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Are gay christians OK?
  Yes, they're fine.
  No, it's not.
  Gay christians are hypocrits
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Moliverio

PostPosted: Sat Mar 31, 2007 1:51 pm


Kuroi Kokoro no Mendori
Yes, seeing as it's not a sin.

I'm Christian. I'm gay, That simple.

Yes, I plan on having sex within marriage to another man. Deal with it.

Your whole attitude is rebellious.

The Bible, Gods Words to man, states in Exodus that a man should not do anything that represents or mimics sex with another man. You may read all of the book to find it if you would like. I might try and find it and give it to you.

Once again, after reading all of your posts, I must make note of your attitude. You show no attributes of Christ forcing me to beleive you have not relationship with him. The more you talk to or are around someone the more you act like them.

The one who says "I have come to know Him" yet does not keep his commandments is a liar and the truth is not in him, but whoever keeps His Word, in him the Love of God is truly perfected. THAT'S IN FIRST 1ST JOHN 2!!!
PostPosted: Sun Apr 01, 2007 10:03 am


Kuroi Kokoro no Mendori
Juan Pablo Duarte
Someone who wants to act based on his homosexual desires, rejecting the authority of the Scriptures and following the desires of their flesh throuh gathering their own teachers (2 Tim. 4:3-4), is definitely not going to heaven. Going to heaven is not something we gain by living our lives our way: It's something we get by God's grace alone, which transforms us into wanting to live for Him, not for ourselves. That's why Paul says: "I no longer live, but Christ lives in me" (Gal. 2:20).

Someone who desires to please God, but who deals with homosexual attraction, is someone who can go to heaven. He might fall in sexual sin/lust, but he will go each time before Christ and confess his sins. He will be sad of doing something that goes against God's intended purpose for man/woman.

While God instituted marriage to be before man and woman, and while men, according to their desires, now want to accept same sex marriage, the Biblical principle is: "We must obey God rather than men!" (Acts 5:29). Going against this is just being rebellious against the will of God for our lives, since He has called us to holy obedience, not to sinful slavery.


You didn't read my link, did you.

Also, you didn't post any relevant scripture, which depresses me.

Good thing he didn't post "relevant" Scriptures. I'm really happy for what that guy wrote, because he's actually doing what God calls the TRUE Christians: "Don't have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels. And the Lord's servant must not quarrel; instead, he must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful" (2 Timothy 2:23-24).

He also seems to understand this clear principle: "This is what we speak, not in words taught us by human wisdom but in words taught by the Spirit, expressing spiritual truths in spiritual words. The man without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him, and he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually discerned" (2 Corinthians 2:13-14).

And well, I quote once again the verse that Juan Pablo Duarte pointed: "For the time will come when men will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear. They will turn their ears away from the truth and turn aside to myths" (2 Timothy 4:3-4).

Why do I defend him, someone might ask? Because I'm bisexual. "But that makes no sense: You are bisexual and you are defending your own condemnation." Not really. I'm bisexual in the sense that I have attraction both for girls and for boys, but I do not engage in relationships and/or sexual acts with people of my same-gender, knowing that this does not come from God: Rather, it's an adulteration of God's original plan for mankind.

Whenever I face temptations towards people of my same-gender, I try to pray and always ask God to deliver me and to not let me do something that is against His will. After all, God instituted marriage between man and woman, and sex must only take place within marriage. Anything that takes a route appart from this, does not come from the holy God, my heavenly Father, the Lord who has said: "Heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will never pass away" (Matthew 24:35).

Homosexual attraction is not something genetically, and most of the times, it's not a conscious choice of the person to be attracted to people of their same sex. Rather, a serie of factors involving the childhood, puberty and early adolescence of a person, are often the causes for this homosexual attraction. For further reading, http://www.prolife.org.ph/page/homosexuality. At the end of the page there are quite some links to be studied if one is REALLY wanting to know the truth in all this.

May God protect us from the evils of this age.

EDIT: And by the way, I chose the *poll for gold* option in the poll because the question is confusing. A "gay Christian" is okay if he is struggling, wanting to do God's will against the desires of his flesh. A "gay Christian" is not okay if he's just going against God by willingly envolving into and embracing a homosexual lifestyle.

Juridical Manager


Kuroi Kokoro no Mendori

PostPosted: Sun Apr 01, 2007 1:48 pm


Moliverio
Kuroi Kokoro no Mendori
Yes, seeing as it's not a sin.

I'm Christian. I'm gay, That simple.

