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 Posted: Sat Sep 17, 2011 9:00 am
I got a girlfriend two days ago and we have been friends for four years. I'm afraid that if something goes terribly wrong, since we are both bisexual, I might lose her forever not only as a girlfriend but as a friend too and the whole thought makes me nautious. I am also nervous because this is actually new territory for me. I haven't been eating much lately because of this as well.
Any advice or comforting? >.<
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Posted: Sat Sep 17, 2011 9:40 am
People loose friends in breakups when they are mean to each other- skip being mean and it should work out ok if you do break up.
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Posted: Sat Sep 17, 2011 10:05 am
Ok we promised to eachother we would still be friends if we broke up... But I'm afraid she might forget about that if it does happen... >.< I'll just pray and see what happens but I'll try not to worry about it. smile
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Posted: Sat Sep 17, 2011 1:01 pm
even though I know it's a concern of yours right now try not to dwell too much on that and just enjoy the relationship you have right now. There's no way to tell what could happen or when if anything ever does. In fact from personal experience no matter what your reasoning is for fearing a break up if you put to much energy into that fear it can affect the relationship negatively and become a reality. The best thing you can do right now is focus on the relationship you have at the moment. By strengthening the bond you two have now, you'll not only make your relationship last longer, but ensure that the two of you will stay friends by using this experience to bring you closer than any friendship could.
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2011 4:45 pm
Should I talk to her about my worry?
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Posted: Mon Sep 19, 2011 3:24 pm
YamatoXgoth Should I talk to her about my worry? perhaps. Just remember not to overdo it. Let her know once and listen to what she thinks. after that leave it alone.
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Posted: Mon Sep 19, 2011 4:41 pm
Thanks ^^ Then I guess I'll keep it a secret. And I don't feel so nervous and afraid anymore now that we had our first date.
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Posted: Mon Sep 19, 2011 6:40 pm
YamatoXgoth Thanks ^^ Then I guess I'll keep it a secret. And I don't feel so nervous and afraid anymore now that we had our first date. awh well that's great. I hope everything works out for you.
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