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 Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 3:25 pm
They are so confusing.
And always get me in trouble. = [
I have a boyfriend, so I shouldn't even post about this... but, I feel so confused.
*runs away* Never mind.
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 4:37 pm
NO! You are the therapist/phycologist person so you should be able to talk about problems you are having too! Now talk!
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 5:11 pm
Okays then... *takes a deep breath ...err...wait.. that doesn't work online...
Anyways~~
I have a boyfriend. I haven't talked to him in about a week and a half, since I asked him out. And yeah... thats not the problem.
I think I really like my friend from Virginia. I spent 2 months there in the summer, and he became a really good friend. Now, he just got out of a shitty situation with his now ex... and I know he likes this girl, who happens to like him back. But has a girlfriend.
I live in NJ... which means, I can't be with him everyday. . . and I spend quite alot of time down there, though.
I know I shouldn't like him since I have a boyfriend... but.. I can't help but like him.
<= heart ==<<<
So, I'm just sticking to my boyfriend and hopeing I get over the other... sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 5:28 pm
SilverAngelTears Okays then... *takes a deep breath ...err...wait.. that doesn't work online... Anyways~~ I have a boyfriend. I haven't talked to him in about a week and a half, since I asked him out. And yeah... thats not the problem. I think I really like my friend from Virginia. I spent 2 months there in the summer, and he became a really good friend. Now, he just got out of a shitty situation with his now ex... and I know he likes this girl, who happens to like him back. But has a girlfriend. I live in NJ... which means, I can't be with him everyday. . . and I spend quite alot of time down there, though. I know I shouldn't like him since I have a boyfriend... but.. I can't help but like him. <= heart ==<<< So, I'm just sticking to my boyfriend and hopeing I get over the other... sweatdrop Hmmm...
High school love.
There is no such thing!
D:<
(Just don't have a boy friend until you are more mature. That is my opinion.)
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 5:50 pm
Mansur SilverAngelTears Okays then... *takes a deep breath ...err...wait.. that doesn't work online... Anyways~~ I have a boyfriend. I haven't talked to him in about a week and a half, since I asked him out. And yeah... thats not the problem. I think I really like my friend from Virginia. I spent 2 months there in the summer, and he became a really good friend. Now, he just got out of a shitty situation with his now ex... and I know he likes this girl, who happens to like him back. But has a girlfriend. I live in NJ... which means, I can't be with him everyday. . . and I spend quite alot of time down there, though. I know I shouldn't like him since I have a boyfriend... but.. I can't help but like him. <= heart ==<<< So, I'm just sticking to my boyfriend and hopeing I get over the other... sweatdrop Hmmm...
High school love.
There is no such thing!
D:<
(Just don't have a boy friend until you are more mature. That is my opinion.) Escuse me? More mature... xd I can't get much more mature. Or I'll loose all hopes of imagination. Which, I have little left any ways. Thats not my problem here. So, please don't tell me I should get more mature or ignore how I feel about people.
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 6:10 pm
SilverAngelTears Okays then... *takes a deep breath ...err...wait.. that doesn't work online... Anyways~~ I have a boyfriend. I haven't talked to him in about a week and a half, since I asked him out. And yeah... thats not the problem. I think I really like my friend from Virginia. I spent 2 months there in the summer, and he became a really good friend. Now, he just got out of a shitty situation with his now ex... and I know he likes this girl, who happens to like him back. But has a girlfriend. I live in NJ... which means, I can't be with him everyday. . . and I spend quite alot of time down there, though. I know I shouldn't like him since I have a boyfriend... but.. I can't help but like him. <= heart ==<<< So, I'm just sticking to my boyfriend and hopeing I get over the other... sweatdrop Hmm.....so the girl he happens to like happens to be you huh? This is a hard one..Which boy do you like more? I'd say go out with that one (which I'm sure is a pretty obvious solution) however I'm guessing you like them somewhat equally. If that's the case then I would stick with the closer BF just because he's closer and you can see him more often.
