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Last Login: 06/30/2016 8:49 pm

Registered: 08/19/2013

Gender: Female

Birthday: 03/11

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Kara. 18. Christian. Artist. Dreamer.

Sweet, caring, and easy-going. Loves video games and drawing. Total science geek and anime freak. Youtube is the place to be. Gaia is the place to be free. Visit my Deviant.
Hit me up, if you fancy that, and have a chill day~

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Classy_Clarinet Report | 06/02/2016 7:33 pm
My apologies for the long awaited reply. I've been busy with work and the wedding.

As for my age, I'm only 23 - but many people believe I'm much older. Things have been going a lot smoother since we have been living together for the past month. You're fortunate that there isn't much care when it comes to parents and their opinions about co-ed living. Also, I'm sorry for venting out my frustrations about that situation. As for the wedding, everything went extremely well. Only 40 or so people made it, which was great and dandy for me. My friends and family loved the location, the decorations, and told me how it was truly my wedding.

I did cry. I cried when my husband and I did the "first look" thing and had that private moment together. We both wrote each other a letter and I cried reading that.

I hope your finals went well, I hope you have successfully finished all your exams with your head held high. I hope that things have eased up for you since our last conversation. Please take care and enjoy the summer!
Purlchan Report | 05/07/2016 12:43 am
I am doing lovely today~ *Giggly*
Just being my usual naughty self~ =^ u ^= So happy it's finally warm out! heart heart heart
Classy_Clarinet Report | 05/06/2016 11:05 pm
It's quite alright. I was living without WiFi for the longest time, so no need to worry.

I love the condo! It's great! However, the patch work from the previous tenants suck, but I guess that's a curse my fiance and I have when it comes to detail in the walls. Other than that its pretty darn nice...except for the rust in the washer that needs to be taken care of by the landlord. As of right now, we both are not completely moved in. I, on the other hand, am the only one occupying the space at the moment because I am closer to work and I don't want to keep driving an hour to and from my moms place. MY fiance still isn't moved in because he's battling some issues with his parents. Sine they believe he shouldn't live with me while we aren't married yet - however, he's the one who is technically paying for the place because I just started my career and he's been in his for a year now. So money is one thing and another thing is that he is tired of the s**t he gets while living with them. So, with all this going on - the place is pretty bare still with barely any decor. I believe the kitchen area is the only place that is more complete than any other room. I know we won't be truly settled until I can bring my cat in to live with us.

As for the wedding, it's like we barely have anything done and it's coming up. We are both extremely stressed and have been thinking why don't we just elope at the courthouse? I mean really, its so difficult and with his parents acting the way they are, its even more of a pain. Both his parents have different reasons; his dad basically voluntarily secludes himself from anything the family is doing. In this case, he blamed his son and I for not telling him anything when in reality, we have told him a couple times about the wedding and what not. His mom is just too damn attached. At this point I have asked myself - what am I getting myself into? Am I really going to be happy living like this? I've talked to my mom about this and she said my thoughts are normal but something in me really thinks that I shouldn't be doing this. But at the same time I really love my fiance. All in all - we both want everything to be over. We are getting to the point where we want to be left alone for a good long time.

Cry? In all honesty, I cry a lot anymore. Either I have become "one" with my emotions or I'm just extremely stressed out and worried that I cry anymore due to relieve all that tension. Well, I'm hoping my grandma doesn't talk because the art gallery where the ceremony and reception are held will echo. She was talking the whole time during my brothers wedding and even talking about divorce. I'll be so pissed and embarrassed if she did that. I kind of just want to cancel the wedding all together and just run away. Everyone is being just such an a*****e...pardon me but really my fiance and I just feel so bombarded with crap that is so unnecessary.

I'm sorry for this vent-like post and how it may be so negative and I don't want you to feel sorry that you asked. I'm just going through so many emotions. The only place where I feel better is going to work or when my fiance decides to stop and have dinner with me. I just don't want to deal with anyone here around my hood, if you catch my...bouquet. emotion_facepalm I'm trying to be funny to ease this convo.

Hopefully summer will be easy and fun for you. I hope you do well in school! Cheers to you! cheese_whine
Classy_Clarinet Report | 04/15/2016 5:58 pm
Well, I hope your house hunting goes well. It's always best to take things slowly and as stress free as possible...but that's not so easy when you have to plan a wedding in about 40 days. gonk

Yes, our condo will be inspected thoroughly. The kind lady in the office told us about how the previous owners took really great care of the place and is sure nothing will be too bad. I believe that they will repaint and clean the space before we move in. My fiance and I have at least two full weeks before we are able to get the key. I'm going to start to box everything up and live on my work uniform and a couple clothes that I can recycle in the laundry.
Classy_Clarinet Report | 04/12/2016 1:24 pm
Good luck with your house hunt! That is if you got the house, then congrats!

My fiance and I have recently (as of last month) been given the "okay" to move into a pretty nice condo close to our work locations. It was very nerve wracking because we basically put "all of our eggs in one basket," as my parents say when it came to applying to the place.
Purlchan Report | 03/22/2016 10:43 am
Hi cutie~ heart heart heart
=^ u ^= How are you?! : D
Classy_Clarinet Report | 02/28/2016 1:08 pm
In 2008, I was diagnosed with severe migraines. With that being said, every 4 years, I need to get two shots in the bum to tame the migraines. Of course they come around every now and then but I'm thinking that I'm overdue for another round. The primary causes for my migraines are normally UV rays. I cannot be outside for extended periods of time without proper eye-wear and a hat (which I hate wearing). This is an extreme bummer for me because I love to hike out in the woods or stroll around the neighboring parks. I hope I don't ever get another migraine as bad as that one in the near future.

I hope you pass your midterms. I remember spring semester always seemed to fly by. I suppose the warmth of the sun and it being brighter out made college more bearable. What sort of recipes have you liked? I am not much of a chef, my fiance is and I'm more or less his assistant. I hope you have a wonderful time at the anime convention! I'm hoping that my fiance and I can attend one sometime. We've never attended one in our lifetime. Are you going to cosplay?

Anything new for me? I've been overwhelmed with wedding plans and commission work. Mostly, wedding plans. I don't even have the invites ready for the bridal shower and the main event itself! So, I'm working on those right now....while chatting with other Gaians, another way for me to be distracted. xp
Purlchan Report | 02/27/2016 7:27 pm
Oh not much~ =^ u ^= Heehee~ I have been occupied with T-chan~ We have been making time to be intimate. Work has been taking over our lives and we had to change that! XD
Purlchan Report | 02/27/2016 6:53 pm
oh no you are not offensive at all. X3 I love parties!
and yes I have been lazy all day. Sitting on the couch eating grapes! XD haha.
I love being cuddly with T-chan~ =^ u ^= Makes me happy! heart
Purlchan Report | 02/27/2016 5:45 pm
No no no! => u <= *Giggly* None of my friends are having parties right now. XD I don't host parties, I just go to them when I my friends throw them! XD heart
 

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