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 Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 10:41 am
Through personal experience I think it's not a good idea. Cuz you never know when things will happen and suddenly the one you think you'll have forever is gone, just poof! It can really leave a person (especially girls) feeling empty and unworthy. I personally feel like I can't marry anyone but the guy I lost my virginity to because I won't have anything to give the guy I marry. Least if I married my ex I'd know he already has my virginity so I don't have to worry about giving him that...if that makes sense.
*sigh* It's really hard not to have premarital sex, anyone who says otherwise is crazy. But it's better to wait.
Ner...now I miss my ex and want him back...excuse me while I pray our relationship will work out again (without the sex!)...
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 10:46 am
ScarredImage Through personal experience I think it's not a good idea. Cuz you never know when things will happen and suddenly the one you think you'll have forever is gone, just poof! It can really leave a person (especially girls) feeling empty and unworthy. I personally feel like I can't marry anyone but the guy I lost my virginity to because I won't have anything to give the guy I marry. Least if I married my ex I'd know he already has my virginity so I don't have to worry about giving him that...if that makes sense. *sigh* It's really hard not to have premarital sex, anyone who says otherwise is crazy. But it's better to wait. Ner...now I miss my ex and want him back...excuse me while I pray our relationship will work out again (without the sex!)... i agree with you. and i hope things will get better with you.
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 12:41 pm
BleedingCrescent ScarredImage Through personal experience I think it's not a good idea. Cuz you never know when things will happen and suddenly the one you think you'll have forever is gone, just poof! It can really leave a person (especially girls) feeling empty and unworthy. I personally feel like I can't marry anyone but the guy I lost my virginity to because I won't have anything to give the guy I marry. Least if I married my ex I'd know he already has my virginity so I don't have to worry about giving him that...if that makes sense. *sigh* It's really hard not to have premarital sex, anyone who says otherwise is crazy. But it's better to wait. Ner...now I miss my ex and want him back...excuse me while I pray our relationship will work out again (without the sex!)... i agree with you. and i hope things will get better with you. Thank you. Praying hard for him! heart
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 6:47 pm
ScarredImage BleedingCrescent ScarredImage Through personal experience I think it's not a good idea. Cuz you never know when things will happen and suddenly the one you think you'll have forever is gone, just poof! It can really leave a person (especially girls) feeling empty and unworthy. I personally feel like I can't marry anyone but the guy I lost my virginity to because I won't have anything to give the guy I marry. Least if I married my ex I'd know he already has my virginity so I don't have to worry about giving him that...if that makes sense. *sigh* It's really hard not to have premarital sex, anyone who says otherwise is crazy. But it's better to wait. Ner...now I miss my ex and want him back...excuse me while I pray our relationship will work out again (without the sex!)... i agree with you. and i hope things will get better with you. Thank you. Praying hard for him! heart definitely. and if things don't work out, God forgives you for all the mistakes you've done. you can start a whole new life through him and all your sin will be washed away. just trust him smile
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Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2005 2:35 am
BleedingCrescent Dragon Warrior X goddess_of_music mistressofthelost Wait wait wait. Goddess, how old are you? I looked at your profile, and it said you're 14 (maybe 15, I didn't check the date). Personally, I think that's way too young to be having sex. If you get pregnant, I'm not going to feel sorry for you. I'm telling you, it will screw up your life, especially since you're still in school. Wait 3 years, then get married and do the whole sex thing. Why rush it? i never said i had sex with him did i? i mean i want to but i know sure as hell i am not ready, and he said he is not ready too. but we know we are like 99.9% sure were having sex before marriage. i mean yes i am 14. but i know i am waiting a bit, but i do want to have sex with him...to show our affection for eachother. I mean....i probably wont get married until i am about 25ish. So yes i want to have sex before then. BUT that is not the point i am trying to prove in this topic. I mean read my earlier posts people! lol you're an awesome leader... i still think that premarital sex is wrong... what if something happens between having sex and marriage? :: sigh :: well whatever.
