did you plan your kids?

[dragonslord8o]

I only have one but I planned her. I don't want anymore. My daughter is 6 so I'm in the clear so far lol. I hope it stays that way.  

[MercyWild]

We did and didn't plan them. We agreed before we got married that we wanted two kids at some point. We did not plan the exact timing of either pregnancy. Shortly after we got married I got pregnant with our oldest. Then 7 years later just after I started a new job and we got approved for a home loan we found out I was pregnant again, this time with twins.  

[MommiiDearest]

We planned our son to an extent.
From a few weeks into dating we new we were meant for each other and that we wanted kids with one another.
We both wanted a boy to come first, and we tossed around possible names for him, also girls just in case.
In 2011 we decided that beginning Feb 2012 we would start trying for a baby. Turns out, even though I was still on Birth Control, the universe had a different plan because I conceived the end of December.  

[Monda Milam]

My first 2 boys weren't my eldest son is 12, I also have a 4y/o, and I have a 1year old he was planned going to try for a little girl next time and that will be my last time;lol.  

[Digital Fiend]

We did and didn't. We tried for 7 months, then my husband lost his job and we stopped trying.

Universe was all "Haha, guess what I just did."

But he is wonderful and I'm so glad I have him in my life.

 

[Lady Katari]

I didn't plan mine at all.
I mean I knew I wanted to be with him for life and would have never had intercourse if I didn't think I was ready to have a child with him.
(I have an old fashioned mind that way.)
However, plan or no plan, that doesn't take away our happiness to be having our first! smile  

[LoneLoverLady]

I am 28 weeks with my first.
She was a planned surprise.
Husband and I tried for years, and when we finally quit trying and was about to go off the fertility drugs, we found out I was pregnant.
We couldn't be more happy, and we plan to have more children in the future.