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mehulk
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 05, 2011 8:21 pm


thanks cass for the help. at least you understand what i meant. i had asked Lei to post that announcement for me since i couldn't do it myself. it was all my wording.
PostPosted: Sat Mar 05, 2011 8:30 pm


this is my fault as well, all i did was copy and paste, i should've read through it more thoroughly and maybe change/add things, but i was busy and just wanted to take care of it.

didnt think it would've turned into this...

Lei_Trigar
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 05, 2011 8:36 pm


Lei_Trigar
this is my fault as well, all i did was copy and paste, i should've read through it more thoroughly and maybe change/add things, but i was busy and just wanted to take care of it.

didnt think it would've turned into this...


It's okay. People that didn't understand the announcment should have asked you or whoever was or is in charge what it ment.
PostPosted: Sat Mar 05, 2011 8:40 pm


Noriax
Lei_Trigar
this is my fault as well, all i did was copy and paste, i should've read through it more thoroughly and maybe change/add things, but i was busy and just wanted to take care of it.

didnt think it would've turned into this...


It's okay. People that didn't understand the announcment should have asked you or whoever was or is in charge what it ment.


i tried wording it as carefully as i could sorry lei. it would have happened eventually but at least this controlled it in a way :/ everything happens at one point or another. i just served in getting it out of the way

mehulk
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Ash_Trigar
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2011 1:22 am


Reikero
Rei please don't leave, we're a family here and even if we have issues we should'd turn our backs on one another *hugs*
I doubt the announcement really applied to every single person because I don't post daily either, it wasn't personal, I've seen you post from time to time so please don't see it that way ^_^
I would love to sort you and Mehulk out but I can't stop you from blocking anyone nor can I force you to post daily, that takes the clan freedom away. I'm sure we all feel a bit silly for letting this get out of hand.
If I were to send the announcement I would merely say that I miss everyone and THAT would be personal... I miss chatting to you in the clan and I miss how you used to rp but even I don't have time to rp daily ... so again, this wasn't aimed at you *hugs*
Please don't leave because of a misunderstanding?


Dolceux

Hiya ^_^ not sure if we've met >.>
I'm sorry you were also offended by the message or by Mehulk but I'm quite sure he meant no harm, as I just said to Rei, it's not like he was pointing fingers, he may very well have been talking about the few people who post and then vanish, loads of guilds and clan insist that people post and are alot stricter about it, perhaps Mehulk just misses the company of the clan XP
We try and pledge freedom to do as you please here and while I'm not entirely sure how this turned into something ugly I apologize on behalf of everyone involved.
I really care about this clan and would hate to lose the precious few members we have.
You are free to ignore who ever but please try not to take the announcements too seriously ^_^



mehulk

Hey hun, I understand the posting concerns but this clan has been quiet for ages, mostly my fault for not updating and getting things running and I am truly sorry for that, life does get in the way and we are all busy.
Your message was sent with good intention and I thank you for the thought but next time ask me about announcements? Lei is a bit of a typo king and is more likely not to notice things that may piss ppl off XDDD
I understand that you want people to post but while both girls seem offended and upset with you they have a point, sometimes things are more important than the clan and even I am victim to this, to the point that I forget about my own clan... it happens... I think that's what they meant.
I'm sorry this blew out of control, maybe it was just a bad day to mention those things specifically?
I love you all, please try to stay together and please try and keep the peace. <3


For my sake please don't leave, especially over something so insignificant, ironic that something that made you upset made you post XD.
We have important memories here and it would really break my heart if anyone left because of this.
Rei... Mehulk... you have your problems but please don't take it out on the clan. And I don't want either of you leaving ok?

<3
PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2011 8:17 am


@Noriasicaixaixaics
Your unecessary vocabulary has my pardon.
HOWEVER
I dont have to ASSUME ANYTHING AT ALL
I take for granted whatever Kerokero told me and I defend her with fists.
boohoo lemme read the announcement ten times over
I MEAN, Looks like you're the only reasonable person in this "argument" huh? ^_____________^
side note;
if someone posted an accouncement, that doesnt mean they have some sort of leadership in the clan? OR AM I RONG???

also lmfao @ not being able to handle sarcasm??

@Ash trigar
hi sup Ash we haven't met
I'll take for granted what you're saying from mehulk.
MY APOLOGIES for invading this clan

Pulcherou


DfctvDtctv

PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2011 8:46 am


What the hell is up with this pointless arguing?