Yes, I plan on having sex within marriage to another man. Deal with it.

Your whole attitude is rebellious.

The Bible, Gods Words to man, states in Exodus that a man should not do anything that represents or mimics sex with another man. You may read all of the book to find it if you would like. I might try and find it and give it to you.

Once again, after reading all of your posts, I must make note of your attitude. You show no attributes of Christ forcing me to beleive you have not relationship with him. The more you talk to or are around someone the more you act like them.

The one who says "I have come to know Him" yet does not keep his commandments is a liar and the truth is not in him, but whoever keeps His Word, in him the Love of God is truly perfected. THAT'S IN FIRST 1ST JOHN 2!!!


www.godmademegay.com/letter.htm
PostPosted: Fri Apr 13, 2007 5:12 pm


O friend, cursers, enemies, non-christian and those of the fellowship.
Need I remind you all that Jesus never said a word about homosexuality?
It was his apostles--most likely infulenced by out-dated jewish law--who said such comments condemning homosexuality.
I am a Quaker, but I sometimes also have Moorish Orthodox, Syrian/Greek/ sometimes Russian culture to my practices (with a twist im not going to talk about!) and we see that the apostels MAY have been influenced by their ego. Jesus never said anything about homosexuality because he said that god loved everyone. To me, it is the ACCEPTANCE of this love that allows someone to know sin, which is that which stands between God and the human in communication of His love and grace.

I'll also make a remark about homosexuality in the O.T. If you actually tranlsate from the Hebrew--or even Greek--texts, the word the KJV uses for Homosexual realy is qalshot, which is a type of Ancient Judeo-Pagan temple prosititue, especially a Homosexual one. So the message concerning most of that is: "No prostitution at the temple." The other part, which is quoted a great deal here, is something like "Do not Lie with another Man as you would with a Woman." This could mean one of two things: Do not attept to re-produce virginial sex with a man, OR do not LIE to yourself and try to change your god-given sexuality. It is also probable that the text, when properly translated, would read "Do not lie with a Woman as you would another Man." In effect, it turns into not lying to yourself and pretending to be a Heterosexual if you are not, which was a wider cultural epidemic at the time (as many say)

One also must realize that THE BIBLE WAS FOR THAT TIME AND CULTURE, and many things would have changed AS MORALS HAVE CHANGED. Also, if God or His Son and Word Jesus Christ spoke to you PERSONALLY, are you more likely to keep following the bible, or do as God intended for the individual to do? I will also say that the Current Word of God is just as Holy as the +2500 year old word of God.

So, God loves everyone, and if God didn't like Homosexuals in his church, it would make Him and His Son and Word (Jesus Christ, the Logos) as hypocrits.

God, grant us you Grace,and through you Son and Word,
allow us to Know you as we know our neighbour.
God, you have existance in all our souls,
and your Church grants this knowledge.
You are in my soul, and the soul of all humanityeven the greatest sinner.
And in your eyes, sin is abolished.
And to the people of your church, there is no sin,but constant redemption in your Grace.
We love you, and you have set out hearts on Fire.
Blesse is the Christ.

ReverendSam


neji_girl

Distinct Seeker

PostPosted: Sun Apr 15, 2007 4:44 pm


I strongly Dis-agree. In the bible it SAYS!

And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth." King James Version, Genesis 1:28
"God blessed them and said to them, "Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air and over every living creature that moves on the ground." New International Version, Genesis 1:28

Which was a MAN AND A WOMEN

'Saying that the last recorded acts of the Sodomites -- the demands for same-gender sex -- are proof that they were destroyed for homosexuality is like saying that a condemned man cursing his guards on the way to his execution is being executed for cursing the guards. Sodom was judged worthy of destruction before the incident with Lot and the angels."

Leviticus 18:22
"Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination."

"And if a man lie with mankind, as with womankind, both of them have committed abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them."
PostPosted: Sun Apr 15, 2007 10:11 pm


neji_girl
I strongly Dis-agree. In the bible it SAYS!


Nothing on homosexuality.

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And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth." King James Version, Genesis 1:28
"God blessed them and said to them, "Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air and over every living creature that moves on the ground." New International Version, Genesis 1:28

Which was a MAN AND A WOMEN




God created two genders, true, but he did not intend for them to have sex at all in the first place. Sex drive was a result of the fall.

Genesis 1:18-25
18 The LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him."