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 6:14 pm
uh..highschool love can exist. it doesnt mean it will last but it has, i've seen it.
just love in general can or cant last, it just depends on the two people. 3nodding i'm 25, i've seen it all. xD or, a lot anyway. haha.
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 6:19 pm
[~Masked~] SilverAngelTears Okays then... *takes a deep breath ...err...wait.. that doesn't work online... Anyways~~ I have a boyfriend. I haven't talked to him in about a week and a half, since I asked him out. And yeah... thats not the problem. I think I really like my friend from Virginia. I spent 2 months there in the summer, and he became a really good friend. Now, he just got out of a shitty situation with his now ex... and I know he likes this girl, who happens to like him back. But has a girlfriend. I live in NJ... which means, I can't be with him everyday. . . and I spend quite alot of time down there, though. I know I shouldn't like him since I have a boyfriend... but.. I can't help but like him. <= heart ==<<< So, I'm just sticking to my boyfriend and hopeing I get over the other... sweatdrop Hmm.....so the girl he happens to like happens to be you huh? This is a hard one..Which boy do you like more? I'd say go out with that one (which I'm sure is a pretty obvious solution) however I'm guessing you like them somewhat equally. If that's the case then I would stick with the closer BF just because he's closer and you can see him more often. I didn't say I'm the one he happens to like. I'm NOT the one he likes. Though, I get the feeling that he likes me too. What sucks is that, my boyfriend lives around me, but goes to a different school. I never know when I'll see him. gonk ... I'm not talking about love. I just want to be happy with a boy. = ] Yah know, a relationship where he cares about me and all...
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Posted: Thu Nov 09, 2006 2:14 pm
maybe you just need a break for the time-being. that'd be my best solution. right now, I'm having some problems with my friend and her brother, whom I have a crush on. originally she wanted to set us up, but then decided that he could fend for himself. well recently I've started hanging all over him, and found out that in fact he doesn't like me in that way. cry now my friend started being really rude and won't talk to me. what the heck?! confused gonk sweatdrop the other day that I tried to cuddle with this guy again, he got all weird on me and is all like "can you please stop touching me?" I said aww, don't you like cuddling anymore? and he said well I don't know you and it's kinda creepy." talk about weird. he's talked to me several times before and now "doesn't know me?" oh well, guess that's life for ya, so I'm just trying to forget about him because obviously he's got some issues. 3nodding gonk sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Nov 09, 2006 2:39 pm
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Posted: Thu Nov 09, 2006 4:34 pm
swissfishwish1 maybe you just need a break for the time-being. that'd be my best solution. right now, I'm having some problems with my friend and her brother, whom I have a crush on. originally she wanted to set us up, but then decided that he could fend for himself. well recently I've started hanging all over him, and found out that in fact he doesn't like me in that way. cry now my friend started being really rude and won't talk to me. what the heck?! confused gonk sweatdrop the other day that I tried to cuddle with this guy again, he got all weird on me and is all like "can you please stop touching me?" I said aww, don't you like cuddling anymore? and he said well I don't know you and it's kinda creepy." talk about weird. he's talked to me several times before and now "doesn't know me?" oh well, guess that's life for ya, so I'm just trying to forget about him because obviously he's got some issues. 3nodding gonk sweatdrop Oh geeze. That kid does have issues. xd You don't cuddle with someone then tell them to stop because you don't know them. = / I don't need a break. I've taken a like... 6 month break from the real relationships. *twitch*
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Posted: Thu Nov 09, 2006 5:01 pm
