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LordoflePenguins Vice Captain
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 Posted: Thu Dec 17, 2009 4:53 am
Well, yesterday I was sitting with my friends in college, and I was absent minded until I heard them talk about gay guys, my friend was saying she was worried her brother might be gay, and I just jumped in the conversation going "And that's a bad thing, why?" then after talking about it they were like ">.> You're so defensive, you're not gay are you?" and I was like "actually yeah I am" and they didn't believe me and started joking around so I was like ">.>; I can prove it?" How I proved it isn't the point, though, when you tell someone you're gay, or they find out, are they usually surprised or say something like "I knew it", Out of all my friends, even the close ones I've had since high school, I can only think of one guy who wasn't surprised, and it's weird and funny at the same time.
It kinda bothers me and makes me feel awkward when people don't believe me xD, if it was just someone I don't want knowing, I just go like "heheh, yeah >.>; I'm kidding"
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Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2009 9:33 am
These are the memories we keep, inflicting wounds so deep.. I haven't told very many people, but those who I have could really care less. They were pretty much like, "Okay, whatever." And they seep, a darker shade of crimson.
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LordoflePenguins Vice Captain
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Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2009 3:30 pm
ADarkerShadeOfCrimsonRp These are the memories we keep, inflicting wounds so deep.. I haven't told very many people, but those who I have could really care less. They were pretty much like, "Okay, whatever." And they seep, a darker shade of crimson.
xD In Jordan it's like a big deal, most people here are homophobes, and a lot of the people I hang out with are, so I don't just go around announcing it, but everyone insists on playing with my phone and the wall paper is me and this girl kissing, so they're like "._. ... We like you too much to hate you, but, seriously?"
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Posted: Mon Dec 21, 2009 1:06 am
Well...
I remember telling a few friends a long time ago and they didn't believe me right off or w/e because I "didn't act like a lesbian"
...I didn't know that there was a specific way I was supposed to act ;s
Course I didn't go out and prove anything...just explained myself the best I could for them.
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LordoflePenguins Vice Captain
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Posted: Sat Dec 26, 2009 5:13 pm
CurrentDisaster Well... I remember telling a few friends a long time ago and they didn't believe me right off or w/e because I "didn't act like a lesbian" ...I didn't know that there was a specific way I was supposed to act ;s Course I didn't go out and prove anything...just explained myself the best I could for them.
xD Yeah, me neither, about the whole acting thing.
I usually just go with the joke when someone thinks I'm kidding if I don't want them knowing, but at the time I didn't feel like it.
I figure if someone's gonna hate me for being gay then it's their loss.
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Posted: Sat Dec 26, 2009 5:23 pm
Yeah it happened to me once. although most of my friends are either bi, gay or pre-op ftm or mtf. so they are cool but people i see at the mall that know me but not all about me, just stay there open mouthed.
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LordoflePenguins Vice Captain
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Posted: Sat Dec 26, 2009 6:20 pm
[lady joker] Yeah it happened to me once. although most of my friends are either bi, gay or pre-op ftm or mtf. so they are cool but people i see at the mall that know me but not all about me, just stay there open mouthed.
xD I have one bi friend but she's more like my little sister's friend even though she's older than I am.
She's more on the straight side though.
Sometimes it's funny to see people's reactions like that.
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Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 9:36 am
Well...
I think people besides getting over the initial shock of finding out which of their friends are gay or whatever...
People have become a little more excepting at least.
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LordoflePenguins Vice Captain
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Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 10:00 am
CurrentDisaster Well... I think people besides getting over the initial shock of finding out which of their friends are gay or whatever... People have become a little more excepting at least.
Yeah mostly, like, some people just act like it with me sometimes.
Like, they'd act like they don't care, then when I flirt with one of our guy friends out of fun or they find out some guy likes me, they go like "maybe there's some hope for you yet" It's really offensive -.-
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Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 10:43 am
S a m m e h M o n k e y [lady joker] Yeah it happened to me once. although most of my friends are either bi, gay or pre-op ftm or mtf. so they are cool but people i see at the mall that know me but not all about me, just stay there open mouthed.
xD I have one bi friend but she's more like my little sister's friend even though she's older than I am.
She's more on the straight side though.
Sometimes it's funny to see people's reactions like that.
back then i had a guy give me five dollars cuz i made his night by kissing the girl i was with. my one bi friend is dating a guy right now, its kinda hard to believe when the past 5 years she's only dated girls.
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Posted: Sun Mar 14, 2010 5:28 pm
i get it a lot because most of the people in my group of friends get the dyke comment from others and the are straight.so when i act like a bit lesbo they just make a joke about it and laugh. like
friend: "your sitting like a dyke you know?"
me: "thats the point." (i tend to sit on my chair backwards)
friend: "wait ur gay"
me: "thats right, well for the most part."
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Posted: Tue Mar 16, 2010 10:41 am
Normally my friends bring up something about gays, and then they're all like, "WTF, why are you defensive all of a sudden? Ohmigod, you're not gay are you?" and they start laughing at their 'joke.' And I'm all like, "Heheh... so funny. >.<"
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Posted: Thu Mar 18, 2010 6:49 pm
S a m m e h M o n k e y ADarkerShadeOfCrimsonRp These are the memories we keep, inflicting wounds so deep.. I haven't told very many people, but those who I have could really care less. They were pretty much like, "Okay, whatever." And they seep, a darker shade of crimson.
xD In Jordan it's like a big deal, most people here are homophobes, and a lot of the people I hang out with are, so I don't just go around announcing it, but everyone insists on playing with my phone and the wall paper is me and this girl kissing, so they're like "._. ... We like you too much to hate you, but, seriously?"
x3 You kissing who Sammie? P;
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Posted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 11:06 pm
whenever people find out or i tell them they kinda freak. but then they get over it and we move on
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Posted: Tue Jun 15, 2010 7:34 pm
Being Pansexual (for those who don't know: Pansexual is when you don't care if the other is male, female, transgender, herm, etc.) the most common reaction I get is "that's the same thing as bisexual" or "ew, that means you want to ******** animals."
neither of them are true... but jeez it gets on my nerves.
Most people who know me know me as the type of person to care about the mind, spirit, and soul rather than the gender.
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