19 Now the LORD God had formed out of the ground all the beasts of the field and all the birds of the air. He brought them to the man to see what he would name them; and whatever the man called each living creature, that was its name. 20 So the man gave names to all the livestock, the birds of the air and all the beasts of the field.
But for Adam [h] no suitable helper was found.
21 So the LORD God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man's ribs and closed up the place with flesh. 22 Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib [j] he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.

23 The man said,
"This is now bone of my bones
and flesh of my flesh;
she shall be called 'woman, [k] '
for she was taken out of man."

24 For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.

25 The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame.


The first bolded portion shows us that God first looked among the animals for a companion for Adam. However, he clearly condemns those who sleep with animals repeatedly throughout the text of the bible. This would imply that God did not want Adam sleeping with anyone at first.

The second bolded shows that neither Adam nor his wife were ashamed of being naked, a sign that there was as of that time no nudity taboo, as there is later in the Old Testament. Later in the Old testament, God supports the nudity taboo as a way of keeping sex sacred, but here he just doesn't care. This shows that neither Adam nor his wife Eve wanted or even knew what sex was.

How does it feel knowing that your attraction to the opposite gender is born out of sin?

=D Yeah, I just couldn't resist that.

Second, God making two genders works from an evolutionary perspective too. One gender cannot reproduce, meaning the species would die out. If homosexuality was such a recessive trait as it is today, this means that while it would be present in the Old Testament tribes, without taking away the reproductive power of said tribes. Nowadays, the earth is completely full. There is no need to reproduce, and as such, there should be no taboo against choosing not to.



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'Saying that the last recorded acts of the Sodomites -- the demands for same-gender sex -- are proof that they were destroyed for homosexuality is like saying that a condemned man cursing his guards on the way to his execution is being executed for cursing the guards. Sodom was judged worthy of destruction before the incident with Lot and the angels."


This doesn't actually prove your point. neutral

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Leviticus 18:22
"Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination."

"And if a man lie with mankind, as with womankind, both of them have committed abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them."


www.godmademegay.com/letter.htm, Appendix B, section 3
Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13

Revised Standard Version:

22 You shall not lie with a male as with a woman, it is an abomination.

13 If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall be put to death...



The King James and New International versions say virtually the same thing.



Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13 are the only direct references to same-gender sex in the Old Testament. They are both part of the Old Testament Holiness Code, a religious, not a moral code; it later became the Jewish Purity Laws. ["Abomination" is used throughout the Old Testament to designate sins that involve ethnic contamination or idolatry. The word relates to the failure to worship God or to worshiping a false god; it does not relate to morality.] Professor Soards tell us, "Old Testament experts view the regulations of Leviticus as standards of holiness, directives for the formation of community life, aimed at establishing and maintaining a people's identity in relation to God."B-4 This is because God was so determined that his people would not adopt the practices of the Baal worshipers in Canaan, and same-gender sex was part of Baal worship. (The laws say nothing about women engaging in same-gender sex; probably this had to do with man's dominance, and such acts by the subservient had nothing to do with religious impurity.)

God required purity for his worship. Anything pure was unadulterated, unmixed with anything else These Purity Laws prohibited mixing different threads in one garment, sowing a field with two kinds of seed, crossbreeding animals. A few years ago in Israel when an orthodox government came into power, McDonalds had to stop selling cheeseburgers. Hamburgers, OK. Cheese sandwiches, OK. But mixing milk and meat in one sandwich violated the Purity Laws--it had nothing to do with morality. These were laws about worshipping God, not ethics, and so have no bearing on our discussion of morality. Helmut Thielicke remarks on these passages: "It would never occur to anyone to wrench these laws of cultic purification from their concrete situation and give them the kind of normative authority that the Decalogue, for example, has."B-5



Another reason they are not pertinent to our discussion is that these laws were for the particular time and circumstances existing when they were given. If you planted a fruit tree, you could not eat its fruit until its fifth year, and all fruit the fourth year must be offered to the Lord. A worker must be paid his wage on the day of his labor. You must not harvest a field to its edge. We readily dismiss most of them as not applicable to our day and culture, and if we dismiss some of them for any reason, we have to dismiss all of them, including the sexual regulations, for that same reason.



When we add the fact that these laws were talking about heterosexuals, it makes three reasons, any one of which would be sufficient, why they have no bearing on questions about homosexuals or homosexuality or on the morality of same-gender sex by homosexuals today.

Kuroi Kokoro no Mendori


ReverendSam

PostPosted: Wed Apr 18, 2007 5:38 pm


To me, the idea of putting the bible before personal experience with God is stupid. All it amounts to is the fear of God talking directly to you and experiencing God. The Bible was written many thousands of years ago, and many of those words and ideas do not have effect anymore. God "loves" all of us, especially those who love him back.