SilverAngelTears swissfishwish1 maybe you just need a break for the time-being. that'd be my best solution. right now, I'm having some problems with my friend and her brother, whom I have a crush on. originally she wanted to set us up, but then decided that he could fend for himself. well recently I've started hanging all over him, and found out that in fact he doesn't like me in that way. cry now my friend started being really rude and won't talk to me. what the heck?! confused gonk sweatdrop the other day that I tried to cuddle with this guy again, he got all weird on me and is all like "can you please stop touching me?" I said aww, don't you like cuddling anymore? and he said well I don't know you and it's kinda creepy." talk about weird. he's talked to me several times before and now "doesn't know me?" oh well, guess that's life for ya, so I'm just trying to forget about him because obviously he's got some issues. 3nodding gonk sweatdrop Oh geeze. That kid does have issues. xd You don't cuddle with someone then tell them to stop because you don't know them. = / I don't need a break. I've taken a like... 6 month break from the real relationships. *twitch* lol, I dunno what to tell ya then xd but yeah that guy, at his last school last year, brought razor blades to school to kill himself right in class! emo problematic? yeeeeessssshhhhh I'd say so talk2hand
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Posted: Thu Nov 09, 2006 5:38 pm
swissfishwish1 SilverAngelTears swissfishwish1 maybe you just need a break for the time-being. that'd be my best solution. right now, I'm having some problems with my friend and her brother, whom I have a crush on. originally she wanted to set us up, but then decided that he could fend for himself. well recently I've started hanging all over him, and found out that in fact he doesn't like me in that way. cry now my friend started being really rude and won't talk to me. what the heck?! confused gonk sweatdrop the other day that I tried to cuddle with this guy again, he got all weird on me and is all like "can you please stop touching me?" I said aww, don't you like cuddling anymore? and he said well I don't know you and it's kinda creepy." talk about weird. he's talked to me several times before and now "doesn't know me?" oh well, guess that's life for ya, so I'm just trying to forget about him because obviously he's got some issues. 3nodding gonk sweatdrop Oh geeze. That kid does have issues. xd You don't cuddle with someone then tell them to stop because you don't know them. = / I don't need a break. I've taken a like... 6 month break from the real relationships. *twitch* lol, I dunno what to tell ya then xd but yeah that guy, at his last school last year, brought razor blades to school to kill himself right in class! emo problematic? yeeeeessssshhhhh I'd say so talk2hand Oh dear.. How'd you get envolved with this kid? o.O'
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Posted: Wed Nov 15, 2006 8:01 pm
SilverAngelTears [~Masked~] SilverAngelTears Okays then... *takes a deep breath ...err...wait.. that doesn't work online... Anyways~~ I have a boyfriend. I haven't talked to him in about a week and a half, since I asked him out. And yeah... thats not the problem. I think I really like my friend from Virginia. I spent 2 months there in the summer, and he became a really good friend. Now, he just got out of a shitty situation with his now ex... and I know he likes this girl, who happens to like him back. But has a girlfriend. I live in NJ... which means, I can't be with him everyday. . . and I spend quite alot of time down there, though. I know I shouldn't like him since I have a boyfriend... but.. I can't help but like him. <= heart ==<<< So, I'm just sticking to my boyfriend and hopeing I get over the other... sweatdrop Hmm.....so the girl he happens to like happens to be you huh? This is a hard one..Which boy do you like more? I'd say go out with that one (which I'm sure is a pretty obvious solution) however I'm guessing you like them somewhat equally. If that's the case then I would stick with the closer BF just because he's closer and you can see him more often. I didn't say I'm the one he happens to like. I'm NOT the one he likes. Though, I get the feeling that he likes me too. What sucks is that, my boyfriend lives around me, but goes to a different school. I never know when I'll see him. gonk ... I'm not talking about love. I just want to be happy with a boy. = ] Yah know, a relationship where he cares about me and all... k, so let me get this straight. You sorta like him but he likes another girl and maybe you too. You have a bf but you never know when you are going to see him?
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Posted: Mon Dec 18, 2006 8:16 pm
*Stopped reading after a few posts*
Sorry, this is a little late probably but here is my two major points:
Don't feel bad about being attracted to another guy when you have a boyfriend. Your attraction to others can't just be switched on and off, it's bound to happen no matter how much you love someone you're with. The feat to be hurdled from it is to stay true to the one you're with, despite temptation.
Also, as for the high school romance, I used to think ******** it, but now I've changed my mind. I say, do them, it's good experience so you aren't an amateur of love when you find the person you are meant to be with. Just don't give in to fully committing (sex/ect) in something you don't know for an absolute fact is going to last up to and through marriage.
(sorry if any of this was said earlier)
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