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 Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 2:37 pm
It's my last day at home before I go to school.
And she still finds a way to drag me down.
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Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 2:47 pm
CleoSombra It's my last day at home before I go to school.
And she still finds a way to drag me down. What happened? D:
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Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 2:54 pm
Stop telling me this. Just stop.
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Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 3:01 pm
Kats Kokeshi Doll CleoSombra It's my last day at home before I go to school.
And she still finds a way to drag me down. What happened? D:
I wasn't looking at her because she was chewing food (it's related to a disorder I have, which she knows very much about) and I was rubbing my ear. She interpreted as me covering my face from her so I didn't have to look at her and she's like "What, do I disgust you that much?"
She always does this. She always exaggerates everything, jumps to conclusions, and take innocent benign movements as nasty and aggressive. Whatever you don't, don't roll your eyes. Don't even sort of roll your eyes (like, don't look around the room), or else she'll think you're rolling your eyes at her and she'll tear you apart.
Seriously. This was my last ******** meal in the house for several weeks (I come back every few weekends).
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Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 3:06 pm
CleoSombra Kats Kokeshi Doll CleoSombra It's my last day at home before I go to school.
And she still finds a way to drag me down. What happened? D:
I wasn't looking at her because she was chewing food (it's related to a disorder I have, which she knows very much about) and I was rubbing my ear. She interpreted as me covering my face from her so I didn't have to look at her and she's like "What, do I disgust you that much?"
She always does this. She always exaggerates everything, jumps to conclusions, and take innocent benign movements as nasty and aggressive. Whatever you don't, don't roll your eyes. Don't even sort of roll your eyes (like, don't look around the room), or else she'll think you're rolling your eyes at her and she'll tear you apart.
Seriously. This was my last ******** meal in the house for several weeks (I come back every few weekends).
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Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 6:39 pm
Now that I really think about it, I don't think I'm entirely misandristic. The only time I notice any special suspicion on my part towards a guy is when he's dating a girl I know. So maybe I'm just...mis-boyfriend-istic. Figures, since I've seen enough of my friends get used and mistreated by numerous guys. If I were going to develop a complex after that, it would probably be exclusive to guys in relationships.
But now the problem is that I feel uneasy talking to a friend of mine, because I met him through his girlfriend, who he doesn't have the best history with. Actually, I'm not sure I'm comfortable even interacting with him on any pleasant terms, let alone being almost as close to him as I am to her (the "almost" is mostly due to the automatic, subconscious "one wrong move and you're dead" mentality). It's...unnerving. I feel like I'm doing something wrong, when I know I'm not. I feel like I'm being disloyal to my friend, when in fact I doubt she'd mind me being friends with him even if he did do something horrible to her someday. She's that kind of person...has her beliefs, sure, but won't impose them on anyone else. And I'm not worried about ever becoming That Other Girl, because, well...don't even go there. Even if I weren't asexual, I'm not a total b***h.
I know I like her better, just because she's the girl and he's the guy. And I'm not sure whether or not I'm unsettled by this. Although...I think I might be more comfortable around him lately, and that's unsettling. Just out of habit, I suppose. In all my experience, and I mean all of it, guys who date my friends are jerks. I know it can't possibly be like that all the time, but so far it has been, and it's shaped my mind.
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Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 6:43 pm
Cannibal Horsey Valheita I have a not so PG-13 issue and no idea who to talk to about it D:
It's not really medical.. and counselors are hella expensive for such a little thing.
I'm here if you want Val! I studied psychology and I'll be studying Medicine (eventually) hopefully. I also like you, so you can rant away to me if you want...
Do you have a Skype?
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Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 10:32 pm
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 2:26 am
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Mmmm hummm Cleo dear I agree with Kat. See if talking to her about it will help *hugs*
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So basically you like him but you don't want to do anything because of your friend. I can understand that, I've been in the same case myself some time ago.
I this case I would (as you are doing) tread carefully.
It's not abnormal to like a friends boyfriend. After all you like your friend and you like the same things. It's why people tend to fall for their friends brothers and sisters because of the similarities.
Just make sure that you decide what you are going to do. If you are going to stick by your friend or if you are going to see if a relationship between you and this guy could form make the clear distinction now. Dancing around the subject and using 'if/perhaps/maybe' will only add to the turmoil.
Once you decide, then decide what action you should take. For example if I like a guy but decide that my friendship is more important I tend to avoid being alone with him or talking about their relationship. But you have to decide and make the choice yourself.
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Well Val you can always talk to me if you need to.
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Creas ...?
I must have missed that but I hope you're ok. Let me know if you want to talk.
---o0o---
OK. Now time for my little secret!
You see I've been a verrrrry naughty girl and I've gone and done something delightfully sneaky and I can't wait to see their reaction! I mean they probably wont even notice or post anything about it... but it's just so much fun <3
It's like I'm playing AB again! Except I'm not... but the feeling is the same!
Oh, and I fail at making gold, lulz. I was ripped off and... oh well, live and learn XD I'll profit but it will just take longer then expected.
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 5:31 am
@Miss Perfection: Wait wait wait, are you talking to me? Oh god, I didn't mean to imply I like him that way. gonk I don't. Far from it. I was saying I've become very suspicious of all boyfriends, so becoming friends with one has made me nervous. (If you'll notice, I specifically made sure to say I would never fall for him and would never make a move even if I swung that way -- maybe I wasn't clear enough; happens all the time.) I think the misandrism was the original point of the post and then it went off on a tangent about this one particular girl and her boyfriend, and how I inherently don't trust him, so it's unsettling to, well, feel like I'm beginning to trust him. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 5:48 am
This isn't normal. Normal people would NOT be crying hysterically over something so stupid. Normal people wouldn't be losing sleep over this s**t.
Usually I'm proud of the things that make me different and unique, but right now, I'd give anyyyything to be normal crying
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 5:55 am
Little Miss Fortune This isn't normal. Normal people would NOT be crying hysterically over something so stupid. Normal people wouldn't be losing sleep over this s**t.
Usually I'm proud of the things that make me different and unique, but right now, I'd give anyyyything to be normal crying
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 6:40 am
I hate my ankles. Especially the one that gave out yesterday during the second game of the frisbee tournament I was in
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 6:40 am
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Ohhhhhhhhhh!
My goodness, you should have just seen me blush! I'm so sorry Kes! I thought that... ok, anyway moving on!
Ahem!
Er well now I sort of know what's you mean I dont think you should be too stressed. Trusting people isn't bad, dont fret too much <3 Guy's are not all total jerks!
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Fortune? <3
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Mizu are you ok now??? <3
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Posted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 6:52 am
Miss Perfection •○♣☼♣○•
Guy's are not all total jerks!
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Except for me. I'm a total p***k. :3
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