So, in my view, if God says to a person: "Thou shalt take up the love and marrige of a man, if thee so desire, by only second in the love of Me." (a similar message to what I got), then you have that ability. But if God says: "You shalt not take up a man in love, lest you shall loose the love of Me" then God knows that you shall not go about that relationship correctly and loose love for Him.
PostPosted: Fri May 11, 2007 6:37 pm


Anime Panda
Do you think a gay or lesbian person can still call themselves christian?

No and yes. They can consider themselves, as many people do, non-practicing christians. However to be christian is to strive to be like christ, thus it is impossible for a homosexual to be called a christian by any true sense of the word.

Though a homosexual, like any sinner, can ask for forgiveness, and attempt to lead a pure life ((all humans can ever do is -attempt-)), and be called a christian. As homosexuality is just like any other sin - murder, lying, stealing, etc. I think this particular sin had been blown out of proportion, since all sins are the same. None the less, any sinner who is proud of his or her sin cannot be considered a christian.

Though someone with sinful desires, who do not act upon the impulse...or atleast try not to, can be considered what all christians indeed are - Sinners saved by grace.

xXLight In The DarkXx


Kuroi Kokoro no Mendori

PostPosted: Sat May 12, 2007 12:08 am


xXMr_GrayXx
Anime Panda
Do you think a gay or lesbian person can still call themselves christian?

No and yes. They can consider themselves, as many people do, non-practicing christians. However to be christian is to strive to be like christ, thus it is impossible for a homosexual to be called a christian by any true sense of the word.


You're right. We must all be heterosexual like Jesus. Just like we should all gather people around us and teach them how to live their life in service to us. While we're at it, let's all become male. And wear robes instead of modern clothes, and stop shaving.

I am a homosexual. I am Christian. THERE WE GO, ABSOLUTE SOLVED.

"Striving to be like Christ" refers to how we treat others, not what our physical characteristics are like.

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Though a homosexual, like any sinner, can ask for forgiveness, and attempt to lead a pure life ((all humans can ever do is -attempt-)), and be called a christian. As homosexuality is just like any other sin - murder, lying, stealing, etc. I think this particular sin had been blown out of proportion, since all sins are the same. None the less, any sinner who is proud of his or her sin cannot be considered a christian.


I do not believe homosexuality is a sin, and the very fact that I don't believe it is sin makes it not a sin to me. Romans 15:1-10 says:

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1Accept him whose faith is weak, without passing judgment on disputable matters. 2One man's faith allows him to eat everything, but another man, whose faith is weak, eats only vegetables. 3The man who eats everything must not look down on him who does not, and the man who does not eat everything must not condemn the man who does, for God has accepted him. 4Who are you to judge someone else's servant? To his own master he stands or falls. And he will stand, for the Lord is able to make him stand.

5One man considers one day more sacred than another; another man considers every day alike. Each one should be fully convinced in his own mind. 6He who regards one day as special, does so to the Lord. He who eats meat, eats to the Lord, for he gives thanks to God; and he who abstains, does so to the Lord and gives thanks to God. 7For none of us lives to himself alone and none of us dies to himself alone. 8If we live, we live to the Lord; and if we die, we die to the Lord. So, whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord.

9For this very reason, Christ died and returned to life so that he might be the Lord of both the dead and the living. 10You, then, why do you judge your brother? Or why do you look down on your brother? For we will all stand before God's judgment seat.


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Though someone with sinful desires, who do not act upon the impulse...or atleast try not to, can be considered what all christians indeed are - Sinners saved by grace.


Please prove beyond doubt that homosexuality is a sin. Make sure you don't use an argument rebutted in this link: www.godmademegay.com/letter.htm
PostPosted: Mon May 14, 2007 7:58 pm


((I suppose using scripture is the only proper way to prove this point...so here are a few verses from a KJV of the bible. However, if you're one to believe only bits and pieces, this is all pointless. Here's what I've got for you none the less smile )

((This information/excerpts can be found at www.allaboutgod.com))

God's design for natural sexual relationships is part of His plan. Homosexuality falsifies what God designed. Sin often means not only rejecting God but denying or rejecting how and why we are made. Though it may be considered acceptable by some today -- even in some churches -- it is not acceptable to God. And we need to take that seriously.

