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To whom it may concern,

I have been a dedicated member of this site since 2003, and I still have a deep rooted love for Gaia, or at least for what it used to be. Unfortunately it has become increasingly apparent that GaiaOnline is becoming a radically different site from the one I fell in love with.

While there will be many things I miss about this place, most of them are already gone. I've seen many users leave in the last few months, and now it is time for me to join their ranks. I do plan on keeping my account on the off chance things to get better, but until they do my time is better spent elsewhere.

My Story:

I've had this account since 2003 it's safe to say I've spent a fair share of time here. While my posting history was initially sparse, I lurked and played the games when I first joined, unconsciously absorbing the atmosphere and spirit of the site, and it impacted the way I think, and as dramatic as it may sound, who I am today. Young and headstrong I found my way to the ED and had my beliefs and convictions challenged, I learned how to properly argue a point, the formalities of debating, and most importantly how to open up my mind and be critical of even my own understandings. For something others may have seen as an insignificant aspect of my life, far from just providing general entertainment, this place has shaped the way I view the world.

So while this may seem melodramatic to some, I'll freely admit that my love of this site is more than it probably should be, this community is dear to me, and it was that devotion and enjoyment that kept bringing me back, for over a decade. It is that same love that made me want to spend money here, and I didn't mind that they were virtual items, it was a hobby and something I enjoyed, and I got more enjoyment out of it when I felt like I was contributing to well-being of the site.

The same dedication that kept me here for so long and kept me donating when I had the funds has now brought me to an unfortunate crossroads. Having known the Gaia that existed prior to 2013, I can't enjoy the site that exists now. Many users look back at the introduction of Gaia Cash as the downfall, I can't say I agree. I don't have a problem with the site trying to increase it's revenue, after all servers and staff aren't free, and overall we saw a definite improvement in item quality. I'm not blinded by rose-colored glasses that prevent me from seeing that Gaia is a business, and making money isn't a crime. However, trying to turn a profit at the expense of the those who support it, and in ethically questionable ways is not something I can sit idly by and accept, especially not from a site so dear to me as this.

So when things really started changing, (about half way through 2013 when the new management's policies started kicking in) I did everything in my power to call attention to the new direction and stop it. I became an active member of the Site Feedback forum, making threads and commenting on the changes, I even created a megathread outlining feedback on all of the specific actions that were upsetting myself and many others in the community. The problems laid out there ranged from the havoc wreaked on the economy, to blatant disregard for user feedback, to the condescending and harsh treatment of the userbase, and even extreme censorship. I joined a guild dedicated to bringing these issues and concerns to the attention of the staff, and trying to save the site from itself. Sadly, all of these efforts only served to prove how little the new management cared about the community, and how far they were willing to go to maximize profits at the expense of the community.

My interaction with Gaia became a very negative experience and a constant source of stress. I no longer enjoyed logging on, and the few escapes I still had were soon infected by the new management's actions. All of my time on the site was spent noting and writing about the constant influx of issues and slights against the users. Offensive surveys, non-stop cash sales, incessant spam for GC promotions, increasing censorship, and many other issues all seemed to swarm in at once, and with no reprieve. Even the events were destroyed by pushes for more money, and the thread offering feedback on all of this, trying to effect a change, that I meticulously maintained and devoted my time and effort to was soon deleted for bogus reasons.

After a long and hard struggle that stretched out over weeks, I finally managed to get the thread reinstated - in the chatterbox. I was upset by the inappropriate placement, and that it was ever deleted at all given that there was no legitimate justification for it. My appeals to the moderators were met with being told I was "intentionally trying to rile of the forum" and "trolling" other users. While initially I was somewhat relieved to have all of my hard work returned to me, it quickly faded. Unanswered question were never responded to by the moderators, using the communication channels provided by the site (including the usertalk e-mail address) received no response in over a month, and the general absence of any accountability left me feeling entirely frustrated and detached from the site I once considered a home.

I stop logging in for a while, and the longer I was away the better it felt. I realize now that there is nothing left for me here, at least not now. There are some amazing people in this community, and it breaks my heart to see the way they are all being treated. I've never been a part of anything like Gaia, what I found here I have yet to see any other site reproduce for me. It was this amazing and unique experience that I still cherish, but now it's becoming like any other site.

The over-monetization of every aspect (including the postponing of long promised updates because they don't "generate their own revenue" wink is leaving many of your once loyal users disenfranchised. You are losing what made you, you. I'm not just talking about the new directions you've been taking, I'm also talking about the consequences of it, you are driving away the people that made this place great, from staff to community members. Somewhere deep down I still believe Gaia can be great again, but I don't see that time coming soon and it just hurts to much to continue to sit around and watch it fall without any power to stop it.

I've done what I can, I've given the most direct and insightful feedback I could manage, I tried to get involved in and help make this site better for everyone, but sadly I've come to believe that the problems we face here are not something the users can fix. There are serious failures on the part of management here, and until they either learn to shape up, or are replaced by others who can I don't see anything turning around.


Why it matters:

Because I'm not the only one.

People are leaving, even people who have been here for over 10 years are leaving. Just take a moment to let that soak in. Users who have not found anything compelling enough to make them leave in over a decade of being with this site, are now being driven off by these changes.

Look at the SF, this kind of negativity is only fueling a more destructive atmosphere. People feel like they're being ignored and manipulated. This place was once a strong community, now it's just a business transaction, and your customers aren't satisfied.

What's the feedback?:

Due to my experiences within the past year it seems necessary to spell this out in no uncertain terms. My personal experience can offer many insights into what's going wrong, my other megathread can provide specific examples of actions that are upsetting your users, but above all else my feedback with this thread is for you to start showing you care for your users.