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Posted: Sun Aug 07, 2005 4:33 pm
mistressofthelost goddess_of_music mistressofthelost Wait wait wait. Goddess, how old are you? I looked at your profile, and it said you're 14 (maybe 15, I didn't check the date). Personally, I think that's way too young to be having sex. If you get pregnant, I'm not going to feel sorry for you. I'm telling you, it will screw up your life, especially since you're still in school. Wait 3 years, then get married and do the whole sex thing. Why rush it? i never said i had sex with him did i? i mean i want to but i know sure as hell i am not ready, and he said he is not ready too. but we know we are like 99.9% sure were having sex before marriage. i mean yes i am 14. but i know i am waiting a bit, but i do want to have sex with him...to show our affection for eachother. I mean....i probably wont get married until i am about 25ish. So yes i want to have sex before then. BUT that is not the point i am trying to prove in this topic. I mean read my earlier posts people! lol Glad to hear you aren't actually haveing sex with him, but it sounded like that's what you were saying. Trust me, I know what it's like to find that one guy, and have to wait forever to do anything with him. My boyfriend and I are planning on getting married in 2-4 years. I think I can wait that long. ya sorry about that sweatdrop i ment to say we WILL use a condom and birth control. I mean i most likely wil have sex with him before we plan to get married (lol i know sounds cheesey fro my age, but yes) and i think thats ok
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Posted: Sun Aug 07, 2005 4:36 pm
Dragon Warrior X BleedingCrescent Dragon Warrior X goddess_of_music mistressofthelost Wait wait wait. Goddess, how old are you? I looked at your profile, and it said you're 14 (maybe 15, I didn't check the date). Personally, I think that's way too young to be having sex. If you get pregnant, I'm not going to feel sorry for you. I'm telling you, it will screw up your life, especially since you're still in school. Wait 3 years, then get married and do the whole sex thing. Why rush it? i never said i had sex with him did i? i mean i want to but i know sure as hell i am not ready, and he said he is not ready too. but we know we are like 99.9% sure were having sex before marriage. i mean yes i am 14. but i know i am waiting a bit, but i do want to have sex with him...to show our affection for eachother. I mean....i probably wont get married until i am about 25ish. So yes i want to have sex before then. BUT that is not the point i am trying to prove in this topic. I mean read my earlier posts people! lol you're an awesome leader... i still think that premarital sex is wrong... what if something happens between having sex and marriage? :: sigh :: well whatever. yes you are a good leader. and i agree that as long as your hearts are married (sounds cheesey, but i feel cheesey today) i think it is fine.....and you should be like ./......4785875848949% sure that you are ready for it also
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Posted: Mon Aug 08, 2005 1:45 pm
goddess_of_music mistressofthelost Glad to hear you aren't actually haveing sex with him, but it sounded like that's what you were saying. Trust me, I know what it's like to find that one guy, and have to wait forever to do anything with him. My boyfriend and I are planning on getting married in 2-4 years. I think I can wait that long. ya sorry about that sweatdrop i ment to say we WILL use a condom and birth control. I mean i most likely wil have sex with him before we plan to get married (lol i know sounds cheesey fro my age, but yes) and i think thats ok It's good to hear that at least. I know too many people my age and younger who have kids or are pregnant. I'm still kind of freaked out by the idea of sex, and that's probably one of the many things keeping my from sleeping with him for a good long while at least. It's nice to hear a smart 14 year old. smile (That's a good thing)
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Posted: Mon Aug 08, 2005 7:16 pm