Sexual sins were rampant in the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah. (This is the origin of the word sodomy.) Despite warnings, they refused to repent. God destroyed those cities and it was recorded as a warning to all future generations. (Genesis 18:20-21, Genesis 19:4-5, 2 Peter 2:6)

Here's some additional scripture on homosexuality.

Leviticus 18:22 - "Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is an abomination."

Leviticus 20:13 - "If man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them."

Romans 1:26 - "For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:"

27 - "And likewise also men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one towards another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet."

((There are a few more verses, but I think these should be sufficient.))

God is the ultimate and sovereign judge for sin. Homosexuality is sin by His order; it is not decided by public opinion or deceived/false clergy. Changing societies do not dictate God's standards. Sin is defined by God for us in the Bible. It is the source for what God says is holy and righteous or sin and abomination. Hebrews 13:8 states that God is the same yesterday, today, and forever; he does not “go with the flow.”

God's Word says that homosexuality is unnatural, a perversion, an abomination, fornication, vile affections, and a great sin against Him.

((Hope this helps.))

xXLight In The DarkXx


Kuroi Kokoro no Mendori

PostPosted: Mon May 14, 2007 9:50 pm


xXMr_GrayXx
((I suppose using scripture is the only proper way to prove this point...so here are a few verses from a KJV of the bible. However, if you're one to believe only bits and pieces, this is all pointless. Here's what I've got for you none the less smile )


I believe in the entire Bible, with context of culture and original language, and barring transcription and translation errors, and finally, with reference to other parts of the Bible that may negate or expand on a verse. Like Ezekiel 16:49-50, which you have obviously not read, which expands on the Sodom passage.

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((This information/excerpts can be found at www.allaboutgod.com))

God's design for natural sexual relationships is part of His plan. Homosexuality falsifies what God designed. Sin often means not only rejecting God but denying or rejecting how and why we are made. Though it may be considered acceptable by some today -- even in some churches -- it is not acceptable to God. And we need to take that seriously.

Sexual sins were rampant in the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah. (This is the origin of the word sodomy.) Despite warnings, they refused to repent. God destroyed those cities and it was recorded as a warning to all future generations. (Genesis 18:20-21, Genesis 19:4-5, 2 Peter 2:6)

Here's some additional scripture on homosexuality.

Leviticus 18:22 - "Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is an abomination."

Leviticus 20:13 - "If man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them."

Romans 1:26 - "For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:"

27 - "And likewise also men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one towards another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet."

((There are a few more verses, but I think these should be sufficient.))


Every single verse you just posted, as well as Corinthians 6:9 and 1 Timothy 1:1-10, have been refuted in the link I posted at the bottom of my LAST reply, which you have apparently ignored.

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God is the ultimate and sovereign judge for sin. Homosexuality is sin by His order;


It is not.

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it is not decided by public opinion or deceived/false clergy. Changing societies do not dictate God's standards. Sin is defined by God for us in the Bible.


True. However, it is not defined for us in the KJV, it's defined in the ORIGINAL Bible.

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It is the source for what God says is holy and righteous or sin and abomination. Hebrews 13:8 states that God is the same yesterday, today, and forever; he does not “go with the flow.”


True and true.


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God's Word says that homosexuality is unnatural, a perversion, an abomination, fornication, vile affections, and a great sin against Him.

((Hope this helps.))


It does not.
PostPosted: Tue May 15, 2007 4:30 am


This is what I found in the link:

"When the Bible speaks of same-gender sex, it is always talking about heterosexuals who are given over to such lust that they commit lustful acts. There cannot be anything in the Bible that says anything about (unknown) homosexuality or homosexual people or acts by homosexuals."

However, this statement is very opinionated, and hardly refutes anything. If I missed anything actually solid, post it, don't send me to read it. rolleyes

xXLight In The DarkXx


Un4given Shadow

PostPosted: Tue May 15, 2007 7:59 am


*SIGH*


OK everyone... I am back from the grave. I have not been on here in a LONG TIME Most of you will not remember me but some will. I was reading over this conflict and I am Depressed at the way this was approached.
1. NO one should judge another person thats not our job.
2. We have to show love in everything and I am not seeing a lot of it
3. We have to tell them the truth... I see some of this.


OK so here is my input Please take it well I do love you. You are a brother In christ and thats great.

Rom 1:27 And likewise also the men , leaving the natural use of the woman , burned in their lust one toward another ; men with men working that which is unseemly , and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. And even as they did not like to retain God in [their] knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;


there it says tthat Males where enflamed with lust for One another and Its incorrect. I am sorry bro. There is evidince all over that talk about it. If you can dispute the word of God I dont know what to say My friend.


