My coming out story wasn't really great. i didnt come out and just tell my family that i was a lesbian. it slipped out by accident. one night a girl i was dating at the time came over to visit me. when my mom asked me who it was, in response i told her my girlfriend. Then my aunt asked if i was gay and told the rest of the family. They was not mad but they didnt take it serious they saw it as something i would get over eventually i been out since 2015. Being secret about your sexuality is hard because you are not your true self. Yeah its scary to tell certain people or family in general because your scared of their reaction. Its better to be honest with yourself first before making any major decisions.