my locker and I decided I couldn't tell anyone, other then my best friend, who is a lesbian. I denied it and said some jerk made it up and I even went to my cousnler and mentioned a name of a person who was spreading this profile everywhere. Well he got into a lot of trouble and he never forgot that. My name was clean again. 2. Last summer my sister found gay porn on my computer and questioned me. I totally lied to her and said I was looking up lesbian porn and that I recieved a virus from on of them. She beleived me. 3. Ok now the present. On coming out day I decided not to hide myself anymore. I guess the 10% soceity's advertising the day all over the sidewalk with chalk at my college gave me courage. I came out to all of my friends here and to my really good friends in my hometown. Everyone took it well, but one of my friends accidently told that guy that I had turned in my junior year that I am bi, and he told everyone there. Now other sister lives near me and she heard the rumors about me being gay and questioned me. Well I wouldn't lie about it, but I don't want her to know. Luckily they told her that I am gay. So I didn't lie. Also Last week my mom was coming up for a doctor appointment and her specialist is in the same city I live in so she came to visit me. I was going to tell her, but she brought her boyfriend with. So I didn't tell her, but she found out anyways. I let her sit at my computer when she was here, and I had left my xanga (online journal) up on my computer. Well she read it but didn't say anything. I wasn't sure if she saw anything to reveiling, because she only got to see what was on the screen, so I called her the next day. I started to tell her, but she stopped me and said "I know and I will love you no matter what". The funny the was that she got stuck in this city when her car broke down, so I went to visit her at her hotel and we hugged and she told me that she loved me. I know I am bi, but I think I am gay. I still a virgin crying so I don't know yet. I'm glad that most things turned out right for you in the end ^_^
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Posted: Mon Feb 21, 2005 12:39 pm
well I'd always known I wasn't straight, but I didnt know what I was until last summer. Then I firgured out I was bi.
at first I told a couple people, then school started....I was scared as hell to come out. but after awhile of getting back into the rutine of talking to all them: it got easy. so ya, basicly all of my really good friends know.
but one of them found out by acident, she wouldnt talk to me for a month after u.u so you gotta be weary of you tell.
I'm still scared to be really open about it, even though I have a friend who is open about it. but hey, shes a seinor and doesnt really care what other people think of her ^^; I wish I Could be more like her, with time I might.
my adivice: just open up to the ones you really trust at first, after that its easier.
oh ya, still havent told the rents....dont think I ever will ^^;
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Posted: Mon Feb 21, 2005 1:40 pm
confused You dont trust your parents?
I don't trust mine. xp They lost my trust awhile ago cuz they didn't take my cutting serious. They asked who I was trying to copy?
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Posted: Mon Feb 21, 2005 2:36 pm
XChi0102X confused You dont trust your parents? I don't trust mine. xp They lost my trust awhile ago cuz they didn't take my cutting serious. They asked who I was trying to copy? Oh that's horrible *hugs* I hope you don't do it any more
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