If you all were so "logical" and "rational" you'd just ignore the announcement. Especially if you have "no time to post". Realize that the only reason he made the proposal was because he wants this place to be active, and just like whoever it was that said "one word a day", even I've been doing that, even if it was just "*cough*", and although it may seem pointless, that one phrase can say a lot more to whatever topic it's posted in (e.g. Lei figured that we might not even have the meetings anymore cause of the wait).

Even I don't have time to go online, and even if I did, I wouldn't as much as most would because I don't care enough for what this game provides. If you want to be in this clan, then you have to obey the rules it makes, and the same law applies for any dimension you want to bring up. It's either you do it or don't, and if you don't, you're excluded or become an exception through certain trials. Obviously mehulk has no final word to any of this because he doesn't have the appropriate authority and never will I ever recommend that he should by the way that he handled that, which I would never allow myself, but he is still a figure of the clan that you MUST respect at some level, and I am not talking about general respect where you acknowledge his authority (which should be common sense to follow at some extent), but to listen to where he is coming from when he says that he wants this clan to flourish because of this clan having what he believes to be the good people that he does not want to easily give up. Either that, or he's the typical power-hungry pretender that people usually are in moderation when they fleece their way into a promotion. Nevertheless, the message still stands regardless of his true intentions, since he's speaking from that direction.

So stop this nonsense, because a lot of you were logically fallacious for even having continued the conversation from severely contingent premises, because both sides of your arguments (literally) win and lose because there can be no true battle or resolve between the two due to so many variables that can be resolved ONLY through inexact possibilities, so a lot of you were at fault, and a lot of you lost, it's a tie. Shut the hell up, and decide whether you want to post daily, post at all, or leave. Emphasis on the latter with courtesy from me.
PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2011 9:29 am


And yes, that does mean that I am saying Reika might as well leave (as much as I wouldn't want that). It's her decision after all, and on the basis that she has no time for the announcement's proposal or any of this at all. There is not and should not be any form of proper conflict over the fact, since (I assume) even she can see that simply being in the clan is pointless if you're not going to participate. It's like joining facebook and never signing on. It's a waste of space, time, and authority because people like mehulk will expect from them, causing this mass of immense bullshitetry over opinions, ethics, and other pointless subjects. So do yourselves a favor and resolve this like adults. I'm up for mediation and debate for just about any time, but if she, alike others, sees that under mehulk's words, she is a transgression, and therefore wants to leave in order to avoid wasting our time and creating further conflict, then "thy will be done". Case solved, onto the next person.

DfctvDtctv


DfctvDtctv

PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2011 10:00 am


And to finish my part off, for future reference, Noriax is 100% correct on what she said (although, from what I remember skimming through, I don't think it changes anything). The announcement doesn't specify that you should post on BTD every singular day, and thus making you go on Gaia 24/7, but every day you are on (all thanks to mehulk's ambiguities). And although that is still unacceptable in my terms, it still stands and nullifies whatever arguments brought up that complain about the contrary. Reika says that even though she is on, she's still busy with other things, so the problem here is that that can happen. So you can't expect for a post every time we are on, every singular day, or every other day, or in my opinion, within any amount of fixed time, because, like I said, there are too many variables. I can go on about why mehulk is wrong and Reika is right, vice-versa, or both are right or wrong (or simply why you're both right and wrong), because this is all based on who is what, not what is what.
PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2011 11:39 am


Ash_Trigar

i will remember that ash don't worry. i kinda miss having this clan active and having fun so i figured "lets see who is in here but forgot they joined" i tried to word it as carefully as i could and i tried to make it as general as possible so people wouldn't get offended. obviously i made a mistake in the wording but this probably would have happened eventually for this or something else. thats what i think at least i could be wrong.

DfctvDtctv

Dtctv your right about the authority point. but thats why i never asked to be put in a position of power at all. i didn't even ask to be put in the crew position since i know i wouldn't be very good at it. i don't want power nor do i need it. i hate leading. i make mistakes too easily and too often.

no i am not continuing the argument people. all i am saying is that i am a faulty human. all humans make mistakes at one point or another and some make mistakes more than others. doesn't mean that there is one person who doesn't make mistakes in the world. cuz even if there is i know for a fact i am not that person. Now who would like to put this unpleasantness behind and keep posting regular posts?

mehulk
Crew


Reikero
Crew

Shy Cutie-Pie

PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2011 2:04 pm


DfctvDtctv
thank you P:
im not going to leave though,
ash wants me to stay xD
PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2011 2:05 pm


tl;dr

Pulcherou


Reikero
Crew

Shy Cutie-Pie

PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2011 2:07 pm


Dolceux
tl;dr

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