It may be too late to stop me from going, but if you're willing to start placing a bit more concern on the impacts of your decisions have on the community you might be able to turn this thing around.

You don't have to sell your soul to make a profit, nor do you have to act like a charity, there is a middle ground. Gaia seems to have a taken a massive shift in direction, and yet it has failed to help it's community transition smoothly or be accountable for the fall out of it's actions.
They don't care if the non-gc buying userbase are leaving. We don't matter at all. Neither does the community matter. Many great people here and great feedback going ignored for months says a lot.
I might have to spend my time elsewhere too.

Tenacious Glitch

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Shame to see you go. I enjoyed reading your threads. But understandable. I felt like quitting myself yesterday. Darn zOMG! keeps me around.

Devout Cultist

Hello, first of all i was already sad, just being online here on gaia and in SF. But reading your story made me even sadder. You've been on gaia since '03 and i've been here since '07. I can't say i want to leave YET, I think it's because i'm waiting for a miracle turnaround.

Seeing how much you stood up and raised your voice, is so much more than i had anticipated from any user. Seeing that your huge topic was deleted angers me even more.

Just know that i'm happy that you're able to leave and be content about it.

I don't know what else to say, i'm sad and angry at gaia, and i'm still here, waiting for something...

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Sorry to hear you go.

Godspeed.

Dedicated Prophet

No wonder why I didn't see you post much. I always look forwards to your threads/ post because they're so insightful.


I wish you well.

I'll be taking my exit quite soon. But if you join another website please put it in your sig or on your profile. I'd really like to keep in touch.

Happy days my dear, your work here in the SF will always be appreciated.
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Kawaii Spirit

Yep, all my friends (all 03s and 04s) have already left. I'm the only one left from our group now. It's really, really sad.

Bibliophile

I'm very sad to see you go :/ I always enjoyed reading your threads and posts and was genuinely upset for you that your megathread got deleted. You put so much time and effort into that and it just got removed from existance for no reason at all.

I hope you find a place where the clientele is more appreciated and that your insights get the attention they deserve.

I wish all the best to you~ heart

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It's usually disappointing to see users go, but even more so when it's a user who tried to work with Gaia, tried to give Gaia the feedback it needs, in amounts of detail most users can't even be bothered to attempt to say. Just for Gaia to not even halfway attempt to take their feedback to heart, and they pull what truly looks like an attempt to get that user to shut up to keep other users uninformed with what's really going on. It's situations like this that only serve to reinforce the view that Gaia isn't listening or doesn't care about it's users/customers and only desires to make money in the quickest way possible, no matter who it may hurt. I truly don't think Gaia itself has ever realized that on a site like this, people develop an emotional attachment to it and the people working behind the scenes. And that's most disappointing out of the whole thing.

I hope whatever new site(s) you find on your travels, don't wind up performing like Gaia is now in their future(s).
I wish I could say your story was unique, but its not. Gaia has done a lot to push out a lot of its old, loyal members. I have been debating leaving for months now, and the only thing currently keeping me here is my friends. The sad thing is that is the same reason most of my friends are hanging around. Eventually however, there comes a point though when the negativity becomes greater than even that drive.

Like you, I a came to the conclusion that things simply won't change under the current management. Thankfully the positions in question tend to be ones short lived, but there is no telling if Gaia will last long enough to see better days. Until them, I find myself thinking a long term hiatus is the only real option.

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I hate to see you leave, but alas I too have come to the same conclusion...
time for another 3 year hiatus, Gaia is getting overboard with this madness.
I have a few friends here that keep me around, but even they don't get on as much.
The last straw is ready to fall.

Perfect Saint

It does suck to see you go. You've made great points regarding the economic issues of the site and I can understand your frustration. While I'm personally vacillating between sides often, I fear the ultimate sentiment and resolution of any member tired of Gaia is your path.
I wish you well.

Sweet Spook

Sad to see 'em roll out. Good luck in your next endeavors though, where ever they might lead you. I've often danced the line of quitting this forsaken zone but as a nine year user on my first account this damn site has a sentimental string still tugging me along. I don't get it myself but I guess I'm so done with the site I just sit here watching it rot until it takes its' last breath.

I understand the frustration though, Gaia's changing and we seem to have little impact. It angers me and yet makes me want to shove on since hey, I'm a stubborn a**, it's my job. Look what you're doing Gaia, good, old users are packing up and leaving you or simply losing the urge to fight your late fit of crumminess. It's tiresome the way they seem to be acting now, I share a part of the exhaustion this site gives.

Wind-up Waffles

Hate to see you go. Your threads, including this one, are thoughtful and proactive. Whether moved or deleted, they remain powerful. Your absence will mean the loss of an important resource.

The community of like minds aside, I think your efforts have been wasted on this site since this last summer. Since then, a dollar has weighed more than a single voice, and let's face it, once a business stuffs its ears with money, there's little chance of going back.

You've put up a valiant effort. Please don't look at leaving as a failure; failure is impossible where winning is also impossible. But please remember that your voice mattered to your community. I've taken some hope from it, and threads like yours have given me a sense of resolve to stay. So thank you. I think that wherever you go next will benefit from your presence. smile

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I hate to see you go... but I'm just about there with you. Today with the coin flip was kind of the last straw for me. I'm enraged that items that I scrimped and saved for (yes, even though they are JUST pixels) are being re-released. It's making the site a lot less fun. Unless you have hundreds of REAL dollars to give gaia every month it feels like we don't matter.

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