mistressofthelost goddess_of_music mistressofthelost Glad to hear you aren't actually haveing sex with him, but it sounded like that's what you were saying. Trust me, I know what it's like to find that one guy, and have to wait forever to do anything with him. My boyfriend and I are planning on getting married in 2-4 years. I think I can wait that long. ya sorry about that sweatdrop i ment to say we WILL use a condom and birth control. I mean i most likely wil have sex with him before we plan to get married (lol i know sounds cheesey fro my age, but yes) and i think thats ok It's good to hear that at least. I know too many people my age and younger who have kids or are pregnant. I'm still kind of freaked out by the idea of sex, and that's probably one of the many things keeping my from sleeping with him for a good long while at least. It's nice to hear a smart 14 year old. smile (That's a good thing) thank you. i hate being the "young one" amongst others. but my point is whenever ya do it (and ya do it for the right reasons) then it is ok
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Posted: Wed Aug 17, 2005 6:03 am
BleedingCrescent goddess_of_music coolerz I think they should wait till marriage. For one alot of people leave the other person if they had a baby and they can't afford to take care of it. So then they're just left there and most parents want nothing to do with them because of what they did. Or alot atleast. i disagree with coolerz and lbeeding cresent. premarital sex is ok under cicumstances. I have found the love of my life, but we are not married, but we want to share intament moments. So i take birth control, and he wears a condom. BUT if you just have sex to have sex then it is wrong, i mean you should do it with a person you love! Now, to that the bible says it is "wrong". Well did you know that in the bible a man could have 10 wives and sleep with them all, but today that would be considered adultry. So times do change, and if you love some one with all your heart and you know this person is the one i think it is fine to have sex, to show your affection. But you can use a condom if you dont want a child..... where in the Bible does it say that a man could have 10 wives... how do you know that the "love of your life" truly loves you? he could be using you for your body. i'm not saying he is, and i'm sure he really loves you, but what if he was one of those guys who were like that? marriage is the ultimate declaration of marriage (although sometimes it doesn't work that way... but it's supposed to) having sex out of marriage is wrong and unpure. Just because they had the wives, doesn't mean that God wanted them to have them. I mean, take Abraham for example. God told abraham that sarah would have a son. But, they got impatient, and Abraham took another wife, Hagar, and then, Ishmael was born. Ishmael wasn't originally supossed to be born. But, abraham sinned, and Ishmael appeared.
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Posted: Wed Aug 17, 2005 1:45 pm
Kali-san BleedingCrescent goddess_of_music coolerz I think they should wait till marriage. For one alot of people leave the other person if they had a baby and they can't afford to take care of it. So then they're just left there and most parents want nothing to do with them because of what they did. Or alot atleast. i disagree with coolerz and lbeeding cresent. premarital sex is ok under cicumstances. I have found the love of my life, but we are not married, but we want to share intament moments. So i take birth control, and he wears a condom. BUT if you just have sex to have sex then it is wrong, i mean you should do it with a person you love! Now, to that the bible says it is "wrong". Well did you know that in the bible a man could have 10 wives and sleep with them all, but today that would be considered adultry. So times do change, and if you love some one with all your heart and you know this person is the one i think it is fine to have sex, to show your affection. But you can use a condom if you dont want a child..... where in the Bible does it say that a man could have 10 wives... how do you know that the "love of your life" truly loves you? he could be using you for your body. i'm not saying he is, and i'm sure he really loves you, but what if he was one of those guys who were like that? marriage is the ultimate declaration of marriage (although sometimes it doesn't work that way... but it's supposed to) having sex out of marriage is wrong and unpure. Just because they had the wives, doesn't mean that God wanted them to have them. I mean, take Abraham for example. God told abraham that sarah would have a son. But, they got impatient, and Abraham took another wife, Hagar, and then, Ishmael was born. Ishmael wasn't originally supossed to be born. But, abraham sinned, and Ishmael appeared. true very true. he sinned. BUT why would god put him in the bible then? i mean i dont get it. not that i am saying sinners cant be in the bible, for we are all sinners, but,what is the bible trying to say with these men who had many wives? why would that specifically be in the bible?
