My Little Spider Friend
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- Posted: Thu, 30 Oct 2014 04:05:48 +0000
Hey. So um, I have this LDR boyfriend. He's amazing. Guess what? I want to meet him. However instead of him coming here and us having to spend 2-3x more money during Christmas break, his parents agreed it would be much better, and more pleasant (since his parents adore me) if I were to go there. This is a little tricky for me, though, as I have to ask my traditional Portuguese parents. My dad, as awesome as he is, believes I'm sensible enough. However, legally, I'm under my moms care (due to a divorce). One down, one to go. Shouldn't be so hard, right? Wrong. When I told my mom about my boyfriend in the USA (I live in Canada), she laughed at me. She literally laughed in my face. This is my problem... I don't know how to ask her, and well, I really want to meet him. I'm legally old enough to fly alone on Air Canada, as the age of consent here is 16, and I'm 17.
It's either I gain enough courage to ask her and probably be humiliated, or I wait until the long weekend of my birthday (first week of April) to go.
But I don't want to wait that long, neither does he.
Of course, if that was our only option we'll choose it, but for now, can anyone help or give advice/experience?
Thank you so much.
Edit;; It's more expensive for him to come here because of hotel cost, transport, etc. If I go there I can stay with his parents.
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It's either I gain enough courage to ask her and probably be humiliated, or I wait until the long weekend of my birthday (first week of April) to go.
But I don't want to wait that long, neither does he.
Of course, if that was our only option we'll choose it, but for now, can anyone help or give advice/experience?
Thank you so much.
Edit;; It's more expensive for him to come here because of hotel cost, transport, etc. If I go there I can stay with his parents.
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