I AM PRAYING FOR YOU AND WILL BE BACK TO TALK TO YOU.
PostPosted: Tue May 15, 2007 12:24 pm


THE FRIGGING LINK
APPENDIX B
THE BIBLE AND HOMOSEXUALITY



As stated above, until 1869 there was no written idea of homosexuality being an innate part of one's nature. Until that time it was believed that all people were heterosexual, but some were so perverted that they engaged in same-gender sex. When the Bible writers talked on this subject, within their culture and understanding, that is what they were talking about--that kind of heterosexuality.



Nevertheless, there are Bible passages used by some people today to condemn homosexuals. I want to discuss each passage in some detail to show that not only is there no statement about homosexuality, but also that there is no statement applicable to homosexual sex if that sex is not lustful. Many authors write on this subject, and I am indebted to many of them.


THE OLD TESTAMENT



Genesis 1-2, The Creation Story



Critics of homosexuality enjoy saying, "The creation story is about Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve." Those who say that marriage can be only between a man and a woman argue that God's creation of Adam and Eve as heterosexuals shows that this is what he intended all persons to be; anything else is outside His will and therefore sinful. Dr. Gomes responds,

[As] Jeffrey S. Siker has pointed out in the July 1994 issue of Theology Today, to argue that the creation story privileges a heterosexual view of the relations between humankind is to make one of the weakest arguments possible, the argument from silence....It does not mention friendship, for example, and yet we do not assume that friendship is condemned or abnormal. It does not mention the single state, and yet we know that singleness is not condemned, and that in certain religious circumstances it is held in very high esteem. The creation story is not, after all, a paradigm about marriage, but rather about the establishment of human society.B-1



One can read anything one wants to into the creation story but cannot read anything about homosexuality out of it.



Genesis 18:20 to 19:29--The Sodom Story



Some consider the sin of Sodom to be same-gender sex, although we are not told in Genesis what Sodom's sins were, only that they were so great that God determined to destroy the city. On the evening before its destruction he sent two angels, in disguise as men, to the city to lead Lot and his family out early the next day. Hospitable Lot invited them to spend the night at his house. During the evening the men of the city surrounded the house and demanded of Lot that he bring the two men out so that they could [19:5]

King James Version: "know them."

Revised Standard Version: "know them."

New International Version: "have sex with them."

When Lot refused to bring his guests out, the men of the city were about to break his door down when the angels struck them all blind and the mob dispersed. The next day Lot and his family were led out of Sodom, and the city was destroyed by fire and brimstone from heaven.



The Hebrew verb used here, "yadha," "to know," is used 943 times in the OT and only ten times clearly to mean "have sex," then it always means heterosexual sex. The word normally used for homosexual sex is "shakhabh." Many scholars believe that in Gen. 19:5 yadha means "know" in the sense of "get acquainted with" (the city's men may have wondered if these were enemy spies or they might have sensed the city's impending doom and been concerned with what these strangers were doing there) and have several arguments for this, including Sodom's being used as an example of great sin numerous times in the Old and New Testaments with nothing ever said about same-sex sex, and the context of Jesus' references to Sodom (Luke 10:10-13) which seems to imply lack of hospitality as the sin.



Other scholars think it was the common practice of showing dominance over and humiliating outsiders by forcing them to take the part of a (an inferior) woman in a same-gender rape.



Others think it means "have sex," and point to Lot's offering his two virgin daughters to the crowd if sex is what they want, if they will just leave his guests alone. If this is the right interpretation, it is clearly about violent, criminal, gang rape, something always condemnable.



Another thought is expressed by Religion Professor David L. Bartlett: "This story is certainly an unlikely starting point for a `biblical' understanding of sexual ethics. While the attempted homosexual rape by the men of Sodom is explicitly condemned, the offer by Lot to hand his two virgin daughters over to the violent and lecherous inhabitants of Sodom is related without a word of judgment."B-2



Conservative theologian Richard Hays says, "The notorious story of Sodom and Gomorrah--often cited in connection with homosexuality--is actually irrelevant to the topic."B-3



There is nothing in this story applicable to our consideration of homosexuality.



Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13

Revised Standard Version:

22 You shall not lie with a male as with a woman, it is an abomination.

13 If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall be put to death...



The King James and New International versions say virtually the same thing.



Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13 are the only direct references to same-gender sex in the Old Testament. They are both part of the Old Testament Holiness Code, a religious, not a moral code; it later became the Jewish Purity Laws. ["Abomination" is used throughout the Old Testament to designate sins that involve ethnic contamination or idolatry. The word relates to the failure to worship God or to worshiping a false god; it does not relate to morality.] Professor Soards tell us, "Old Testament experts view the regulations of Leviticus as standards of holiness, directives for the formation of community life, aimed at establishing and maintaining a people's identity in relation to God."B-4 This is because God was so determined that his people would not adopt the practices of the Baal worshipers in Canaan, and same-gender sex was part of Baal worship. (The laws say nothing about women engaging in same-gender sex; probably this had to do with man's dominance, and such acts by the subservient had nothing to do with religious impurity.)

God required purity for his worship. Anything pure was unadulterated, unmixed with anything else These Purity Laws prohibited mixing different threads in one garment, sowing a field with two kinds of seed, crossbreeding animals. A few years ago in Israel when an orthodox government came into power, McDonalds had to stop selling cheeseburgers. Hamburgers, OK. Cheese sandwiches, OK. But mixing milk and meat in one sandwich violated the Purity Laws--it had nothing to do with morality. These were laws about worshipping God, not ethics, and so have no bearing on our discussion of morality. Helmut Thielicke remarks on these passages: "It would never occur to anyone to wrench these laws of cultic purification from their concrete situation and give them the kind of normative authority that the Decalogue, for example, has."B-5



Another reason they are not pertinent to our discussion is that these laws were for the particular time and circumstances existing when they were given. If you planted a fruit tree, you could not eat its fruit until its fifth year, and all fruit the fourth year must be offered to the Lord. A worker must be paid his wage on the day of his labor. You must not harvest a field to its edge. We readily dismiss most of them as not applicable to our day and culture, and if we dismiss some of them for any reason, we have to dismiss all of them, including the sexual regulations, for that same reason.



When we add the fact that these laws were talking about heterosexuals, it makes three reasons, any one of which would be sufficient, why they have no bearing on questions about homosexuals or homosexuality or on the morality of same-gender sex by homosexuals today.


THE NEW TESTAMENT



In the New Testament there are three passages to consider.



Romans 1:21, 26, 27

Revised Standard Version

21 for although they knew God they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him...

26 For this reason God gave them up to dishonorable passions. Their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural, 27 and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men...



The King James and New International versions say virtually the same thing.



Romans 1:26 and 27 clearly speak of same-gender sex by both men and women, the only passage in the New Testament that does so. Rom. 1:18-32 speaks of Gentiles (heterosexuals) who could and should have known and served and given thanks to God but would not, so God gave them up and let them do whatever they wanted to do, and that resulted in degrading and shameful acts, including same-gender sex. It is almost a moot point, but Paul is not listing sins for which God will condemn anyone, he is listing sins that occur because people have forsaken Him. These are acts committed by those who have turned away from God and so become "consumed with passion." All of us recognize that those who forsake God and give themselves over to lustful living--homosexual or heterosexual--stand condemned by the Bible. This passage is talking about people who chose to forsake God.

Conservative theologian Richard Hays says, "No direct appeal to Romans 1 as a source of rules about sexual conduct is possible."B-6



I Corinthians 6:9

King James Version:

9...Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate [malakoi], nor abusers of themselves with mankind [arsenokoitai], 10 Nor thieves..., shall inherit the kingdom of God.



New International Version

9...Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes [malakoi] nor homosexual offenders [arsenokoitai] 10 nor thieves...will inherit the kingdom of God.



Revised Standard Version--1952 edition:

9...Do not be deceived; neither the immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals [malakoi and arsenokoitai], 10 nor thieves..., will inherit the kingdom of God.



Revised Standard Version--1971 edition:

9...Do not be deceived; neither the immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor sexual perverts [malakoi and arsenokoitai], 10 nor thieves..., will inherit the kingdom of God.



A comparison of how the two Greek words are translated in the different versions shows that translations often, unfortunately, become the interpretations of the translators. In I Cor. 6:9 Paul lists the types of persons who will be excluded from the kingdom of God and for some he uses the Greek words malakoi and arsenokoitai. KJ translates the first "effeminate," a word that has no necessary connection with homosexuals. The NIV translates the first "male prostitutes" and the second, "homosexual offenders". The RSV in its first edition of 1952 translated both words by the single term, "homosexuals". In the revised RSV of 1971, the translation "homosexuals" is discarded and the two Greek words are translated as "sexual perverts"; obviously the translators had concluded the earlier translation was not supportable.