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Posted: Fri Aug 19, 2005 11:14 am
goddess_of_music Kali-san BleedingCrescent goddess_of_music coolerz I think they should wait till marriage. For one alot of people leave the other person if they had a baby and they can''t afford to take care of it. So then they''re just left there and most parents want nothing to do with them because of what they did. Or alot atleast. i disagree with coolerz and lbeeding cresent. premarital sex is ok under cicumstances. I have found the love of my life, but we are not married, but we want to share intament moments. So i take birth control, and he wears a condom. BUT if you just have sex to have sex then it is wrong, i mean you should do it with a person you love! Now, to that the bible says it is "wrong". Well did you know that in the bible a man could have 10 wives and sleep with them all, but today that would be considered adultry. So times do change, and if you love some one with all your heart and you know this person is the one i think it is fine to have sex, to show your affection. But you can use a condom if you dont want a child..... where in the Bible does it say that a man could have 10 wives... how do you know that the "love of your life" truly loves you? he could be using you for your body. i''m not saying he is, and i''m sure he really loves you, but what if he was one of those guys who were like that? marriage is the ultimate declaration of marriage (although sometimes it doesn''t work that way... but it''s supposed to) having sex out of marriage is wrong and unpure. Just because they had the wives, doesn''t mean that God wanted them to have them. I mean, take Abraham for example. God told abraham that sarah would have a son. But, they got impatient, and Abraham took another wife, Hagar, and then, Ishmael was born. Ishmael wasn''t originally supossed to be born. But, abraham sinned, and Ishmael appeared. true very true. he sinned. BUT why would god put him in the bible then? i mean i dont get it. not that i am saying sinners cant be in the bible, for we are all sinners, but,what is the bible trying to say with these men who had many wives? why would that specifically be in the bible? I''m guessing that God was trying to prove a point. Another example is David and Bathsheba. David was at Jerusalem when he was supossed to be in the war, and while he was n the roof, he saw his little hottie crush bathsheba. The more he watched her, the more he wanted her. So, he slept with her. She got pregnant. He tried to get the real husband of her to sleep with her to make it seem like it belonged to the husband. The husband didn''t sleep with ehr. So, David, getting frustrated, finally set the plans that would cause the husbands death into motion. The husband died, and David took Bathsheba to be his wife. That was a tragic happening for such a great leader.
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Posted: Sat Aug 20, 2005 8:15 am
Kali-san goddess_of_music Kali-san BleedingCrescent goddess_of_music coolerz I think they should wait till marriage. For one alot of people leave the other person if they had a baby and they can''t afford to take care of it. So then they''re just left there and most parents want nothing to do with them because of what they did. Or alot atleast. i disagree with coolerz and lbeeding cresent. premarital sex is ok under cicumstances. I have found the love of my life, but we are not married, but we want to share intament moments. So i take birth control, and he wears a condom. BUT if you just have sex to have sex then it is wrong, i mean you should do it with a person you love! Now, to that the bible says it is "wrong". Well did you know that in the bible a man could have 10 wives and sleep with them all, but today that would be considered adultry. So times do change, and if you love some one with all your heart and you know this person is the one i think it is fine to have sex, to show your affection. But you can use a condom if you dont want a child..... where in the Bible does it say that a man could have 10 wives... how do you know that the "love of your life" truly loves you? he could be using you for your body. i''m not saying he is, and i''m sure he really loves you, but what if he was one of those guys who were like that? marriage is the ultimate declaration of marriage (although sometimes it doesn''t work that way... but it''s supposed to) having sex out of marriage is wrong and unpure. Just because they had the wives, doesn''t mean that God wanted them to have them. I mean, take Abraham for example. God told abraham that sarah would have a son. But, they got impatient, and Abraham took another wife, Hagar, and then, Ishmael was born. Ishmael wasn''t originally supossed to be born. But, abraham sinned, and Ishmael appeared. true very true. he sinned. BUT why would god put him in the bible then? i mean i dont get it. not that i am saying sinners cant be in the bible, for we are all sinners, but,what is the bible trying to say with these men who had many wives? why would that specifically be in the bible? I''m guessing that God was trying to prove a point. Another example is David and Bathsheba. David was at Jerusalem when he was supossed to be in the war, and while he was n the roof, he saw his little hottie crush bathsheba. The more he watched her, the more he wanted her. So, he slept with her. She got pregnant. He tried to get the real husband of her to sleep with her to make it seem like it belonged to the husband. The husband didn''t sleep with ehr. So, David, getting frustrated, finally set the plans that would cause the husbands death into motion. The husband died, and David took Bathsheba to be his wife. That was a tragic happening for such a great leader. really? wow........
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Posted: Mon Oct 03, 2005 8:44 am
Dragon Warrior X What are your views on premarital sex cause it seems a pretty common thing in todays culture but do you believe its wrong and people should wait untill marriage or do you believe something else?
Share your views on this subject and why you believe that
I think it's best to wait untill marriage.
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Posted: Mon Oct 03, 2005 3:23 pm
Morbid_ Emily Dragon Warrior X What are your views on premarital sex cause it seems a pretty common thing in todays culture but do you believe its wrong and people should wait untill marriage or do you believe something else?
Share your views on this subject and why you believe that I think it's best to wait untill marriage. ......................explain your opinion more indepth
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