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well usually you cant tell when you cant see them -_-' but if you do you can usually tell 3nodding . but on how to 'pick them up' i have only one tip;
FLIRT LIKE CRAZEH!!! and if they like you even the slightest bit they'll ask you if your gay of something like that. just don't overkill on the flirting sweatdrop .

I used to have several, I just like the world know I'm gay.. except my family gonk pretty simple.

Uh, just be yourself and don't pounce on every opportunity that presents itself to you?
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Well, you could either:
1. Have some patience until your 18 and you are to soon discover a gay bar but you have to be 20 for the drinking part, I'm not sure =/ I'm only a kid, what do I know wink
2. Admit to your mother that your gay, if she totally supports you, she'll probablity help you find a place for gay teenagers so they do have a 'chance' to talk to each other and stuff
3. Discover. It's simple really it depends on how a guy acts, think to yourself, if there are 11 boys in a same room, its QUITE possible that your looking at one of the boy that are gay and there are ways to know, but with 20 boys in the same room are more accurate if your gay yourself.

I'm in the same position as you pal. Nobody knows I'm gay until I tell them that I am when a girl starts flirting with me. You know that really starts getting anyoying, especially since I'm a seme. blaugh sweatdrop

Yeah girls flirt with me all the time and get upset when I'm not interested, it is really bothersome.

By the way does joining a gay straight alliance help? I don't know if my school has one, but I'm going to see. What are those groups for and is it really a place you'd wanna look for a boyfriend?

Un. Girls flirt with me too, it makes the find-a-guy part hard since I'm a cuddle whore. I like hugging a lot, and most of my friends are girls, and some like kissing me for no aparent reason, so I never can look like I'm seeking for a guy. Even though I wear a rainbow wristband most of time and take walks in the gay village with it, it's like they won't understand. And in school, it seems they won't get it until you tell them. I usually wait for them to make an opening like a joke or a matching attempt to make them understand.

Even though in my head it's so obvious, but it's normal since I know it. I assume that everyone knows, yet they don't and are surprised when I tell so. The only ones that presumed I was are the ones that saw me having a pitiful attempt at flirting with a guy, or just being cuddly with my guy friends (happily, most don't mind, and these who did just got used to me xP).

Though girls seem to be madly attracted to gays, probably because they ind it attractive that a guy might kiss another one or whatsoever. So ever since I've discovered I was gay I've been followed by many annoying fangirls >> Which really doesn't help finding a guy.

Here, there's a place not too far called the Gay Village, it's a part of the city where gays gather apparently and most of its inhabitants are actually gay, aven the places like tim hortons and banks and stuff located there have the gay-friendly flag hanging on the door or sticked on the window, and the place is packed with gay bars (some are weird though .__.). And I am of the age to go, I just don't have time yet... But next week... *evil laughter*

For these who don't live in a gay-friendly place, I guess the option "go on the school stage, grab a mic and shoyut YO SEXAY BOIS I'M GAY!" isn't really something I suggest. But try to make subtle hints that you might be interested in some guys and maybe someone will find you out n_n <3