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Report | 03/10/2011 8:23 am

Shoopuffs

If 70 people donated 100k I'd have my horns back.

If 70 people donated 100k I'd have my horns back.


He is really all I have left.
After high school pretty much every friend I had disappeared.
The only person I ever really loved before him committed suicide on his birthday last November.
I think about him everyday now.
I seem to be drawn to the type of guys that aren't completely stable.
I love my husband though.
I can't imagine being with anyone else at this point either really.
If I had luck, I wouldn't need help.



If I had luck, I wouldn't need help.

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Report | 03/09/2011 10:02 pm

Shoopuffs

If 70 people donated 100k I'd have my horns back.


Because he had nothing better to do.
No really.
That is why.
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I tried to talk him out of it before he actually left for he military.
You can cancel your contract up until you go to basic, and you can get out up until AIT.
(least I'm pretty sure you can.)
He insisted on sticking with it.
Until of course he got to AIT and decided he couldn't stand it anymore.
Which pissed me off like you wouldn't believe because he and I both knew by that point there was no just "getting out."

He is legitimately emotionally unstable, and it has gotten significantly worse since he has been in.
He goes to therapist at least once a month now, and is on a nondeployable profile.
He has to take medication now daily, to keep himself from acting like a complete a**, and to help him sleep.
It's really sad I think, and I really feel like this all could have been avoided if he had made up his mind sooner.
I don't want to say the military is awful, but it does awful things to people.
If I had luck, I wouldn't need help.

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Report | 03/09/2011 7:22 am

Shoopuffs

If 70 people donated 100k I'd have my horns back.

xD
Indeed.
He is getting cranky though because he is a paratrooper.
(I'm sure you are familiar with the term.)
He has to do a jump today, so when he came in after PT he was all miffed about it and talking about how he wouldn't be home tonight.
I hope that doesn't interfere with the 24hour CQ he is supposed to have tomorrow.
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Report | 03/08/2011 10:24 pm

Shoopuffs

If 70 people donated 100k I'd have my horns back.

Exactly one of our friends he works with, lives off post with her husband (who is also in the military)
She was talking about how much easier it is coming home and not being in that environment.
I agree.
The fact that I am not even allowed to be here right now always puts me on edge.
So hopefully it will help both of us out.
If I had luck, I wouldn't need help.

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Report | 03/08/2011 10:08 pm

Shoopuffs

If 70 people donated 100k I'd have my horns back.

He is generally a hard person to get along with.
Which I realize that is a terrible thing to say about your spouse, but it is true.
When all he wants to do is come home and sleep or play my X-box and ignore me, I get a little miffed.
I can understand being sleepy you now but you don't have to be a butthead about it.
We are supposed to go look at apartments this weekend.
It's my hope that once we start living off post things will get easier.
If I had luck, I wouldn't need help.

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Report | 03/08/2011 9:59 pm

Shoopuffs

xD I know the feeling.

I just saw your other comment and yes I agree.
Having a family and/or trying to start one while in the military is hard.
I know with my husband he always comes home so stressed out, and we never seem to have time to do anything.
It really puts a strain on our relationship.
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Report | 03/08/2011 9:49 pm

Shoopuffs

If 70 people donated 100k I'd have my horns back.

Lol yes it meant through June.
Thank You so much!
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Report | 03/08/2011 8:39 am

Shoopuffs

If 70 people donated 100k I'd have my horns back.

It's pretty lonely.
I mean I have my lap top, and various video gaming consoles.
I try to sleep while he is at work usually, that way we can spend more time together.
Money is tight though, the military doesn't pay that well so we don't get to go out and do things much.
I don't mind it really, just so long as we are spending time together.
If I had luck, I wouldn't need help.

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Report | 03/08/2011 8:31 am

Shoopuffs

If 70 people donated 100k I'd have my horns back.

No, I don't get to much.
He works a lot and since he wreaked my car, he has to only drivable vehicle.
I do get to go off post on the weekends though, but that is only if he feels like it.
If I had luck, I wouldn't need help.

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Report | 03/08/2011 8:12 am

Shoopuffs

There is really no telling lol.
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Report | 03/08/2011 8:07 am

Shoopuffs

If 70 people donated 100k I'd have my horns back.

I lived in a rural area when I was little and when I got older we moved into the city.
We never were close to any corner stores though, just gas stations, and restaurants.
If I had luck, I wouldn't need help.

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Report | 03/08/2011 8:02 am

Shoopuffs

If 70 people donated 100k I'd have my horns back.

OH!
We have something like that.
Or at least I have had something that sounds like that.
It's dry and salty?
My mother used to buy ham that came in a glass jar, it was extremely thin and salty.
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Report | 03/08/2011 7:55 am

Shoopuffs

If 70 people donated 100k I'd have my horns back.

Chipped ham and brick cheese.
Are they just like made differently or something?
What makes them different?
Ham and cheese does sound lovely though.
I like swiss cheese myself, and provolone, those are like the only two though lol.
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Report | 03/08/2011 7:50 am

Shoopuffs

If 70 people donated 100k I'd have my horns back.

I suppose it would make sense if they were all the same.
A Northern thing.
lol
Maybe that is why I have no idea what it is.
That or the fact that I dislike milk products.
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Report | 03/08/2011 7:46 am

Shoopuffs

If 70 people donated 100k I'd have my horns back.

The one we go to has the little deli with sushi right at the door.
I'm thinking that is the south post one.
Either way lol.
Brick cheese?
Is it that just like a big block of cheese?
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Report | 03/08/2011 7:36 am

Shoopuffs

If 70 people donated 100k I'd have my horns back.

I the think the one we got to is the south post one, its right next to a bank and it's almost off post.
They have the chocolate moose yogurt I like so much there.
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Report | 03/07/2011 10:28 pm

Shoopuffs

I am actually on base right now.
We are still in the process of getting on his BAH and BAS started so we can get an apartment.
I am secretly staying with him in his barracks.
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Report | 03/07/2011 9:17 pm

Shoopuffs

If 70 people donated 100k I'd have my horns back.

Well I got robbed for the first time while I was here xD
The people here seem to be pretty rude.
The military always makes me nervous.
And the Taco bell near here that I go to charges me for extra sauce but then never gives me any.
xDDDD
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Report | 03/07/2011 9:12 pm

Shoopuffs

If 70 people donated 100k I'd have my horns back.

He is.
I figured your parents might be too, no other reason I could think for anyone to be born here lol.
I am totally mind boggled that there is actually someone I am familiar with here.
I am originally from Alabama.
I just moved out here to be with him in November.
If I had luck, I wouldn't need help.

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Report | 03/07/2011 9:04 pm

Shoopuffs

If 70 people donated 100k I'd have my horns back.

No way!
I'm in Fayetteville!
That is so cool.
xD
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