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 Posted: Mon Sep 06, 2010 4:36 pm
I used to think being polyamorous while in a relationship was really ******** up, and that having sex with other people was more so. To a certain degree, I still feel that way, but I would really like to try having an open relationship with another person.
I guess the biggest fear I would have is loving someone more than the person you started the relationship with. I think that being open about the other people you see and what you do with them and how you feel about them would be fine with me in the longer scheme of things. I think there would definitely be some initial jealousy while transitioning into that kind of relationship, but it wouldn't be any too devastating. And I wouldn't be the person taking part in the polyamory or screwing other people because, in all honesty, I'm not really into that -- but I can understand why someone would want to while they maintained their romantic interests with one other person.
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Posted: Mon Sep 06, 2010 7:15 pm
OKAY IT'S BEEN THIS WAY WITH ALL OF MY RELATIONSHIPS, NOT JUST DEE.
sorry for caps but i feel like people are missing that point.
Dee already knows how I feel, B. And she also knows I'm trying my hardest, I've really never been a committed relationship, especially for this long.
I hooked up with 3 or 4 people when Dee and I took that break when I started getting really angry with myself and her all of the time. It wasn't the same and that's when I came to the conclusion that I want to be with her.
I want to be in a relationship with Dee. For a very long time. But I also want the right to explore my options and I know that if I ask for that or break up with her I'll never get her again, she said that and she meant it. Being close friends with her would kill me and probably send me down a path I really don't want to take again.
So I'm stuck.
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Posted: Mon Sep 06, 2010 7:40 pm
On Topic: I can't be in relationships because I can no longer trust anyone IRL to actually like me.
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Posted: Wed Sep 29, 2010 11:11 pm
luxRAYP OKAY IT'S BEEN THIS WAY WITH ALL OF MY RELATIONSHIPS, NOT JUST DEE. sorry for caps but i feel like people are missing that point. Dee already knows how I feel, B. And she also knows I'm trying my hardest, I've really never been a committed relationship, especially for this long. I hooked up with 3 or 4 people when Dee and I took that break when I started getting really angry with myself and her all of the time. It wasn't the same and that's when I came to the conclusion that I want to be with her. I want to be in a relationship with Dee. For a very long time. But I also want the right to explore my options and I know that if I ask for that or break up with her I'll never get her again, she said that and she meant it. Being close friends with her would kill me and probably send me down a path I really don't want to take again. So I'm stuck.
In other words, lol. Think about it.
That's my two cents.
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Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 12:45 am
X-Intercept II luxRAYP OKAY IT'S BEEN THIS WAY WITH ALL OF MY RELATIONSHIPS, NOT JUST DEE. sorry for caps but i feel like people are missing that point. Dee already knows how I feel, B. And she also knows I'm trying my hardest, I've really never been a committed relationship, especially for this long. I hooked up with 3 or 4 people when Dee and I took that break when I started getting really angry with myself and her all of the time. It wasn't the same and that's when I came to the conclusion that I want to be with her. I want to be in a relationship with Dee. For a very long time. But I also want the right to explore my options and I know that if I ask for that or break up with her I'll never get her again, she said that and she meant it. Being close friends with her would kill me and probably send me down a path I really don't want to take again. So I'm stuck.
In other words, lol. Think about it.
That's my two cents.There is no way for you to have known this beforehand, and if you look at this thread in context it may come as a surprise; 'dey done broke up.
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Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 1:22 am
Sounds like you aren't attracted in the way you need to be. Maybe take things slow, and put the commitment on the back burner?
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Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 5:20 pm
Zahmen II X-Intercept II luxRAYP OKAY IT'S BEEN THIS WAY WITH ALL OF MY RELATIONSHIPS, NOT JUST DEE. sorry for caps but i feel like people are missing that point. Dee already knows how I feel, B. And she also knows I'm trying my hardest, I've really never been a committed relationship, especially for this long. I hooked up with 3 or 4 people when Dee and I took that break when I started getting really angry with myself and her all of the time. It wasn't the same and that's when I came to the conclusion that I want to be with her. I want to be in a relationship with Dee. For a very long time. But I also want the right to explore my options and I know that if I ask for that or break up with her I'll never get her again, she said that and she meant it. Being close friends with her would kill me and probably send me down a path I really don't want to take again. So I'm stuck.
In other words, lol. Think about it.
That's my two cents.There is no way for you to have known this beforehand, and if you look at this thread in context it may come as a surprise; 'dey done broke up. Put everything in past tense. ta-da.
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Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 6:34 pm
lol we broke up
Mel I miss you so much please insert yourself back into my life.
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Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 10:46 pm
I'll insert myself somewhere else, baby~ ;D
And I miss you as well, Brittface. That name... -reminisces-
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Posted: Sat Oct 02, 2010 10:09 am
;D ;D i AM single.
Melface. ;_;<3
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