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 Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 2:36 pm
yeah, my boyfriend is a nympho... well, was- since he's dating me. he know's that i'm not going to have sex til i'm married but i'm trying to keep him 'satisfied'... do y'all have any ideas? i'm pretty open-minded so dont hold back.
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Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 3:14 pm
if you dont 'satisfy' him if you wont have sex then tell him to go ******** himself
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Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 6:51 pm
i'm not going to tell him that, lol. like i said, i'm open to anything i guess so i'm curious about things that he could be interested in....any ideas?
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Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 7:08 pm
Lezlee K i'm not going to tell him that, lol. like i said, i'm open to anything i guess so i'm curious about things that he could be interested in....any ideas? ask him what he's interested in
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Posted: Thu Mar 30, 2006 8:57 pm
Don't do anything you're not comfortable with. And basically, we can't advise much else other than talk to HIM (not us) and ask him what he likes, and what he's interested in.
Do what you are ok with doing, and don't let him pressure you into anything you don't feel like/want to do.
Edit: You might want to look up what the definition for "nymphomaniac" is. If he just wants sex, or feels compelled to do sexual things, it's probably just him being a guy, or hormones. A lot of people are like that. I love sex, and I'm not a nymphomaniac.
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Posted: Fri Mar 31, 2006 12:40 pm
well, he's 23 and he lost his virginity at 12 and he's just been really 'active' the past 5 yrs....he's attractive so he had no problem getting w/ the ladies.... i mean, do you think jackin him off would help him? i'm cool with that.
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Posted: Sat Apr 01, 2006 1:25 pm
It doesn't matter what we think deary! If you and your b/f think 'jacking him off' will help, and you're perfectly fine with doing that, then go ahead and do it. We can't give you an honest answer about your relashonship cause we're not mind readers! Just follow your conscience. 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Apr 01, 2006 6:40 pm
Just for the record, Men can't be Nymphos. Only women can. And thats not a stab at women, its just the word is Gender Specific. When a its a man they're called Sayters.
Just some useless information....
Oh and Men like that can be VERY dangerous. I'm not saying your boyfriend is but if he is a true Sayter it could become problematic.
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Posted: Mon Apr 03, 2006 9:14 pm
I have to agree with Dracos here. My ex was very big on wanting to have sex, even though he knew I wasn't ready and wanted to wait. Instead of pushing me into sex, he tried to push me into situations where I might give in. To make a long story short, he almost forced me to give him oral and proceeded to emotionally abuse me throughout our relationship.
You have NO obligation to keep him satisfied. If he can't deal with your relationship lacking a sexual component, then he isn't worth the time. If you WANT to give to him, do what you're comfortable with. But you shouldn't be doing something just becuase you feel like you have to in order for him to stay with you. It should be you wanting to give to him, not him wanting you to give it. It's better for both sides anyway that way.
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