Masturbation feels like a chore

[Za The SITUASIAN]

DUDE! I have gone through the exact same thing that your going through right now. Except for the stepsister ordeal. Once masturbation stops being fun you should probably lay off of it until you can get that fun and excitement back. I would talk to my lady friends who I know like me, and purposely get them to talk to me about sexual things so I can masturbate to it and then afterwards I would feel like s**t. And by doing that I'm sending mixed signals to her and confusing her and the relationship gets a bit awkward here and there. It just doesn't feel good.


Sometimes it would make me wish that I was one of those asexual people and for my hormones to go away and stop acting so crazy. I'm like you. I'm a nice guy and all...But once my hormones are kicked up a notch I get crazy and would do anything just to bust this ******** nut. And then the feeling of "GAWWWWD I AM SUCH A PATHETIC PERSON" comes flushing in. Here's what you should do. You should stop fapping. Try to stop for a month. Start off with a week. Look; you'll get erections here and there. Almost everyday. But just pee and it'll probably go away. Distract yourself. You will slowly give yourself blue balls. And when your body can't hold back anymore; masturbate and drain your genitals of semen and that feeling of fapping and feeling good will come back and it won't feel like a chore anymore. Stop masturbating so much. Once a week or something. And if you can do better; have someone get you off. AKA get a girlfriend or someone willing to get you off.


Stop masturbating so much. Masturbating too much is bad for your health. Doing too much of anything is bad for your health. Lay off for a bit and you'll feel better. Er. Feel good enough to masturbate and not have it feel like a chore. Hope this helps.

[PeachyPosterior]

DAY-TO-DAYWHEREDOYOUWANTTOBE?
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[Lord of the Vine]

Since no one else has asked yet, how often do you masturbate?

[cure-e-aw-sit-e]

Dion Necurat

Since no one else has asked yet, how often do you masturbate?

I try to keep it limited, mostly 3 times a week, max 5 times. twice in one day is my limit.

[cure-e-aw-sit-e]

Online Fire Fox

Get a girlfriend and some condoms problem solved.

Eh, last girlfriend I had was a crazy b***h who tried to hook up with my bestfriend (after we broke up) when he was in a relationship, soooo gonna lay off that for a while ;p.

[Lord of the Vine]

iUbiquity

Dion Necurat

Since no one else has asked yet, how often do you masturbate?

I try to keep it limited, mostly 3 times a week, max 5 times. twice in one day is my limit.

...That's...really not all that frequent. Not really what I was expecting, anyway.

Keep it to one wank a day WHEN you masturbate, an three times a week. Each time, try something different.

[Xedhadeaus]

Lol....
I was like damn, he must have it bad until I saw how often it wasn't.

I understand about the urges, I used to have them so much and would damn near embarrass myself physically. Then it just stopped. Maybe because I'm not around any interesting girls anymore. It used to get stuck in my head all day, oh that girl in the hallway with the mean butt, or, I saw her fix her waistline she has practically nothing on. Or in gym where some girls don't wear underwear with their loose short shorts... when they fall and I catch a glance.

it's just not there anymore. At least until I wish I had the luxury of experiencing that.

I wouldn't call your situation a problem, a girl you feel attractive is constantly right under your nose constantly... you shouldn't consider her fair game... there's books for that. I have done that phone s**t before, sometimes it works, others it just makes me jealous. I'm just glad I don't get touchy feely when I'm enticed, I just sort of hug the wall and become numb all over until something makes me want to cry or it ends. It sucks but if I ever tried to take matters into my own hands I'd end up really creepy.

[The War in Chiraq]

Za The SITUASIAN

DUDE! I have gone through the exact same thing that your going through right now. Except for the stepsister ordeal. Once masturbation stops being fun you should probably lay off of it until you can get that fun and excitement back. I would talk to my lady friends who I know like me, and purposely get them to talk to me about sexual things so I can masturbate to it and then afterwards I would feel like s**t. And by doing that I'm sending mixed signals to her and confusing her and the relationship gets a bit awkward here and there. It just doesn't feel good.


Sometimes it would make me wish that I was one of those asexual people and for my hormones to go away and stop acting so crazy. I'm like you. I'm a nice guy and all...But once my hormones are kicked up a notch I get crazy and would do anything just to bust this ******** nut. And then the feeling of "GAWWWWD I AM SUCH A PATHETIC PERSON" comes flushing in. Here's what you should do. You should stop fapping. Try to stop for a month. Start off with a week. Look; you'll get erections here and there. Almost everyday. But just pee and it'll probably go away. Distract yourself. You will slowly give yourself blue balls. And when your body can't hold back anymore; masturbate and drain your genitals of semen and that feeling of fapping and feeling good will come back and it won't feel like a chore anymore. Stop masturbating so much. Once a week or something. And if you can do better; have someone get you off. AKA get a girlfriend or someone willing to get you off.


Stop masturbating so much. Masturbating too much is bad for your health. Doing too much of anything is bad for your health. Lay off for a bit and you'll feel better. Er. Feel good enough to masturbate and not have it feel like a chore. Hope this helps.

Thanks for that information. I really hate to say this but I have this problem aswell. It's gotten to the point where I feel bad and guilty. It makes me feel sick about myself. The things is. I don't want to do this anymore but I can't stop. The urge just takes me over. Please help.

[awwbby]

☆.。.:*・◇ Maybe try taking a really long break from it. I know what you mean though except sometimes I end up crying because I feel dirty and like s**t so it kinda ruins the whole purpose. Focus on something else for a while though. ◆☆.。.:*・

[Overactive Tree]

Exercise a lot. Seriously.

[cure-e-aw-sit-e]

Overactive Tree

Exercise a lot. Seriously.

I was in swimming and water polo :p Until recently I quit because season was over and it's my senior year.

[cure-e-aw-sit-e]

Sprite the Hobo

☆.。.:*・◇ Maybe try taking a really long break from it. I know what you mean though except sometimes I end up crying because I feel dirty and like s**t so it kinda ruins the whole purpose. Focus on something else for a while though. ◆☆.。.:*・

Yeh that' what I've been trying to do, trying to keep my mind off of it. Longest I've taken a break(which was like a month ago) was one week xD.