Malakoi literally means "soft" and is translated that way by both KJ and RSV in Matt. 11:8 and Luke 7:25. When it is used in moral contexts in Greek writings it has the meaning of morally weak; a related word, malakia, when used in moral contexts, means dissolute and occasionally refers to sexual activity but never to homosexual acts. There are at least five Greek words that specifically mean people who practice same-gender sex. Unquestionably, if Paul had meant such people, he would not have used a word that is never used to mean that in Greek writings when he had other words that were clear in that meaning. He must have meant what the word commonly means in moral contexts, "morally weak." There is no justification, most scholars agree, for translating it "homosexuals."



Arsenokoitai, is not found in any extant Greek writings until the second century when it apparently means "pederast", a corrupter of boys, and the sixth century when it is used for husbands practicing a**l intercourse with their wives. Again, if Paul meant people practicing same-gender sex, why didn't he use one of the common words? Some scholars think probably the second century use might come closest to Paul's intention. If so, there is no justification for translating the word as "homosexuals." Other scholars see a connection with Greek words used to refer to same-gender sex in Leviticus. If so, it is speaking of heterosexuals given to such lust they turn to such acts.



Richard Hays tells us, "I Corinthians 6:9-11 states no rule to govern the conduct of Christians."B-7



One commentator has another reason for rejecting the NIV and original RSV translations, "homosexuals." Today it could mean that a person who is homosexual in orientation even though "of irreproachable morals, is automatically branded as unrighteous and excluded from the kingdom of God, just as if he were the most depraved of sexual perverts."B-8



So I Cor. 6:9 says nothing about homosexuality with the possible exception of condemnable pederasty.



I Tim. 1:10

King James Version:

9...the law is not made for a righteous man, but for the lawless and disobedient, for the ungodly and for sinners,...10...for them that defile themselves with mankind (arsenokoitai)...



Revised Standard Version - both 1952 and 1971 editions:

9...the law is not laid down for the just but for the lawless and disobedient, for the ungodly and sinners, for 10 immoral persons, sodomites (arsenokoitai),...



New International Version:

9...the law is not made for the righteous but for lawbreakers and rebels, the ungodly and sinful...10 for adulterers and perverts (arsenokoitai)



Here only the RSV specifically refers to same-gender sex, using the term "sodomites," which is the translation given in both the Old Testament and New Testament to Hebrew and Greek words for male temple prostitutes. The KJV probably has the same thought. The NIV does not necessarily refer to same-gender sex. Again Paul has used the Greek word arsenokoitai, the word in I Cor. 6:9.



As discussed above, this word would have no reference to homosexuality or homosexual sex in our discussion.



So like the other two New Testament passages, I Tim. 1:10 says nothing about homosexuality or homosexuals and nothing about same-gender sex unless that of temple prostitutes or possibly the molestation of young boys by heterosexuals.



In view of the facts set forth above, we realize there is no moral teaching in the Bible about homosexuality as we know it, including homosexual sex (except possibly pederasty). The Bible cannot be used to condemn as immoral all same-gender sex. It clearly condemns lust, whether homosexual or heterosexual. There is certainly nothing in the Bible about anyone going to hell because he or she is homosexual. All who go to hell will go for the same, one reason: failure to commit their lives in faith to Jesus Christ as their lord and savior.



From a slightly different approach to interpretation, Dr. Robin Scroggs states, "The basic model in today's Christian homosexual community is so different from the model attacked by the New Testament that the criterion of reasonable similarity of context is not met. The conclusion I have to draw seems inevitable: Biblical judgments against homosexuality are not relevant to today's debate."B-9 [Italics his]



Dr. Gomes concludes his discussion of homosexuality and the Bible with these words:

The Biblical writers never contemplated a form of homosexuality in which loving, monogamous, and faithful persons sought to live out the implications of the gospel with as much fidelity to it as any heterosexual believer. All they knew of homosexuality was prostitution, pederasty, lasciviousness, and exploitation. These vices, as we know, are not unknown among heterosexuals, and to define contemporary homosexuals only in these terms is a cultural slander of the highest order, reflecting not so much prejudice, which it surely does, but what the Roman Catholic Church calls "invincible ignorance," which all of the Christian piety and charity in the world can do little to conceal. The "problem," of course, is not the Bible, it is the Christians who read it.B-10


There. Genesis, Leviticus, Romans, Corinthians, and 1 Timothy. I'm not trying to refute scripture, I'm trying to refute your interpretation of it.

Kuroi Kokoro no Mendori

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